what must a girl do to pick herself back up
feel regenarated
and have hope in social love and work life
!!!
cmon girls gimme some advice
must appreciated
2007-11-26 13:38:11 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wooowwww im getting so many good answers and i just wanna say thanks to everyone who has answered because it really has helped
tmrw is a new day!!! and ur advice will be used!!
2007-11-26 13:44:09 · update #1
whooaaa im feeling better already
honestly some really compassionate people out there
thanks again
and a special thanks to the guys
its wonderful that u guys took the initiatve to answer even though i said girl advice
2007-11-26 13:53:12 · update #2
hold your head up and walk in the room like you own the place...you may not feel confident at first, but looking the part is half the battle...the rest will come. you are sure to get notices more holding your head up high and being proud of who you are.
2007-11-26 13:42:23 · answer #1 · answered by damainegal 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is a period that you have to go through, and you will feel like your world is coming to an end. All you can do is get through the storm the best that you can. Some days will be worse than others during this time, but you will be happy again. You will have love again, and you will go on with work, friends, LIFE.
Promise...hang in there.
2007-11-26 21:51:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to take time out for yourself and get to know and love yourself for who you really are. Have a good cry. Just let it all out. Once you're comfortable with you again, you be able to get comfortable with others. Join a gym/club, go back to school, volunteer, or whatever makes you feel good!
Also reading helps. Dr. Phil has a great book, and anything by Iyanla Vanzant is worth the read! I highly recommend Iyanla Vanzant.
2007-11-26 21:45:26 · answer #3 · answered by [♥]ÿºú-kñºw-whº[♥] 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a Woman is a powerful thing. You are strong and can always snap back from anything. All you need is a day to reflect on the things that make you happy. Then you set up a plan to make those things happen and happen often. Things don't always go our way but it is up to us to try to make go our way. And always rejoice in how wonderful you are. If you are not good to yourself it's just that much harder for anyone else to be.
2007-11-26 21:52:09 · answer #4 · answered by Puzzled 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be happy! focus on the positive things in your life and think about all the amazing things you have done for yourself and others. Don't worry yourself about your past or what is to come, live in the present. "The time is now, the place is here. Stay in the present. You can do nothing to change the past, and the future will never come exactly as you plan or hope for." Dan Millman
2007-11-26 21:46:53 · answer #5 · answered by aebarr3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out girl!
I like a guy, eye him and smile. See his reaction!
This is time to party. I used to hear from a speaker, it all goes down hill from here (as u age)so show off what u got! Always be happy and charming, guy want a girl he can chill with just as u want a charming guy. Last but not least, Confident!
2007-11-26 21:42:28 · answer #6 · answered by *_- 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spoil yourself!!
Go soak in the tub, eat something great, read a girly magazine and watch some t.v. while doing your nails!!
Try a new look, it doesn't need to be anything crazy either.
Push yourself little by little out of your comfort zone!
Be yourself and have fun =]
2007-11-26 21:44:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only advice I can say is start liking and loving yourself start pampering you and do for you, and live one day at a time, don't look for love the right one will come when you least expect it. good luck.
2007-11-26 21:42:45 · answer #8 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be your own best friend. Take yourself for dinner alone at your fav, shop, dance naked and love it. I found peace in liking myself and being proud of what and who i am. Then I can be whole again for someone else. And they cant take that away!!!
2007-11-26 21:44:20 · answer #9 · answered by hnfs73 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im a guy and just saw this and wanna say I agree with chee, but don't THINK "i can"and rather KNOW "i can." and be optimistic too!
2007-11-26 21:43:38 · answer #10 · answered by poljrdumpit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋