She was my best friend and she did something really mean to me and I cant write it or talk to anyone about it. I just hate her so much! How do I get back at her
About her:
She is beautiful, used to be my best friend, is POPULAR, doesnt have a boyfriend, and isnt easy to embarrase.
I dont want to hurt her physiclly, I would never want to hurt any one like that. I just want to hurt her emotionaly. What do I do? And I know I really want to get back at her.
2007-11-26 10:39:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Will not reacting make her upset or hurt her? Or will she not notice? I want her to notice and I want her to feel like I did when she hurt me.
2007-11-26 10:48:22 · update #1
Okay at first i said ignore her and dont sink to her level. Then I saw that everyone is telling you that and you might just want to be a B*tch for once in your life. If that is what you want then find out who she likes and make her out to be a big whore. I mean she is your best friend so obviously people will believe what ever it is that you say. I know you said she doesnt embarass easy but make someone out to be a slut who isnt and it gets to them especially if its someone she really likes.
2007-11-26 10:44:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Walk away and ignore her.
Go find new and more mature friends to hang out with.
Living well is the best revenge.
At some point, you need to evaluate each relationship and ask, "What does this person bring to the table?" Is this person a mooch? A user? A manipulator? A drama-queen? A time-waster? Or is this person your cheering section? Provide insight? Make you laugh?
As you go down the list of traits and how each thing makes you feel, you will know who you should be spending more time with.
2007-11-26 18:43:19 · answer #2 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! She must have done something pretty bad. Getting back at someone just makes you look bad. I would start hanging out with a more popular crowd. Ignore her, smile at her and kill her with kindness. That means, act like you could care less she's alive. That drives people nuts. Hold your head high and when you see her remember, you are better than her, because you would have never done whatever she did to you to her!
2007-11-26 19:02:07 · answer #3 · answered by ijustdon'tknow 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best way to get her back is simply by just not reacting. I know it may be tough, but ignoring her and her remarks is the best way to get back at her. THe more you ignore her, the more she will try to make you feel bad. Keep ignoring her, and one day, she will eventually stop because she will know that she will get no response out of you.
2007-11-26 18:44:00 · answer #4 · answered by EunYoung L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be the bigger, better person and wipe away the past off your shoulders--fighting fire w/ fire=a bigger fire. put some water on it and walk away like it was yesterday's news :) best of luck
2007-11-26 18:49:07 · answer #5 · answered by ♫мυѕι¢♫ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 wrongs dont make a right
but still just spill all her secrets, if ur that mad @ her
2007-11-26 18:42:42 · answer #6 · answered by !!! 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
two wrongs dont make a right
2007-11-26 18:44:50 · answer #7 · answered by Promise 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't know what she did to you so I can't give you an answer.
2007-11-26 18:43:08 · answer #8 · answered by HDGranny 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋