I have been seeing this wonderful woman, she says she is to weak around me and we did do a little to far, but I really didn't want to, just trying to make her happy.
Why do I feel so good now that we said we should move on? I should be upset or sad.
She really was great but didn't call or give enough to make love happen, that's about all I can think of.
I really can use your thoughts on this one!
2007-11-26 15:38:53 · 24 answers · asked by sactown s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I sense you're "relieved" the relationship's over. Obviously it wasn't "working" for you- & you're just glad to "get out from under & move on..." It's nothing to feel Guilty about... -there'll be plenty of Occasion for THAT in your future relationships! :)
2007-11-26 15:46:03 · answer #1 · answered by Joseph, II 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the relationship was one sided where you did all the "work", you are probably deep down glad to be out of the thing. Don't feel bad about not feeling bad. The relationship was not meant to be, and by ending it, it leaves both of you open to the oppertunity of finding a love that is better and healthier for you personally.
2007-11-26 23:42:47 · answer #2 · answered by americanprincess17 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she wasn't available to you and couldn't make love happen then you're probably just relieved. Much better to have that closure so you can move on! If she was "the one" for you (a good match etc) and YOU messed it up, you would be heartbroken not relieved. Be grateful for getting out before getting too involved. You are lucky!
2007-11-26 23:46:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not realistic to ask for "think" explanations of "feel" emotions. Just enjoy the good feelings and don't do anything foolish.
Guilt is what tells you that what you are feeling is wrong, even if it's not wrong. In a day or two, the good feelings will settle down and you can write down what went on and why.
2007-11-26 23:43:36 · answer #4 · answered by Thomas K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe subconsciously you have been wanting this to be over and now that you have your chance your body is exhaling and getting less tensed.
Let me guess did you two argue alot? Were you constantly active when around her or constantly thinking of something things?
Now that you will have some freedom your body is enough even the thought of it and is relaxing and feeling happy
Thats my thoughts on that
2007-11-26 23:43:27 · answer #5 · answered by dimdigital3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You feel so good now that you broke up because you knew she was not the right person for you. Be happy that you avoided a situation that would have made you unhappy in the long run.
2007-11-26 23:42:46 · answer #6 · answered by saucylatina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe that's something you have been thinking in the back of your mind but it never occured to you to act on those feelings because you were trying to give her the benefit of the doubt. You feel good because you are free and you don't have to worry about her feelings now.
2007-11-26 23:42:57 · answer #7 · answered by manuche239 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My opinion is that you needed someone to be with and she was the one who was there. Now that you have decided to move on, its that you realizezd that she really wasnt the right woman for you. It may have felt right at the time but your heart and mind do know what is better for you.
2007-11-27 00:35:29 · answer #8 · answered by LuVs2BLuVeD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are relieved because you just did not want to deal with what was going on. She obviously did not fufill your needs. But as a typical man, you did not want to confront your own feelings, and put hers first. Right?
2007-11-26 23:43:41 · answer #9 · answered by budbraud 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously subconsciously you are very happy that you broke up...maybe you unconsciously know that she wasn't right for you or that she was too controlling.
you feel free now that you are not confined into a relationship where, deep down, you do not want to be.
2007-11-26 23:45:01 · answer #10 · answered by Obadiah J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋