My husband and I live in California, and his mom lives in New Jersey. But he always remember her birthday and flight over there to celebrate her birthday. It makes me feel uncomfortable and little jealous. I need advice.
2007-11-09 03:53:44 · 22 answers · asked by TRINI n 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Jealous over his mother? Sad.
Even if you're not sharing everything on this post - like she may disapprove of you in some way or other - you still need to learn how to put your jealousy aside.
this will help you in many ways - not to mention saving your marriage.
Good luck.
2007-11-09 04:05:29 · answer #1 · answered by Barbara B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What all of them suggested is right. yet I additionally understand the place you're coming from. i realize it incredibly is uncomfortable by way of fact hes assume to cut back those flights. i'm no longer asserting that he could give up, yet a minimum of he shouldn't make it a each year habitual. till he does not see her on different specific events. i realize it incredibly is making us experience jealous to be certain our adult adult males doing some thing specific that we predict of we only deserve. yet while the two certainly one of you're in a loving state of your relationship, do no longer enable this element break it. Why no longer connect him the subsequent time he visits his mom, so which you wont experience that undesirable and that i'm specific he will love you extra for that.
2016-11-10 22:39:32 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why it is his mom not like it is an ex girlfriend. He loves you to. Now if he forgot your Birth day that would be a problem. As long as you can afford it why not. Does he go home for Christmas this may be the only time he sees his mom. If not he still needs to see his mom and family
2007-11-09 04:01:57 · answer #3 · answered by Big Daddy R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get a hobby or something. As long as you can afford it why should it bother you that your husband is man enough to remember his mother and celebrate with her? Please...be grateful. Does he forget your birthday or anniversary? Move on and grow up...it's not as if he is cheating on you!!
2007-11-09 03:59:58 · answer #4 · answered by Barbiq 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if you do not have enough control of your marriage. If your husband is simply free to fly off and visit his mother and it bothers you then you need to simply put an end to it. I would never allow my husband such freedom to go or spend money on such things when it is time and money he could be devoting to me. I would suggest that you simply refuse him the ablilty to go. Tell him if he goes he best stay because you will not let him back into the house,
2007-11-09 04:21:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What?! Theirs nothing wrong with your hubby loving his mother afterall they say to look at the way your bf treats his mom and thats a way at looking into how he'll treat you. Look at it this way atleast she lives out of town and isn't around too much!! You shouldn't be jealous it's a different kind of love but it is an unconditional love.
2007-11-09 03:58:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is a child supposed to forget the person who loved them, raised them, and supported them? No.
Why are you jealous of the bond with his mother? He loves her enough to see her on her birthday, that is not a big deal.
His time with her is limited so he deserves to be able to go see her on her birthday.
You, my dear, are way too jealous.
2007-11-09 03:57:32 · answer #7 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would he forget her birthday? Seriously, get over it and be happy you have a husband who remembers special days.
2007-11-09 04:54:08 · answer #8 · answered by taken 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should you be jealous of his mother? Only reason i can think of is that he's forgetting your birthday but otherwise you should be proud that he respects his mother.
Maybe it's time for you to grow up.
2007-11-09 03:59:37 · answer #9 · answered by Marion K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Come on it's his mother. You need to remember he is far away from his mom and you only get 1 mom. Let him have that time. I'd prefer to have a husband close to him, it shows loyalty.
2007-11-09 03:59:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋