his family is really strict, and he has an abusive dad
so one day, his mom was driving along, and saw us walking home together. She gave me a glare, picked him up, and i was alone the rain. then he got in BIG trouble when he got home...so now his parents hate me because they think im a
bad influence. im trying to get them to like me...but all i get
are glares. My boyfriend is really sweet, and he's trying his best to help us in this situation. I feel really bad now. what should i do? he's not allowed to see me or contact me anymore!
2007-11-26 16:45:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
My Ex's family hated me, too.
I hate to make it sound hopeless, but, well, it is. You have a very small window of time to make yourself seem like the perfact woman for their son, or you might as well give up. It hurts to hear, Im sure of that, Its a realization I had to find myself
Remember: Even if they "let you see him", but still don't like you - they would be your in-laws if it worked out. Not a good thing...
2007-11-26 16:53:00 · answer #1 · answered by videochaz0r 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Has he ever asked his parents why they are against you? Have you said or done anything negative toward his parents. In some families, difference in religion beliefs, ethnic background, public deportment make or break a relationship between a girl and boy. Always be polite, courteous and honest when around them and maybe things will change. You didn't mention how old you both are - maybe that has something to do with their actions toward you.
2007-11-26 16:58:10 · answer #2 · answered by rnwallace07 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is so messed up but i honestly dont know how to help because some people have there mind set and nothing can stop it but try wrighting a letter or something and express how you feel
2007-11-26 17:16:04 · answer #3 · answered by Colts Fan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His family sounds like control freaks. Hard to imagine boyfriend isn't messed up living in that environment. Your young, nothing is so important with a relationship that you can't wait out. Just be yourself, you don't have to prove anything.
2007-11-26 17:06:26 · answer #4 · answered by lenzix5 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my mom hates my BF at first but he have proven that he love me and never influence me to bad things
you may feel down because of the theyre treatment on you, but never loose hope and continue to love your bf. at the same time always assure your bf that whatever happens youll be with him
2007-11-26 17:09:24 · answer #5 · answered by girl ur looking for! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not gonna win this one. Obviously, they have somethng against you. Anything you do will only be met with more rejection.
2007-11-26 17:35:35 · answer #6 · answered by kiwi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my ex's mum hated me beacuse i was asian .. but as time passes as we show them ur a good person then they start warming to you. study together and show them ur a good influence .
2007-11-26 17:00:03 · answer #7 · answered by Mindy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea come holla at me
2007-11-26 16:49:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋