Family & Relationships - 26 November 2007

I am married for 7 Years (10 years of relationship). We went to India for 4 months to Visit his Parents 1st time. I went to live at my relatives because I was very uncomfortable with his family (they always mibehaved with me but I still spent 2 weeks there somehow)...Suddenly our life went haywire. I found out from my Cousins roommate that my husband has been seeing my cousin at her place& spent nights there and that they even went out to hill station for a week. She gave me thier boarding pass as a proof. I only took my cousin along with me once to introduce my husband. And I never knew when they exchanged thier phone no. I had stayed with my cousin for a week and she took me to all the Pubs where we drank and smoked bcos I dont get to do all this with my husband so I wanted to enjoy the week. I told her its secret between us. She told him everything to get closer to him. I am very heart broken and we are playing blame games. He says i hide things from me,I say u slept with my cousin.

2007-11-26 17:15:48 · 10 answers · asked by Lilsasha 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-26 17:15:00 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-26 17:13:39 · 28 answers · asked by me_ 2 in Family

My best friend is feeling sad lately. Her boyfriend ditched her! I wanna cheer her up...doing a card for her but dunno the choices of words that will be the most appropriate for her now.
Basically i just want her to move on...
Help me please.....i'll be miting her in 2hours time.

2007-11-26 17:09:47 · 6 answers · asked by ::AsH:: 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Other than curl up on the couch (which in its own right is aaammmaaaazzzziiinnngggg) any ideas?

2007-11-26 17:02:49 · 7 answers · asked by WisconsinChik 1 in Singles & Dating

Im sleepy, and i have to go to school tomorrow! goodnight!

2007-11-26 17:01:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

We met around new years, she is 20, im 19, and she had a BF at the time, so we were friends. In 2 weeks I started falling for her, it was crazy, she was my first love, and with her i learned what love is, so we went to a party one day, I didnt tell her nothing about how i was feeling untill she kissed a friend of mine when we were leaving the party, infront of me (she was still with her BF at that time) , we were with her car, so we got in, n i was mad, lol, i told her how i felt n we talked for about 1/2 hr infront of my house, n she told me she sees us as friends. We didnt stop hanging out, because she would call me, n would wanna hang out, n even thought i was waiting for her to call, i really loved going out with her, or anything, just staying at her house with her family. We kissed a week later, and from then, it just went from kissing, to all the other stuff, n she still was seeing her BF, but not like before, 24/7 she would be with me. We were pretty good, the first two months.

2007-11-26 17:00:01 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

The kids would love to be with him...but you know they'll end up with me (which is what I want, but maybe not them)...I don't make enough to keep my house....I'll probably end up selleing it after I paid his cousins about 25 thousand dollars to fix it up, not including the other 30 thousand I spent on material...now his house is vacent and he's announced he's moving into it....I sold my other house and used the $$ to fix this one....I hate him and I don't even know what my question is...but I just want him gone asap!!! Because he makes me feel like crap and I need to move on...........

2007-11-26 16:59:25 · 7 answers · asked by 123..WAIT! 5 in Marriage & Divorce

i caught my marine husband cheatin and i want to get him in big trouble on base..and i want to know wat rank should i go to in his company or battalion??? Please let me know the good stuff, he's tryin to get out of paying me alimony!!!!!

2007-11-26 16:58:08 · 11 answers · asked by DA-MRS 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-26 16:54:19 · 9 answers · asked by Pen 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

My fiance and I are not getting married until July 2009. We made the mistake of choosing our wedding party way to far in advance. Since we asked them, we have broken off friendships with all three of the groomsmen and then we made amends with them all. But even though we are all friends again, we are still unsure about whether to have them in the wedding party or not. Furthermore, my Maid of Honor is getting married this summer. When I asked her to be my MOH, she replied with, "Yeah, if you will be mine!" That was before they had set a date. Now that their wedding planning has gone into action, she officially asked me to be a bridesmaid. What's more, her maid of honor is my fiance's ex-girlfriend - and my ex-boyfriend's new girlfriend (small world). My ex is a groomsman in her wedding too. My fiance and I would rather not be around either of our exes, and my fiance is not even in the wedding party. I am very hurt by my friend's choice of her wedding party. How should I deal with this?

2007-11-26 16:53:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My best friend has left our school and me and my friends are really annoyed, because she didnt tell us. The first thing was the the 6 of us got split into our homegroups, 4 of us in 1 and 2 in the other. The friend who left was in the 2 person class and she started avoiding us, becoming distant. Then she didnt turn up for a while and she wouldnt return any of our calls or txts or emails, and we were getting really worried cause she had recently moved house but hadnt given us her address, just her phone number. Then we were told she had left the school and now one friend is left by herself cause its to late to change groups and we're upset cause she didn't tell us. Then suddenley out of the blue yesterday she txted me saying 'hehe...I'm coming friday lunchtime', like it was a joke! we're all fuming and we've thought about how she felt, but she should've taken us into consideration as well and now i dont know what to do. What should i say when i see her, apart from asking why?

2007-11-26 16:53:13 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

are you in love? i wish i was :(. i wish someone would love me :(. who do you love?

2007-11-26 16:50:37 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I worked with a bank for the past few weeks.I dun work there but I worked in their office for some reasons.I saw this tall fair skinned guy and I was attracted to him.We had some eye contact and once I was locked outside and he came to help me open the door.Later on I bumped into an old friend who works there and he said that guy (E) is the son of the big boss of the dpmt.He's very rich and not married.He's only 32 but already very successful.He graduated from an imperial uni in the States.He drives a Porsche.He was even on magazines a few times!At first I wanted to add him on facebook or sth.Now I find it odd...since he's so rich...I dun wanna be one of those gals...you know.... should I just add him?But Im really afraid hes gonna think that I add him coz I know hes the son of the boss...coz they have the same family name obviously.

2007-11-26 16:49:26 · 3 answers · asked by Lisa C 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Im having some roommate trouble. I live together with 3 other guys. The guy that I live with is never here so I have my own room while the other two guys share a room. One of them is very similar to me because we have a lot of the same interests and personality. The other one is very different. I am not as close to him, but we get along with fine. When we first met, we hung out all the time and everything was fine. However not to long ago, the one im not very close to talked the other one into living with him, his brother, and cousin next year without asking me. At first I was upset about this but I got over it. However ever since then I always felt more like a third wheel then part of the group. The guy I was close to is starting to become more like the other one. I have been avoiding them, but that just seems to make it worse. What should I do? Should I confront them about it or should I just move on? Any advice would be great. Thank You.

2007-11-26 16:48:54 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

his family is really strict, and he has an abusive dad
so one day, his mom was driving along, and saw us walking home together. She gave me a glare, picked him up, and i was alone the rain. then he got in BIG trouble when he got home...so now his parents hate me because they think im a
bad influence. im trying to get them to like me...but all i get
are glares. My boyfriend is really sweet, and he's trying his best to help us in this situation. I feel really bad now. what should i do? he's not allowed to see me or contact me anymore!

2007-11-26 16:45:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-11-26 16:42:52 · 31 answers · asked by jra60411 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been acting like im 20 lately...getting drunk, not doing what i'm supposed to do...i even have a FWB type thing going on which is not like me. I'm nervous. I have a good job, i'm in grad school, I have big new responsibilities at work. I was married once before, that was over by 25...i just cant seem to get myself to grow up....i feel like i want to move away from everything and everyone. I have gone to therapy before. I dont know if i'm depressed...i'm just afriad my life will be like this forever. Everyone i know is getting married and having kids.

2007-11-26 16:37:18 · 27 answers · asked by Lilly d 1 in Marriage & Divorce

well i continuously hurting my dad, mom, and sister feeling. I talk with no respect toward my dad and i always get mad at him easily. I tried not to but in the end i always being rude to him.I know i am wrong but i just can't help it. With my mom i talk rude without realizing that i am being rude. I always made her sad because i dont have any friend at my new school. Well i do but no one to hang with. She always want me to pay attention to my appearance which i couldn't care less. I also tell her if i have problems especially when i fight with my sister. She has high blood pressure but i always forget it is as if all i care is my own feeling and how i got hurt. With my sister i always have this mood swing especially when i hang with her and her friends. I mad because she doesnt pay attention to me, all she cares is her friends. i embarrassed her by making them see me as this girl who mad without reason. Now she doesnt want to bring me along as much which make me feel lonely, cont.

2007-11-26 16:35:04 · 3 answers · asked by itsme 2 in Family

first sign.
1)a gatorade bottle with greenish tiny tiny almost leaves but shredded wet at the bottom?
2)omni pollutants box
3)two doors closed leading into room. towel blocking the bottom crack of the door. lights off.?

signs of drugs? or just me thinking that?

if so, how do you confront them?

2007-11-26 16:35:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-11-26 16:32:32 · 13 answers · asked by hoosiergirl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-26 16:31:14 · 10 answers · asked by Jo Jo 3 in Weddings

Ex-wife now thinks she's pregnant and an old girlfriend who he was with after the ex-wife just dropped a baby last week, and there is no doubt that the baby is his; the problem is I'm new and all of this at once is hitting me like a ton of bricks. We love each other very much, and he says he will be devastated if I leave him, he said he should have kept everything to himself. I'm just wondering if I should stick it out, be supportive ...HELP??????

2007-11-26 16:30:18 · 32 answers · asked by Jus2Sexy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So theres this girl i like, which we have known each other for awhile. We talk daily, and hang out often. She always says she looks bad, i dont know why, maybe to get a reaction from me. She also always says she hates being single and that she needs a boyfriend. She tells me about these guys she hates, because they hit on her alot, etc. She even said infront of me(she was talking to a friend next to me) what his reaction would be if she had sex with me(sounds odd i know.) She always calls me a sweetheart and tells me how nice i am. Maybe this isnt enough information, but just off this, does it seem like she likes me or not? Thanks ahead of time :)

2007-11-26 16:29:11 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Please help! For the past couple (3) years my husband has only made love to me 6 times. I am not just saying that, it's the truth. I keep myself up and clean as a woman I feel like that's a must at all times, but that doesn't matter to him. He won't touch me. He tells me there is no one else and he still loves me. He's not empadent yet still won't touch me, tonight when he got home I had everything perfect for him, I done my hair the way he likes it had my make up on and the whole house lit with candels. I came to him and told him I need him to want me, his response was I do. Then just walked away, I tried to get him just to hold me or kiss me, nothing! I AM SO LONELY AND EMPTY INSIDE. I have told him this many times and we have talked about it but still nothing. Im so lonely and tired of crying myself to sleep most every night, can anybody out there help me? Tired of crying

2007-11-26 16:23:21 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've really messed up this time.. I'm the type of idiot that pushes people away, and I pushed my boyfriend of a year and a half away for the last time. I came to college and told him i needed to find myself and that I needed a break (I was afraid of letting him love me) and then we tried again, but now he said he needs time to think and that he loves me but doesn't want to be with me. Nothing makes sense without him. He's the type of guy who listens to every word, and helps me no matter what. He's so amazing, and I need him in my life. I don't think I can do it without him. If anyone knows of a song, or a good way to show him how I feel.. or any advice at all, I would really appreciate it.

2007-11-26 16:20:01 · 6 answers · asked by Smiley 1 in Singles & Dating

i need some freakin tips wat the hell do i do dont answer if your not going give me tips........ im from southside phx and to my vatos im a player but for reals ive never even made out

2007-11-26 16:19:11 · 20 answers · asked by jok3r 1 in Singles & Dating

They're in a relationship with your crush? If your married, think to when you werent and imagine it happened

2007-11-26 16:17:56 · 35 answers · asked by Katt T 3 in Singles & Dating

What is her attraction on the man? she knew he had 2-timed her with the other woman. She saw him on the bed of the other woman. He is a divorcee with a bad past!!...but have lots of money now and she only met him 8mths back!!......so, whats for her?

2007-11-26 16:17:55 · 12 answers · asked by Holiday Freak 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I loved my ex very much for 2 yrs and he left me 2 months ago and I still cry everything cause I still love him even though he doesn't love me. How long will it take?

2007-11-26 16:11:12 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating