2007-11-09 08:20:41 · 16 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am married. 4 years. 2 kids. I love my husband..... :)
2007-11-09 08:32:33 · update #1
Mostly because people generally seem to be creatures of habit.. and as we all know.. doing things by rote can be a tad booring. To avoid this problem though..there are plenty of remedies. A man, instead of cheating.. could arrange little games to play with his wife.. randomly chosen with agreed upon rules first, to spice things up. Every once in awhile a nice trip away from the city helps .. away from children.. away from other relatives, etc. A woman can also find ways to keep the sexy thang going with her husband simply by putting a little thought and planning into whatever idea she may come up with.
Men could realize, that wives also might get a little boored by mundane days passing by, one after the next, with no excitement thrown in by husband.
Just do not assume that cheating is the way to go. It isn't. When any man or woman thinks the only way to get excitement is to judge their spouse as not fit for duty ..then the real problem is communication. Judging ones spouse as not good enough will ruin any marriage very quickly. The word love is not "judge" in disguise. The word "love" is not sex in disguise. The word "love" includes a vast amount of unending respect and hope and wonderful dreams which can be present for a lifetime if the two people involved are mature enough BEFORE they marry to handle the everyday problems associated with living.
It is important to remember that vaginas and penises all are the same ...not much variation at all so it is useless and stupid and juvenile to assume one is "better" than another. Sex drive is based on hormone level and not much else. Good exercise and nutrition will keep most bodies running quite well. So, no excuses.
It is important to remember.. a level amount respect for both for each others lives and hopes and dreams matter even more than hormonal sex driven intimate things and keeping the hopes and dreams of the spouse always in your own mind..will help keep it all working and exciting. Just KNOW each other very very well.
2007-11-09 08:39:42 · answer #1 · answered by Lisa of America 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
their wives get boring. that's the only reason i can guess. but, not every husband is bored with their wife. i still make my husband laugh out loud all the time. i also make sure we try new things (not just in the bdrm, either). since being married, we've seen some broadway shows, been rock climbing, and have started training for a marathon together. these are all new things for both of us. i think growing together is what keeps it fresh.
2007-11-09 08:38:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure it is bored. I think maybe they take them for granted. And vice versa as ladies can do the same thing when a man is good with the kids, a good mate in general but he no longer acts romantic. In both cases, they need to work on the romance and get away from the kids for a weekend. Worked for me.
2007-11-09 08:26:35 · answer #3 · answered by Wolfithius 4 · 7⤊ 0⤋
in line with threat the husband gave her permission or some thing to boost the marriage a tad bit. in line with threat the husband hook her up with yet another a lot extra advantageous or some thing. or maybe the husband is making her warmer and warmer extra extreme passionate intercourse, that she ultimately supplies in with yet another. there is like one hundred thousand a danger motives that the main acceptable, maximum well-liked, sexiest spouse can in all probability supply into to this. edit: i'm sorry i did no longer comprehend approximately your separation area, till I examine your profile.
2016-10-01 23:53:03 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They never were "friends" in the first place. Something other than friendship was the reason they were together. Something that faded - whether it be looks or lust. I couldn't imagine ever getting bored of my husband. He cracks me up every other minute. He is my single favorite person and I know he feels the same.
2007-11-09 08:26:37 · answer #5 · answered by Blond&Tall 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Testosterone
2007-11-09 08:49:37 · answer #6 · answered by Francesca 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think its sad that you make this assumption, Are you even married?! I love my hubby and couldnt imagine life without him and he feels the same way. Eventually we both need to spice things up and romance eachother but thats just the normal work that goes into a marriage... not a DATE because its a lifetime!
2007-11-09 08:29:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Their needs are being met by their wives and there is no communication what so ever.
2007-11-09 09:31:12 · answer #8 · answered by Yummy♥Mummy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Immaturity and selfishness.
A mature man will talk to his wife BEFORE the boredom sets in, suggesting that they need a little spice in their lives.
Immature men just have affairs.
2007-11-09 08:43:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing it's because the wives quit being interesting....they quit being the lover, the girlfriend etc....because they are focused on the day to day GRIND of life, kids, home, etc....
2007-11-09 08:30:13 · answer #10 · answered by reddevilbloodymary 6 · 5⤊ 1⤋