I loved my ex very much for 2 yrs and he left me 2 months ago and I still cry everything cause I still love him even though he doesn't love me. How long will it take?
2007-11-26 16:11:12 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It really depends on your personality. My ex ruined my feelings for any future girl. I am over her for the most part, but highly skeptical of an relationship. But nothing helps you forget the last one... better than the next one.
2007-11-26 16:22:17 · answer #1 · answered by ________ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hun im wandering the same thing. Only my ex is going to be my ex wife. I still love her, but any conversation we have ends with her telling me she is going to get a restraining order so i wont be able to call her. Its hard not to tho, we have a 8 month old son that she is being a monster about letting me see. I guess we are just too young. Im 22 and she is 20. I got her pregnant, and she honestly made me believe that she is the one i want to spend the rest of my life with. So i proposed, why not since i thought she was the one, She has to be messed up in the head. Why would she marry me if she wasnt certain. As soon as she could she took her old job and wanted to go back to her old life. I loved her and trusted her so much that i let her go out on the weekends while i stayed home with corbin. Ignorance is bliss right? For some reason I looked at her phone. She was cheating on me with a guy from her work, that she talked about hating so much. I listened to her talk about this guy and her work so much. Always telling me how much he annoys her and makes her mad at work. Why would she do this? We had a family. Nice guys finish last i guess.
Hey im sorry bout ranting on in your question. I dont even have a answer. I hope it doesnt take that long. Im sick of either crying or drinking myself to sleep. I want to go to bed happy.
2007-11-27 00:32:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If only we could put getting over a broken heart into a certain time frame!!! It may take a long time girl, and you may never get over it, it may just get easier to live with, but you will heal eventually. The best solution I can think of is to work on yourself. Do some soul searching, concentrate on YOU. Do nice things for yourself, eat healthy, exercise, take good care of your body. Keep busy and one of these days you'll realize all of the sudden that your better, your not thinking of it quite so much. Cryings not so bad, it can be good for you, go ahead and cry. Just try to find things that make you laugh too, even if you really have to search for something, do it. Try to spend some time with friends that you didn't hang out with together. You can do it and will be a better person for your efforts.
2007-11-27 00:20:00 · answer #3 · answered by thisaintall07 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry to hear what that jerk did to you. It will take some time to get over him, it is a day by day process. Keeping busy to the best way to work on this. Get into a class on a subject that interested you before, preferably doing something with your hands - pottery, jewelry making, scrap-booking,etc. Spend time with your friends but don't use the time to discuss your ex unless you really need to. Remember, your future is so bright. You will love again and be loved again. This time you will be smarter about it. Take it from someone who is about 8 months after a break up. Take care.
2007-11-27 00:17:33 · answer #4 · answered by Exotica 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It will never end if your not willing to let go. You will be that way until you get him outta your mind. These things hurt but you need to try to forgive and forget even though you may not want to. Do things that will get him out of your mind and find an alternative. Find some hobby or an activity that you an do to get him out of your mind and maybe you'll soon forget.
I'm sorry you feel this way. It's extremely hard to forget a loved one that has hurt you in some way. You will love him even though they want nothing to do with you. SO I'm sorry. I hope you find a way. Good luck
2007-11-27 00:17:18 · answer #5 · answered by Cameron 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
5 years and 1 wonderful love...
You will think of your ex all the time - this is normal.
Your ex will be the un-doing of several attempted relationships - this is normal
You will want to patch thing up with your ex more than once - this is normal (BUT DON'T)
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Then you will find that the years have gone by - along with a few failed attempts at getting over/forgetting your ex
and then - - -
You will find true love - wonderful love - perfect love!
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And you will live happily ever after!
2007-11-27 00:19:47 · answer #6 · answered by INTIMIDATOR 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There's no official amount of time that will take you to get over him. It truly is just depends on the type of person you are, and how you're dealing with it. Something that might help you get over it, is just really trying to stop paying attention to it. After you're done crying about it, you just move on. Slowly, but surely, you'll just stop thinking about him altogether. Best of luck.
2007-11-27 00:16:42 · answer #7 · answered by silvia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do what you can to not do the same things that you did when you was with that person!
Stay away from him/her cuz you will sooner or latter start to forget about him/her in the long run but you have to put your mind at ease and not think of him/her the pain well soon fade from your heart and mind as soon as you do that ......
2007-11-27 00:21:17 · answer #8 · answered by Sandy P 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on individual. Some of us takes only one month to forget our ex whereas some of us takes years to forget. But I always feel that time is the best medicine to cure such pain.
2007-11-27 00:17:58 · answer #9 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its going to take time. easier said than done. pick up a hobby. some say 6 months to a year. others say a few mins. it depends on the person. i am going through the same thing right now...its sooo hard. but, i have to do it. hope everything goes fine :-)
2007-11-27 00:16:07 · answer #10 · answered by texaslady24 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋