2007-11-26 10:49:19 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Fortunately I didn't have to. I understand that this will happen more often now.
2007-11-26 10:53:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
On our Honeymoon night we moved directly in with my elderly grandparents, they had a two bed-roomed house, and on our wedding night, my elderly gran came in to our bedroom (without knocking on the door, catching my guy, stark naked) and in her hands, for me, she had a full length flannelet nightie, buttoned right up to the neck, a pair of bed-socks, and a hot water bottle and told me what a cold night it was, and she told me that I was to wear all of this, my new hubby started laughing until my step-grandad came into the room and gave him a pair of flannelet long-johns with a 'button-up' bum section, at the back, we wore them as a laugh ! (for about an hour ) and looked like your typical 'hillbillies', but that night we couldn't do anything for fear of the bed springs squeaking ! and embarrassment.. why I don't know..
In the morning, my elderly grandparents, commented on how quiet we'd been, ( we again laughed cause we had forgotten they were both 'completely deaf, anyway') But what got us laughing was my grans comment the morning after, she said she's forgotten to mention that she's left a 'poe' under the bed, had we got caught short (wanted a pee ! ) during the night...
So the answer to your question is... NO... get a place on your own, or forever have 'warm', safe-sex..(or no sex) !!! absolutely do not live with parents, in-laws or grandparents, it never works..
a friend x (female)
2007-11-26 11:16:47 · answer #2 · answered by CARAMAC 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't. There is a time in life for that, and thats called childhood. But when you are older or married that's when It's your turn to go and live life and not depend on your parents.
2007-11-26 10:54:57 · answer #3 · answered by emmyapple 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did for a while after i was first married. Our flat was up lots of steep stairs and when I was pregnant I was all alone during the day, and everyone said it was too dangerous etc so we moved back for a couple of months til we got a house.
2007-11-26 10:53:04 · answer #4 · answered by jeanimus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my day when renting property or council housing was impossible it was the done thing. This allowed you to save up towards the deposit for your own home. However, I would never ever recommend it as a way to start married life.
2007-11-26 10:53:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but some people do, and I cannot understand it. I had to stay with my woman's parents for a few days when we traveled to visit them out of state. It was a very uncomfortable setting. I cannot imagine living like that.
2007-11-26 10:54:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You could marry one of your parents and that would settle the whole thing.
Then your husband could be your child's grandfather.
I'm afraid if you have to ask such a question you are probably too immature or not prepared to get married.
Or maybe both!
2007-11-26 10:56:03 · answer #7 · answered by hoovarted 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOOOOO, and NOOOO!!!
Unless I really didn't have the financial means to live on my own, which in that case why get married when you are not ready to start a life together... just do it when the timing is right.
2007-11-26 10:52:07 · answer #8 · answered by Shelley S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends.
I would not live with them as a parasite in their home and let them take care of me.
I would let them live with me if they were old and needed taking care of. I owe them that much!
If a disaster happened, like my husband died or something horrible happened, I might consider it. That is what family is for.
But if you are not able to support yourseves at least in part, then you are not ready to marry.
2007-11-26 10:58:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm already married. To be honest if we had a big enough house I'd rather have my inlaws live with us because we are closer to them, and I could help them out financially.
2007-11-26 10:52:45 · answer #10 · answered by Janey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely not - I think being financially independent is the first step towards knowing you are ready to be married
2007-11-26 10:53:44 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋