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Meaning a guy say he loves and is happy with his current gf but still needs sex on the side from other women!!!!

2007-11-09 08:26:15 · 25 answers · asked by Sandy G 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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because the girlfriend is not adventurous enough to fulfill all of his sexual cravings?
maybe because the girl's libido doesnt keep it up with his?
maybe because the girlfriend started loosening up (ie,. not caring how she looks) cuz she' knows she's being loved?
many reasons . . .

2007-11-09 08:30:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Women do that as well. Chastising one gender for something that they themselves do is moronic.

Think about the reasons anyone would cheat:
1) Feeling like they are being taking advantage of.
2) Dealing with a one way street. (Since you wanted to call out the genders, I usually see this as the women's angle. Take Valentine's for example. Your bf is expected to give you a present and to make it romantic, what exactly do you do? Exactly.)
3) Having a partner that has a long list of Won't Do's. Nothing is more unattractive about someone then the lack of enthusiasm for trying new things.
4) Satisfied, Physically, Emotional, Mentally

EDIT:

Lastly for the women that are saying he cheats because he is insecure is WAY off base. You clearly have no idea what guys think. The type of guys who typically cheat on their gf's don't have their insecurities driving them but rather just the opposite. They are often full of themselves and sometimes do it just to prove to themselves that they could if they want. A little Childish? Yes, but it's way more realistic then the before mentioned girls trying to devulge a reason, clearly off.

2007-11-09 16:29:33 · answer #2 · answered by jay k 6 · 2 0

It's the nature of the beast. Men are more sexually involved than women. However, that doesn't make them the exclusive Casanova, as there are many women who cheat also. If the person, man or woman, is missing something in a relationship, despite loving that person, he or she is going to look for excitement elsewhere if they think they can get away with it. But for all the cheaters in the world, there are just as many "true blues".

2007-11-09 16:32:40 · answer #3 · answered by gldjns 7 · 1 0

People cheat for a lot of different reasons and it's not strictly confined to men. Women cheat all the time.

2007-11-09 16:29:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

Because she isnt doing it for him sexually. Sure, you can have sex with someone and get your rocks off but if you dont have that little something special its easy to stray.

All and all though its a personality defect. Think about all the people over seas not having sex at all and remaining faithful. It has every bit to do with moral values.

2007-11-09 16:29:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1 1

Not all men are like that. Some of them are just greedy and selfish and do things like that because they want it all. He doesn't "need" to sleep around, he does it because he "can." If his girl let's by taking him back and forgiving him then he's going to continue doing it. It's not her fault, he's just a jerk. He needs to go. Hope this helps.

2007-11-09 16:31:25 · answer #6 · answered by Ms. Kelly 2 · 0 0

Please don't accuse all men of cheating. Some of us actually love our wife and will always be faithful to her. I know some men as well as women cheat on their spouse. But, not all men or women do.

2007-11-09 16:30:26 · answer #7 · answered by Jim C 3 · 3 0

I'd say because he is immature and needs other women to raise his low self esteem.

Also because the girlfriend enables him to keep doing it by pretending nothings happening or taking him back after the fact.

2007-11-09 16:30:29 · answer #8 · answered by Latte 3 · 0 1

some guys cheat bc the girl they are "happy" with isn't giving them any (probably bc she knows she will get an STD).

2007-11-09 16:29:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

some men not all, have what I like to call the "whore gene" they just can't be with one women it's impossible. They can't imagine living life with out straying... just my opinion

2007-11-09 16:30:14 · answer #10 · answered by Looking for the REAL answer! 3 · 0 1

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