2007-11-09 08:19:56 · 14 answers · asked by snickers 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I keeped my boobs he notices everyother women but never says anything aboutme. I feel selfconsious about my looks, and I enjoy when other men say wow you look nice. But if my husband would say it it would maybe make me believe it, it might even make our *** life better. cause right know we dont have one. I have tired the naked thing and it doesnt even turn his head. Can anyone please help me.
2007-11-09 08:29:23 · update #1
if I was you, I would definitely dress differently to show off my new body, dress sexy, not sleazy though, because when you guys are out together, and other men take notice, he will definitely notice too ! I know if I lost 30 pounds my whole attitude would change ! and the confidence by itself would get his attention
2007-11-09 08:30:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call a girl friend and make plans to go out to dinner, a drink, a movie, something. Get dressed up looking good. Go out as he is walking in the door. Let him notice you leaving. If he asked say going out will be back girls night out.
As mean as you think this sounds your husband is use to you asking to spend time with him, calling him, your always home. So he has no fear of loss.
I am sure he will notice that your not sitting around the house and will look to take you out on a date and spend time with you.
By the way congrats on the weight loss
2007-11-09 16:28:48 · answer #2 · answered by Kat G 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All this time you've blamed his lack of noticing you on yourself? You thought if you only lost some weight he would suddenly become the loving, attentive, can't keep his arms off you type of guy? As you can clearly see, your appearance has very little to do with his behavior. Keep the weight off and stay in shape FOR YOURSELF and quit assuming he's going to change or that you have the power to make him change and accept him for who he is. I'm sure he has other good qualities, right?
2007-11-09 16:37:18 · answer #3 · answered by reddevilbloodymary 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure he knows that you have lost 30lbs, that's pretty hard to miss. If you are still wearing the clothes that you wore before you lost the weight then maybe he doesn't notice because you look the same. Try wearing new, form-fitting clothes that will show off your new figure. I'm sure he'll notice you then. Good luck with everything.
2007-11-09 16:26:16 · answer #4 · answered by Ms. Kelly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Many years ago, my wife said she was a football widow. One Sunday, she walked in front of the TV naked and asked me if I was going to watch that game? I said, "no". We are still married.
2007-11-09 16:26:17 · answer #5 · answered by Mulligan 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if your husband hasn't noticed you after a 30 pound weight drop you may want to start looking for another husband. That's ridiculous!
2007-11-09 16:27:59 · answer #6 · answered by royal 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow! Congratulations on losing all that weight! How did you do it?
It is time for a makeover. New clothes, new hair, new make-up. The works. Go for it!
2007-11-09 16:54:47 · answer #7 · answered by your_dear_old_mother 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick a feather behind your ear and dance in front of the t.v. naked?
2007-11-09 16:23:31 · answer #8 · answered by Latte 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Did you marry your husband to get compliments from him or because you loved him?
2007-11-09 17:45:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk in front of the TV wearing your nightie....He will put down the remote.....
2007-11-09 16:25:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋