My parents are giving us a hard time.he wants come here for me,but my mom doesnt want him to stay w/ us. (temporary) so he has no where else to go. and she wont let me marry him till im 18. he wants to go to rio w. me cuz he knows some1 there. should i run away with him there???
2007-11-09 03:43:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
please don't do it.
listen to what your parents are telling you.
it won't be worth it.
i know how it feels to be in love like that.
and i'm pretty sure i know how bad you want to go with him.
but your still young.
enjoy life.
you have plenty of time to do all that stuff when you grow older. trust me.
2007-11-09 03:51:02 · answer #1 · answered by Irish Dee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly I am 20 from England and my girlfriend is 17 and from Brazil
I met her in Florida in 06
I went to Brazil to meet her and her family in July 07
Its strange we don't find he distance too hard....but we do see each other every 6 months.
We are engaged but we will not marry for years when we are both ready!
Don't run away! If you really love each other you will be able to wait!
There are many ways to talk very often. MSN, Yahoo, Skype and even video calls.
When he visits he could always stay in hotel close by so your parents can get to know and trust him.
my msn is mjsilvershark@hotmail.com if you want to talk more about because i have similar situation
2007-11-11 08:48:20 · answer #2 · answered by Max J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're having a tough time at home, but running away from your family doesn't solve problems. You parents are trying to look out for you. Family is forever, boyfriends come & go. & running away into this mans arms will make matters worse. He's not the hero you make him out to be. If you do, understand that this man will be a criminal & be facing at least 5+ years in prison.
2007-11-09 15:00:31 · answer #3 · answered by Orestes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Danger. Do not do it. Listen to your parents. Very ... VERY ... bad things happen to teenage runaways. There will be plenty of opportunities for you to come to the US, as you get older.
Stay home ... this guy is not worth it. What kind of 20 year old American has to go overseas to scoop up underage children? Stay away from him.
2007-11-09 11:48:13 · answer #4 · answered by AnswerGuy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should act like you have some sense and listen to your parents.
20 years olds have NOTHING in common with 16 year olds....the only reason he's after you is that he is too emotionally immature to deal with women his own age.
Trust me.....you're better off without him.
2007-11-09 11:49:19 · answer #5 · answered by lady_phoenix39 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No way. Leaving your family would be your biggest mistake EVER. If you love him and he loves you, then you both can wait. If your love is real, then it won't fade, right? How does marriage make it last? It doesn't, if anything it makes it a lot tougher. You are way too young to even be thinking like this. Please don't get pregnant.
2007-11-09 11:56:51 · answer #6 · answered by The Grand Inquisitor 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
negative....
the bubble has burst so the the dollar is not worth much and gas is too expensive
stay in brazil and use cheap sugar cane ethanol.... there are plenty of single brazilians wanting to win you heart. besides you are too young to be thinking of marriage. i'm thirty and i enjoy being single so get out there are meet all those great people.
best regards little one,
2007-11-09 11:49:07 · answer #7 · answered by enrique7718 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
get green card *****
2007-11-09 11:51:26 · answer #8 · answered by Clare H 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋