Family & Relationships - 9 November 2007

hi hun listen whatever happend that went wrong, just happend. i feel like u dont completly comunicate wit me. u only giv me pieces of info @ times, n then the next day its like O by the way. no im not realy feelin that. Wen we were hanging out it was very cool. I enjoyd myself, and you 2 are a very cool person and have a lot to offer to any1. Rite now tho, Im realy focused on wrk, or @ least thats what i want to do. I go thru phases. i dk, mayb i have like a relationship phobia or sumthing. but im really not goin anywhere. n u kno im here if u need 2 talk about nething. I just feel like theres things that bother you and u dont express them u just ignore it. Then outta no where u flip out on me cuz i didnt respond 2 your txt, u need to calm down witht that. i was sleeping i swear. Then ull write me just random txts wit letters aiasdfha what does that mean its just un-necessary. I do enjoy ur company though, but i told you that i need my space, and if that requires not to talk let it b

2007-11-09 04:55:19 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met a man who is almost 30 years older than me. I feel such a strong connection with him. I believe he is my soul mate. But he is like 30 years older than me. I know it sounds weird. And I've tried to shake him off thinking its just lust or a simple crush. But its not. I'm in a long term relationship. But the feeling I have for my man does not even compare to what I feel for the older man. So what should I do.

2007-11-09 04:46:47 · 32 answers · asked by What What 2 in Singles & Dating

When is the minimum/maximum amount of time to send out save-the-dates for a wedding?

2007-11-09 04:45:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My husband and I are in the last threads. He wants his freedom and I was tired of his going back and forth. He would say one day, that I was a bad person, a bad mom, a ***** etc... and the next tell me he loves me and I deserve better than him etc... So I am giving him his freedom and I helped him to make the choice. He wasnt happy with me and our kids. So I am going to let him go. I am being left without a home, money and a vehicle though, so that has me really stressed and upset. My whole marriage I have given him everything he wanted. I love him deeply and will miss him, but that doesnt matter to him. I wanted to get him something for Christmas even though I know he doesnt deserve it after the things he does. Should I get him something at least from the kids? And if so, what should I get him? I cant afford to spend all that much obviously. He is 25 years old and a movie and game nerd.. Thanks for your help.

2007-11-09 04:44:16 · 21 answers · asked by Rene D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

so i need a little advice. i have a sleepover date with a guy i like. the last time i saw him was about 3 months ago. we've had sex, but now i want to make him go crazy. what is the sexiest thing a girl has ever done to you in bed? what do you think would make this guy scream?

2007-11-09 04:40:46 · 19 answers · asked by rawsonofchoice 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-09 04:39:58 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The last question I asked got a mixture of responses, and that's good. Now I want to know if instead the ring having a diamond or gemstone it, it's a band ring. Now will you wear that instead of a ring with one large stone on your ring finger. I know that marriage is sacred and no one should pretend to be married, but why can't a person who's commited to themselves or to a certain cause where one to remind them of the promises that they've made? I hope this question get all of you single's and married or engagedpeople out there answer this one the same.

2007-11-09 04:38:36 · 7 answers · asked by Cescee 2 in Singles & Dating

Deer Fatter Crismasss

Plees cun i have a new mummmmy. mine smels and dont wear nickers and she maks me eat pot nooodles evri
day. but do not git me a new daddy as I have alriady had 14 and they all horid.

Thankyou

Bradley Paris Britney Lindsay Minger

Don't children say the funniest things?!

2007-11-09 04:38:26 · 49 answers · asked by Ms Minger 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i want to move from the town i live in to the city. my fiance has postponed it several times... but there is nothing keeping him here(we have custody of his kids and all). Work sucks out here (i can't get one) and everything is 20 miles away. We spoke about it but he want s to wait until after the wedding (in june). i have no friends or family here and either does he.... i ran out of ideas...

2007-11-09 04:34:52 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Why is it that everytime a man is speaking to another women (not their girlfriend) that the women think were cheating on them? Like being a man and having a girlfriend means your not allowed to talk to any other women besides your lady and family. It makes no sence. We are always lumpted into that "all guys cheat" catagory and I dont think its fair (yes, I know life isnt fair but that not the point). We dont lump all women into one catagory so why do you women do that to us?

2007-11-09 04:23:54 · 11 answers · asked by /N/I/C/K/ 3 in Singles & Dating

he makes me hate myself, he cheated on me and i have never been able to completly forgive him! i love him to bits but i cant carry on with his mental and verble abuse. we come to the crossroads in our relationiship but i love miss and care for him, i dont think i will get over him, and i cant stop crying. i need help.he was my world i cared for him so much i would have broke an arm n a leg from him, only now to get this. i dont feel i deserve this. how am i ever going to move on, when not only me but he knows i am emotionally attached to him.......

2007-11-09 04:23:13 · 34 answers · asked by joy b 2 in Singles & Dating

I met this guy about a week & 1/2 ago. We hit it off & i asked for his # (which i never do). I didn't call him but he ended up friending me on myspace about 4 days later. Since then we have been exchanging e-mails all week. The emails are casual but have a flirty tone. I'm pretty sure he is into me. Anyways, yesterday he sent me one that casually asked what me & my friends were up to this weekend. I replied that i was busy fri & sat (which i was) but not sure what i was doing later sat. He replied he had no plans fry but was going out of town sat. He then said 'well i will catch up with you guys some other time i guess'. Was he wanting to ask me out?
Why doesn't he just do it then? Should i hint that I am around next week? Should i just tell him to have a good trip & to touch bases next week? Any suggestions ... I would like to let him know i am interested but leave the ball in his crt to ask me out.
He should know i like him since i asked for his #.
Any help would be appreciated.

2007-11-09 04:21:20 · 18 answers · asked by michelle s 1 in Singles & Dating

When did you find your love and how did you meet? Details please

2007-11-09 04:19:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm meeting a woman for dinner tomorrow that I have not met yet. I want to make a good impression. It's a casual dinner, so dress pants or casual khakis? Pullover or buttoned shirt? Dress shoes or casual loafers? Cologne or no cologne? Definitely i'm gonna shave. Anything else?

2007-11-09 04:18:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

u no wot i mean someone who is a lil more than a friend that is willing to satisfy ur needs!

2007-11-09 04:15:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when i look at other peoples wedding photos years afterwards they all look so dated. since they went with the current fades and styles.

I always thought Grace Kelly seemed to have classic taste , not only for her wedding .....but in other attire she wore and that was 50 years ago.

I really don't want to look back 30 years from now and say what was i thinking . or worse have someone else say it.

I am not worried about it years from now and I will enjoy my wedding .... but I would like to avoid it as much as possiable. And yes it is inevitable it will happen .. but I would like to lessen the dated factor.

what do you belive are classics wedding things/dresses & hair styles .that never go out of style?

and if you have a what was a thinking story i would love to hear it.

2007-11-09 04:15:13 · 14 answers · asked by la de da 3 in Weddings

I asked this question b4 but the answers didnt make much sense.

Well here's the story, my brother and my best friend are going out. I didnt want them to, but they said it was none of my business and it was going to be okay. My friend her name is Ashley, she begged me to let her go out with my brother, so i was like alright fine. I didnt want them to go out because she always switching boys. And my brother is my twin so i didnt want him to get hurt. They have been going out for a while now, its been going good. But she started telling me about another guy! I told her we cant be friends anymore so, i already lost my best friend. But who needs her. I told my brother what we was going to do, he was pissed. Dont tell me im going to lose him too. Ahh// help me.

2007-11-09 04:14:05 · 21 answers · asked by WestLand 5 in Family

I would like to know wat u can or cannot do besides obvious intercourse...or is it a personal choice?

2007-11-09 04:14:00 · 23 answers · asked by Faryo 1 in Singles & Dating

Be honest! You crazy gold diggers.

2007-11-09 04:10:27 · 24 answers · asked by bhackle2 3 in Singles & Dating

My ex and I were together for almost 3 years, and then a month ago he broke up with me over a text message! At the time he told me that it was cause he didn't love me anymore, but since then I found out that there is another girl! The reason I know this is cause we go to college together and have the same classes, (which sucks)he came in with like 30 hickeys! within the first 2 weeks! Now he tells me he loves me and that he would die for me and that in the end I'm the one he wants to be with, but he doesn't want to be with me right now! So wtf does that all mean? It's like he is trying to make it so I can't get over him and believe me it's working. For some crazy reason I would still get back with him, I love him I really do. But it's like as soon as I start to feel better about everything, I get knocked back down, by him.I've never been through any situation like this. He gave me a promise ring 2 years ago,I really thought we would make it.Any advice on how to move on would be great

2007-11-09 04:10:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have been talking to my guy friend on msn i know from work and have known him for 3 months now and i know he likes me and i like him too, and he told me some days ago that he wants me to come over sometime and chill and relax and have fun like watch a movie or something. then the next day i ask him when he wants to chill and hes says he's not sure..cuz he has to see when he is available. i dont get it does he like me not? one day he says one thing and the next is something different. help! advice plz.

2007-11-09 04:10:13 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i discovered that my boyfriend had had a physical affair and online affair with a girl. he cut off all contact with her,but i now know that he recently went around to her house, they have been speaking and texting on the phone, and now he has said to her that she must only send emails as text messages are too dangerous. is he gonna cheat on me again with the same girl??

2007-11-09 04:05:58 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

To men women and everyone else would you judge them or accept them for being them self or do you think its just sad?

2007-11-09 04:04:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-09 04:03:54 · 9 answers · asked by lil boricua 2 in Singles & Dating

It is not my fault that my husband is verbally abusive towards with. I have not cheated on him with my first love .I only chat with my first love on-line. I am unhappy because My husband is belittling me. It is not my fault that he is doing so. I do everything in my power to make him happy,but he keeps on putting me down and verbally abusing me. I don't want to stay in this situation if he keeps it up. I have talked to him about it,but that has not helped. He says that noone can change him and that he will not change for anyone.Please disregard my first question.This one here will doWhat should I do about this situation that I am in?My husband does know that I have been in contact with my first love and he is ok with it. He is in contact with his ex girlfriend as well.The reason I said that I wanted to wait until April is to give him a chance to change and also so that I can save up some money and be able to rent my own place. What would you do now?And how would you go about it?

2007-11-09 03:59:40 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Had an affair with my boss..it is over now. I live in LosAngeles,CA and was offered a job with a competitor who is willing to pay me $500 more a month to move to Houston,TX. All of my family is here in Cali..but people found out about the affair. I am not sure what to do; a part of me says go to start over with a clean slate. The other part of me says stay cause of the fear of starting all over.

2007-11-09 03:59:20 · 12 answers · asked by R 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I live in California, and his mom lives in New Jersey. But he always remember her birthday and flight over there to celebrate her birthday. It makes me feel uncomfortable and little jealous. I need advice.

2007-11-09 03:53:44 · 22 answers · asked by TRINI n 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Most females I know, including me (I am 30) are alot closer to their mothers, and their fathers are someone they only talk to at family visits. I personally love my mother alot more than my dad. Daughters will never call to just talk to dad. The same was especially true when we were teens (teen girls when I grew up).... so Daughters, do you love your mothers better than your fathers?

2007-11-09 03:44:24 · 22 answers · asked by sugarpie2 5 in Family

My parents are giving us a hard time.he wants come here for me,but my mom doesnt want him to stay w/ us. (temporary) so he has no where else to go. and she wont let me marry him till im 18. he wants to go to rio w. me cuz he knows some1 there. should i run away with him there???

2007-11-09 03:43:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

to go toward our trip to St. Lucia in 2009? We're not looking for money but since our family says it's hard to buy for us, should we let them know of our intentions?

2007-11-09 03:40:37 · 5 answers · asked by Andrea K 2 in Family