Family & Relationships - 9 November 2007

I have a lady "friend" and she always tells me she'll call, but never ends up doing it. I called her out on that and told her I don't like when people constantly flake and can't keep their word. I also told her that I don't wanna be the one who always has to take initiative for us to get in touch. I wanna have a 2 sided relationship and expressed this to her more than once. It's like she does'nt even care and just keeps on doing it knowing that I don't like that. She responded and said, "You've known me for over a year." You need to grow up and stop complaining about that. Get over it! I am what I am." I can't believe she had the nerve to get an attitude over that. I even asked her not to do that the nicest way that I knew how. I understand it's not a big deal, but it is a little disrespectful for her to treat me that way. How would you folks handle it? Just like to see how different folks think.

2007-11-09 08:27:36 · 11 answers · asked by Go Broncos! 1 in Singles & Dating

i will assume that this is the best question ever asked as no one will answer i hope

2007-11-09 08:27:07 · 1 answers · asked by daz r 3 in Singles & Dating

Meaning a guy say he loves and is happy with his current gf but still needs sex on the side from other women!!!!

2007-11-09 08:26:15 · 25 answers · asked by Sandy G 1 in Singles & Dating

i fell in love summer before 9th grade (im in 10th now) with a guy i knew all my life. he moved away and i was heartbroken. im falling HARD for this new guy and i haven't felt this strongly for ANYONE since my 1st love and im falling harder and harder everyday...like i would take a bullet for him but i dont think hed be that appreciative. hes that jerky guy that knows i like him but uses me..i hate it but i CANT cut him off or stop talking to him.. im SO confused and everyday i just fall harder and harder (not only cause of looks but i like his goofy fun personality and when hes serious he makes me laugh and cheers me up) BUT im super confused ...and i need help

THANKS
I. FLY (i freakin love you)

2007-11-09 08:24:58 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The thing that without which the entire structure would fail?

- sex?
- friendship?
- same goals & dreams?
- same beliefs on matters (money, religion..etc) ?

2007-11-09 08:24:19 · 29 answers · asked by Blond&Tall 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-09 08:20:41 · 16 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-09 08:19:56 · 14 answers · asked by snickers 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I dated this girl a few times < - > 11/09 13:04:02

then I stood her up for our 4th date. I told her sorry I didn't have a good excuse, and she said OK, whatever. Then, about a week later, she texts me and asked for my freinds' number, and I didn't respond, so she called me. She left a message and said talk to you later...I didn't call her, so she texted me I thought we were friends, why are you ignoring me:(

What is she tripping on

2007-11-09 08:18:29 · 2 answers · asked by julia k 1 in Singles & Dating

How do you explain how something happened when you don't even know and the people you are meant to be explaining it to hate you and are getting people to beat you up? This is happening to my best friend and he is really worried! (By the way the people who hate him are girls!)

2007-11-09 08:18:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

well i really like my boyfriend, the only problem is i havent known him that long. he know soo much about my past and basicly all the stupid **** i did before i met him, hes also told me alot, but hes a virgin and im not and that makes me a lil uncomfterable when were hangin out alone, and what not...and i told him that im bi and hes been a lil diffrent, but not too much, i mean i hang out with mostly guys anyways, but idk, like i really really like him and i jus want him to kno that.
¿¡¿¡WHAT SHOULD I DO?!?!

2007-11-09 08:17:14 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why?

2007-11-09 08:16:37 · 12 answers · asked by Challah back Girl... 5 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is legally seperated from his wife and we have been together over a year. I am 6 monthes pregnant and I want our baby to have his last name but him and his wife arent even divorced. Is the baby still allowed to have his last name? And is that stupid considering that she still has his last name along with their kids? I hate my last name who wants to grow up with their last name (Starman)?

2007-11-09 08:16:29 · 34 answers · asked by tina s 2 in Marriage & Divorce

This guy in my geometry class keeps looking at me and keeps trying to talk to me and I am really shy. Fact being I don't like him. My friends all say he has a "thing for me," but I like somebody else who unfortunatly is a popular hockey player. Does anybody have any advice on how to get out of this odd love triangle without hurting anybody?

2007-11-09 08:14:37 · 9 answers · asked by Mandy 1 in Singles & Dating

im dating a girl in the 7th grade and im in the 9th grade. do you think im a peodiphile because im dating her. please help

2007-11-09 08:12:19 · 23 answers · asked by shortzyboi 1 in Singles & Dating

Who's coming over?

2007-11-09 08:11:38 · 6 answers · asked by ♦♦pixiechix♦♦ 5 in Friends

I think all my life is losing a meaning...i really try to find a better job but till now i wasnt lucky.I work as a nanny but i found this job very boring.I thought that i would love this job but i was wrong.I feel like an idiot...Has anybody ever felt like me?I know there is lots of people who are out of work cos of variety reason...but what a way feel people who dont like their job?

2007-11-09 08:10:50 · 4 answers · asked by Lana 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok lol i feel kinda like an *** hole for asking this...
im 16 and im a virgin and i've almost done it with my boyfriend a few times but then i just like stop. and its basically because im scared out of my MIND. i dont use a tampon because it gives me terrible cramps. does your first time hurt more if you dont use a tampon? is there like something you can do to calm yourself down so that it hurts less? like idk i really feel stupid for asking this stuff but im just like soooo confused and i feel like an idiot for backing out of it more than once. the thing is that he's had sex before a few times and hes 2 years older than me and idk i just feel stupid. thanks in advance...

2007-11-09 08:09:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i can't talk about it,i can't tease them-i tried iwear a dd my famis about b's ?HELP!!!

2007-11-09 08:08:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have a newly accquainted guy friend, who has asked if we could go travelling together ( we're both on a gap year at the moment) which at first seemed like a good idea, mainly becuase it would be lonely going by myself and also becuase for a 18 year old girl, travelling abroad alone is dangerous etc.
But I don't know him that well, and what if we don't get on and have fun and stuff?
Do you think I should just go with him anyway for the reason that he will be a 'safety guard' and some company, or not go with him at all? Although if i didn't go with him, I can't see myself going travelling full stop. I just dunno what to do.

2007-11-09 08:07:46 · 4 answers · asked by harlequingirl1 2 in Friends

2007-11-09 08:07:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

heard this song in the club but dont know the name of it...

it goes something like this:
(guy)- im in love with you but i love my....i love you both
(girl)- i gotta warn you...baby take it easy...i will make your life complex...

any ideas on what song this is?

2007-11-09 08:07:17 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been with my girlfriend for 5 months now. Tonight she will have a "work party." Do I believe her? I am not sure at this point. I am at home worried. The reason why is because I am not sure if that is what she is really doing tonight. If it is a work function...then why couldn't she invite me to come along? I am 26 and she is 27...just in case you were wondering. I have asked my friends if they would like to hang out...but they have different plans. What should I do? I am at home just worried and depressed. I invited her to the military ball for my work 2 months ago and she didn't invite me to her civilian work party. Someone please give me some advice.

2007-11-09 08:06:46 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-09 08:06:26 · 3 answers · asked by kutaiba1980 1 in Singles & Dating

OK so theres this girl i like, and she wants to know the girls that I have a crush on. I told her that i would tell her after school since monday but i keep failing at this due to me being to nervous and saying "il tell you tomorrow" or I have to leave early....any tips?

2007-11-09 08:06:09 · 2 answers · asked by Patrick 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay well i liek this guy but he will be 19 at the end of the month. I am only 17 but turning 18 in May. I live in canada. Is this leagal? I am pretty sure it is. But I am just checking.

2007-11-09 08:05:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok... here is the problem.... lately my roommate is being weird.. extremely weird... he has a history of drug abuse.... and here and there we (because we are 4 people in the house) found him pass out drunk and drug out..... well. .. he pulls this **** every now and then (at least 4 times a year or more)
yesterday, he got mad with his girlfriend because she put money to pay the water bill (by the way cause of them they were going to cut the water... we are sick of putting the money ahead and get paid 3 weeks later.. i am not a bank!) he claimed needed money, which his girlfriend confess to me later on, saying that she does not know for what he needed money (at leas $140) .Last night around 2 am we hear him getting inside the car, and he did not came back until at least 4 am.... weird, fishy.
Today he call my BF asking him to borrow money ($130) what??? claiming that he will pay us tomorrow. First of all they still owed me $50 for the water bill (cause they were short)

2007-11-09 08:05:22 · 8 answers · asked by :) 3 in Friends

I've heard this is a new fad with the Chastity freaks, what are your thoughts ?

2007-11-09 08:05:17 · 17 answers · asked by Looking for the REAL answer! 3 in Singles & Dating

#1 http://i22.photobucket.com/albums/b345/Rubystar373/Simon.jpg

or

#2 http://i22.photobucket.com/albums/b345/Rubystar373/Jesse.jpg

2007-11-09 08:03:36 · 1 answers · asked by crimson_escence 2 in Singles & Dating

when u meet for the first time why do they think they have you pegged at the first site? back then when they had no computers and studies like my parents they met and just built a relationship. there was no such thing as the chemistry or even looks. im at least not picky. im always ready to give it a chance.

2007-11-09 07:58:10 · 6 answers · asked by FURBY 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-09 07:57:48 · 7 answers · asked by bebe 1 in Singles & Dating