This guy in my geometry class keeps looking at me and keeps trying to talk to me and I am really shy. Fact being I don't like him. My friends all say he has a "thing for me," but I like somebody else who unfortunatly is a popular hockey player. Does anybody have any advice on how to get out of this odd love triangle without hurting anybody?
2007-11-09 08:14:37 · 9 answers · asked by Mandy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The first word you said "Boy" is were you messed up. If you are a high school student then maybe you are too young to have a boyfriend. Maybe you should get into a sport or something to keep you away from wanting to have a boyfriend. They get in the way of friends, family and your education. Don't worry about men you are young. Neither one of them "boys" you will be with for the rest of your life so why are you worried about it. It's fine to have male friends and go places like the movies or bowling (with a group of friends) but to have a steady boyfriend. No. Leave them alone. Then you have to worry about being a teenage mom and not being able to finish school and have a good career.
Take it from someone who learned first hand.
2007-11-09 08:23:35 · answer #1 · answered by Bori 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well why do you like Mr. popular hockey player? Just because he is popular?
Maybe you should try talking to geometry class guy, you might like him more than Mr. popular Hockey player.
Also if neither work there are the next 100 or so guys waiting in line to meet you ;)!
2007-11-09 08:21:04 · answer #2 · answered by hekinsieden 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like the hockey guy you have to ask the question "does he like you back". This guy in your class might have a crush on you but if the dude that plays hockey dosent seem interested in you I would go out with the dude in your geometry class if for nothing else to make him jealous and see if he has any reaction from it. At least that way you will know where you stand and still not feel left out on the side.
2007-11-09 08:18:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
First, it is not that odd. It will happen often that someone likes you but you are not really interested. The best thing yoiu can do is to be as mature as possible and not lead him on. Just be friendly. You might mention sometime that you just think of him as a friend. If he ever gets especially bold with you, make sure you say that you really don/t think you're interested in a romantic relationship. Do it privately so no one hears but him.
2007-11-09 08:20:51 · answer #4 · answered by Wolfithius 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be straight up with this guy. This will stop hurting in the end. The more you are true to yourself the more you may be noticed by others.
Guys don't like girls who play games... so..
Best advice I can give.... let the guy down nice. Just don't be a bag. Being not interested is "ok", not everybody expects to be liked back.
2007-11-09 08:20:52 · answer #5 · answered by l c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
adult adult males have their very own stuff to handle. sessions do suck- i'm no longer denying that. yet, i will take cramps over a public *****. Dudes are interestingly continuously sneaking around attempting to shift issues around so it is not glaring. teen adult adult males have plenty testosterone of their structures that they could only be doing homework and all quickly, it is like, "hi down there, what are you doing?" (That has handed off to adult adult males i understand). additionally, if a dude has a ***** at school, everybody laughs at him. If a woman has a leak on her era, the females sympathize and the lads are terrified. additionally, women get a favorable concept of what it ability to be a woman. There are much extra help communities for females than for adult adult males. Boys improve up devoid of fathers, with adverse portrayals of adult adult males and fathers in numerous media (fathers are continuously incompetent while in comparison with the mothers, or only p.c. intercourse, etc) and no practise in a thank you to truly grow to be a guy. i'm fortunate sufficient to be with a guy who's what i could call a gentleman of the outdated college. we are equivalent, yet we are additionally diverse. We supplement one yet another's adjustments. although, maximum adult adult males are not so fortunate and are not getting the stable male community that they choose. additionally, they get drafted. In Israel, women get drafted too, yet for a year decrease than boys do. Boys have their very own problems. All issues considered, i could particularly be a woman. (additionally, while it is chilly, we are able to scouse borrow their jackets. And as quickly as we are snuggling gazing a action picture or taking part in video games, women get to scouse borrow the blanket. And boys purchase us stuff. and that they regularly make the 1st pass romantically. And...you get my ingredient. women have it extra appropriate.)
2017-01-06 10:05:59 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go over to the boy and say "Look I don't want you to waste any of your time so you should know that I don't like you so I hope you find someone but it's just not me"
2007-11-09 08:20:13 · answer #7 · answered by Shalene C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore the boy and he'll soon get over it. Or tell him that you would like to be just friends but dont be mean.
2007-11-09 08:17:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg im in the same situation.......
i'll tell you what my friends told me...
just say you don't like him with confidence.
2007-11-09 08:19:51 · answer #9 · answered by ❤ηΙηα❤ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋