So theres this girl i like, which we have known each other for awhile. We talk daily, and hang out often. She always says she looks bad, i dont know why, maybe to get a reaction from me. She also always says she hates being single and that she needs a boyfriend. She tells me about these guys she hates, because they hit on her alot, etc. She even said infront of me(she was talking to a friend next to me) what his reaction would be if she had sex with me(sounds odd i know.) She always calls me a sweetheart and tells me how nice i am. Maybe this isnt enough information, but just off this, does it seem like she likes me or not? Thanks ahead of time :)
2007-11-26 16:29:11 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your on really thin ice here. You could already be in the F zone from what it looks like (friend zone) and in which that case the chances of you and her getting together are slim to none.
If your in the early years of high school or middle school this could potentially work but again the chances are slim to none. The reason being is that shes already established you as a friend and usually when girls establish guys as friends they look at them as someone they can cry to or someone who can just help them, not really interested in them relationship wise because they don't want to ruin the friendship they created and the bond.
She says she looks bad because she wants reassurance from you so that she can get her ego bigger and so that she'll have confidence to date the dumb guys shes going to want to date.
Usually when you see a girl you like you shouldn't take that friend approach and call them often or hang out with them too much. You want to make the baby reach for the candy and keep reaching but never get it, get the idea?
2007-11-26 16:35:52 · answer #1 · answered by Louis K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's a tease: cut n' dry. She's having fun baiting you with her need of a boyfriend (fully aware you want her). She takes it up a notch with the open sex talk......
....but in the same breath calls you a sweetheart--the major number one red flag you have a tease.
Accept your chances of bedding this tease are up there with you winning the Lottery: simply ain't gonna happen. Even if you do manage to do the horizontal bop w/ this girl--it's purely for the sex and love won't have a thing to do with it.
You're better off to distance yourself nicely from this girl and carry on w/ your search for a hotter babe.
2007-11-26 16:36:53 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Wizard 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to say it may be that she likes you or maybe that she wants you to like her, but she aslo sounds like a tease. It could be that she does like you a bit, but it sounds more like a game for her and that you are someone to complain to and get confidence boosts from. So even if she does like you it sounds like it wouldn't be a healthy relationship. Go find a sweet girl who doesn't have to pretend you can't hear her while she asks your friends about having sex with you. Good luck
2007-11-26 16:35:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
guy ,listen, when a girl likes you she will not confuse you. when a girl likes you she would not be talking about other guys around you to make you jealous. she said you are a nice guy. that is not good, why because you are too muchie.. you are too there for her , you see her too much, you do stuff for her too much...relax and let her case you a little bit, you talk about you like her but has she ever told you that she likes you? when a girl likes you she will tell you and help you like her.
2007-11-26 16:36:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she likes you, but she sounds kinda derperate... Talking about how she needs a boyfriend. Anyway, just tell her how you feel. Once she knows you like her, you're probley going to get together. Good luck!
2007-11-26 16:34:33 · answer #5 · answered by к ε ℓ ℓ y ღ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, She likes you alot, she likes to spend time with you and wants you to ask her out. She doesn't want the other guys, and she is even thinking of having sex with you. Boy wake up!
Also she fears you will reject her, SO DON'T.
2007-11-26 16:38:10 · answer #6 · answered by Joe A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds very insecure and looks like shes looking for something from you like compliments and stuff. I think she is looking for reassurance of some kind that YOU like her.
2007-11-26 16:33:38 · answer #7 · answered by lovely at 29 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, it definitely sounds like she likes you.
Everything that she does, she is trying to hint to you that she likes you. She is probably too afraid to ask you out.
You should ask her out! Take the initiative!
2007-11-26 16:32:13 · answer #8 · answered by Dancer101 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is dangerous~ Better watch carefully where you're going. If I were you I would just keep it like this.
2007-11-26 16:32:46 · answer #9 · answered by landzai 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good grief
She's playin ya, Hunii, BIG TIME!!
RUN run as fast as you CAN!!!
Go find someone who wont do that to ya!!! you deserve better!
Hugz and Happy Holidays!! :)
2007-11-26 16:32:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋