alright, i have this hige crush on this guy who goes to my school. we started going out and hes a grade younger then me. but we havent talked in like 4 days. hes ignoring me. and, idk why. i think its stupid when guys play hard to get. but he has this ''friend'' who he talks **** about but there friends. and im guesing his friend got to him and is telling him stuff. bad stuff. so now he wont talk to me. but im ignoring him too. and i realize that i dont want to go on doing that. i either want to brake it off... and talking to him isnt a option. so idkk.. i need help..
2007-11-26 15:38:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well u aint leaving much options if you dont wanna talk to him, i know ur young and if you like him and want to know whats going on then get a trusting friend to go and talk to him and see what he says or just do it yourself but make sure its just you two alone, and if you two arent talking to each other for a while then your not really going out anymore, hope that helps
2007-11-26 15:45:56 · answer #1 · answered by Persian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure of your age but will tell you as I had my daughter a while back. Its better to stay friends with a boy especially while in school rather then becoming serious. Mainly because for the most part they are just that "boys" and don't know what they want all the time. At times they are trying to fit in or act a certain way for someone else. Other times to get someone else's attention. Then there are those who act like "players" as if a game scoring points with friends on how many "steadies" they can have then break them off. Hold on to your heart, don't give it freely or it could come back broken, cold, and very hurt. I would suggest to keep things on a friendship level with this boy rather then a serious adventure between the two of you.
2007-11-26 23:46:50 · answer #2 · answered by Ghostwriter1959 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you mean by "he is ignoring me" that you Have you tried to talk to him?
If not maybe he doesnt know what to say,so instead of assuming all these things are going on with his friend etc,why not talk to him?
2007-11-26 23:45:30 · answer #3 · answered by Joe F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing to do is meet him somewhere to talk. find out what is going on. and ask him why he is giving you the cold solder. make him tell you. if he will not, go talk to his friend when he is not around. and ask him a few questions. he may point out some things.
2007-11-27 00:04:07 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, its only been 4 days. if he really doesnt like you, then just forget about the dude. if he really liked you, he wouldn't believe the *lies his friend has been telling him
2007-11-26 23:45:46 · answer #5 · answered by myfrigginjunklist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋