Family & Relationships - 9 November 2007

Hi!

more than a year ago I met this girl. We started to go out almost immediately. She was everything a guy can ask for. Smart, sexy and absolutely lovely. We were going steady for the whole summer but as she was from a foreign country she had to leave in the end to finish her education. We both knew that this is going to happen and newer made a big deal out of it. So when the time came with no regrets she left. The thing is that we were great together or at list that is what I thought. And then it got really hard because only when she left I understood how deep I fell in love with her. I was going mad. So in the end I left the country myself. I was traveling all over the world and it took me about 2 months to feel better. We kept in touch for the next year. It was on and off. Sometimes she did not return my calls and I even erased her number from my phone a few times. But she always managed to give an excuse and everything was good again. After she graduated we came to a conclusion that she will come back and stay with me. This actually made me the happiest man alive. Then she came. For the first couple of weeks it was like a fairytale but then something happened. She became cold. She was ditching me whenever I came up to her. When I asked what is wrong she said that leaving together was to much for her as she had some bad experience in the past. Now I know that the truth is that she has been going out with a guy for 6 years. It was on and off. He cheated on her she cheated on him. But they still end up together all the time. When she first came here she was trying to get over him and then she met me. But the moment she came back it all started again. And now she was trying to do the same thing but she just couldn't let it go. She found him again. Now they share this cute over the phone relationship. And I am totally screwed. Ofcourse I couldn't take it and she is moving out ASAP in that I was firm but I just don't want her to go. I know that this is the right thing to do but I just don't want to let her go. She wants to stay friends but I cant. This is all too hard. She told me that she just loves him too much and maybe with time she will be able to move on. But where does that leave me? I love her too. What to do?

2007-11-09 05:58:31 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Bored, looking for something to do tonight

2007-11-09 05:56:40 · 19 answers · asked by mlove1_1_0 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My best friend of 16 years has been off and on with her a**hole boyfriend for about 2 years. 3 Months ago, they moved in together after finding out she was pregnant. Since then, they have done nothing but fight, and she has spent the night at her parent's house time and time again. This past weekend, she called it quits with him, and I helped her move some of her things back home for the millionth time. I was so proud of her for finally giving him up. Just a few minutes ago, she called and told me that she went back to their apartment and has been staying there since Sunday....the day after I helped her move out. I'm fed up with seeing her hurt and watching her go back, so I told her I wash my hands of the situation and that she is now on her own. Was that the wrong thing to do? I feel so bad....

2007-11-09 05:56:21 · 11 answers · asked by Rachel-Pit Police-DSMG 6 in Friends

Surprisingly almost All the girls in India and most of the girls staying in western countries follow this 'custom'... WHY?

2007-11-09 05:54:09 · 4 answers · asked by Mindme 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've always been the good kid, I'm 16 and I've only kissed two girls and done nothing more than that. I've never drank alchol and never done any type of drug, I've never broken a law, I've never even gotten a detention! I really dont wish to start doing anything illegal, but it is more about my social life, it seems as if the kids who do this are the ones who have the most fun and get the most girls. And naturally since I am a nice, by the book guy (because that's how I was raised), but yet I'm told that I am a good looking person (I get mistake for numerous famous actors), girls use me and stomp all over me and make me feel bad. So basically what type of things do I need to do to become more of a person who doesnt get stomped on by pretty girls and who doesnt get treated poorly by girl, and gets the girls that he wants to be with? No just the ones that want to be with him. Thanks.

2007-11-09 05:50:34 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i just moved from AL. and i had a Boyfriend down there, he wont come up here to see me. but he says he wants to marry me. Now liveing in OH and there's a boy here that really likes me. and i like him too. what should i do about the one in AL?? should i just tell him to that we can't be togather and just be friends. and go out with the other one, or just stay way from both of them.

2007-11-09 05:48:46 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my ex were together for 2 years when we split up for about a year. In that time he got married and she is about 6 months pregnant. About a month ago we decided to give it one more chance. It didnt work out and he went back to her. The only problem is now im pregnant. No one knows but my bff. I know that i should tell him and my family as well but im not sure how. Any advice?

2007-11-09 05:46:04 · 19 answers · asked by diana s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-09 05:43:47 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I mean, we are socially required that we should put the seat down EVERY time we pee, but if a woman uses the same toilet she is NEVER required to put it up?

This is the point that my new wife brought up to me when we bought our house. I might start doing it out of curtasy for my wife because I lover her. but .... doesent really seem fare.

wat yall think?

2007-11-09 05:43:19 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-09 05:41:59 · 54 answers · asked by Naughty Farmgirl ;o) 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

my friend who's 15 is engaded and i think it's quit young....

2007-11-09 05:41:14 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

not all but may be few

2007-11-09 05:39:23 · 9 answers · asked by protege 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Of this wedding dress?
http://s213.photobucket.com/albums/cc317/ralberts25/?action=view¤t=IMG_1862.jpg

2007-11-09 05:37:36 · 26 answers · asked by justme 1 in Weddings

anything.
Thanks.

2007-11-09 05:36:39 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Lets say that an exgirlfriend can create the scenario like exboyfriend calling, she has a friend with her at the time of taking the call, she and her friend work together with a lie and take the boyfriend to court saying the guy was harassing and saying things enough to put a restriction order (even when this wasn't true), could a restriction order being put to the guy unfarily? (Is not fair, but can the exgirlfriend and friend create all the scenario and make the life of the guy as difficult a s they can working as a complot)

2007-11-09 05:35:08 · 10 answers · asked by livingthe30s 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-09 05:34:49 · 10 answers · asked by lexi m 1 in Weddings

me and my girl have been together for 1 year in december...
we always talk about marriage and it is a definite in our future...
we also talk about a baby...
i beleive we should be married before we have a baby...
should i pop the question on christmas...
a ring for christmas...
i know that's what she wants...
i feel that i'm ready...
advice?

2007-11-09 05:34:30 · 19 answers · asked by segato7 1 in Marriage & Divorce

about this mother of the bride dress?
http://www.lew-magram.com/pagebuilder/Item?item=L1270&CATEGORY=PANTSUIT

mom ordered this dress and it looks great (she's a business woman)...

What should my future mother in law wear? I don't think she really wants to wear black. Do they really have to coordinate?
Personally I don't care...but I don't have any ideas for her either.

Im not worried about black though as my girls bridesmaids dresses are black.

2007-11-09 05:21:47 · 33 answers · asked by ? 5 in Weddings

Why does my gf's Vagina smell, during that time of the month?
There was a wierd odor in the room and as I tracked it down it was coming out of my girlfriend's vagina and she could also smell it. Really bad smell, I almost fainted when took a deep sniff, what could be the cause for this? She say its just period related, but it is soo bad...

We had anal 4 the first time last weekend could that be the reason?

Thanks to all

2007-11-09 05:20:24 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Example- first his mom is in town for 2weeks and shes staying with us. Our apartment is very small so you can hear everything. We were having a disagreement because he speaks spanish i dont and hes friend sent him a IM in spanish. He goes thru my phone and my emails all the time so i dont see anything wrong with me wanting to write down what his friend said so i can translate it for myself. Then when i asked him about it he deleted it. So i got mad. I was talking low to him and he was being all loud like we can't have a private conversation. His mom doesnt speak english but i quite sure can can tell when someone is fussing.
#2 His mom asked him if im on birth control because she wants me to have a baby and he told her i havent been doing it for like two years which is the truth but none of her business. She asked him if im not on birth control and i havent did it in two years did i have a boyfriend and he told her he doesnt know. He such a as*s sometimes.

2007-11-09 05:19:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm gonna start dating ugly guys now

2007-11-09 05:18:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My best friend recently moved..she made a few new friends and lives closer to me now. Lately I noticed a differnece in my friend since she has hung out with her new friend. She was a chrstian b4 all this and now I doubt she is. Her mom would want to know what she has told me she has done but idk if I should tell. It isnt life or death but it could get worse. She has been near a bridge with her friend and they took off there shirts and jumped in the water,she has taken her mom's car and driven it to her friends house (1 house down) when no one was home,she has been hanging out with a boy she isnt allowed to and told me she likes him and she has said she snuck outside and ran around her yard at 2am. All with her new friend. We don't get along anymore or as much. We don't hang out anymore cuz she is ALWAYS with her new friend. See I am scared she may do worse things. She is 15. So should I tell her mom all she has been doing?

2007-11-09 05:12:18 · 37 answers · asked by Kiana 3 in Friends

If we live to love, how come a lot of people take it forgranted and just mess around?

If I had some one to love, I'd cherish her like nothing else...

Why do so many people take "holding someone's heart" so lightly?

2007-11-09 05:10:19 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my girlfriend wants to have a threesome, me, here and another girl. i dont know if its a good idea, she has been wanting to for a while, i'm really not oppose to the idea, i'm just afraid of any risks with our relationship. We want to get someone that we totally dont know. She says if i do this, our relationship would mean more, cause she will know i would do anything for her, and that she could be open to me about anything if i were to do this. I do see a part of this logic. i kept telling her no, and no, but eventually she broke me down and i said yes, now i'm having second thoughts. She just wants to see me be with someone else as she watches too. Anyone ever experience this? Please advice me. we are in our thirties and have known each other for 3 years and she is my best friend, lover, etc.

2007-11-09 05:07:30 · 21 answers · asked by jack a 1 in Singles & Dating

My fiancee who I have dated for 6 months .. I know.. Claims that I surround myself with people who think too highly of me thus giving me an inflated self image.. He claims that he is sick of hearing how great I am from my friends and family.. I have no idea what to say to such hateful hurtful comments.

2007-11-09 05:04:58 · 31 answers · asked by Chelly K 1 in Weddings

I have ordered printed wedding invitations for the day reception but have decided to invite a few collegues to just the evening reception. Do you think it is ok to send out shop brought evening invitations of should I order evening invitations to match the day time ones? I want people to feel their invite is special but budget is an issue.

2007-11-09 05:01:56 · 15 answers · asked by Lysal 3 in Weddings

I am going to the theatre next week (thursday 15th) but have no date, would you want to accompany me? I don't mind going by myself but I thought I may aswell ask.
It's a central London theatre, email me I can tell you more then.

2007-11-09 05:00:06 · 15 answers · asked by pinkytickle 3 in Singles & Dating

We are getting married at our local renaissance festival. We each choose our own character according to our interests. I chose princess, he chose pirate. (opposites DO attract) We both have our clothes and names, etc... But there is one problem.

Many renaissance buffs have mentioned that although there were both pirates and princesses during the ren period, chances of the two actually marrying were HIGHLY unlikely. I do understand this, but really don't care.

I do have an idea, I thought about writing a short story, which would begin kinda like a fairy tale. The story would explain, quite briefly how the pirate & princess met and what circumstances there would be for a King to actually allow such a wedding to take place with his blessing. I want to have several story cards printed and placed on the seating benches.

*Both our parents are divorced
* Groom is Captain James, the Sleeveless Terror of the High Seas
* I am Lady Ashley 3rd daughter to Kind David (1 of 6 daughters)

2007-11-09 04:59:16 · 11 answers · asked by okeydokeyjal22 3 in Weddings

To cut a very long story short........ when i was 18 i met a guy who was 30, that was 2 years ago, he was my first serious bf and my family had a problem with the fact he was 12 years older then me! we have fuded over it since and now, 2 years on, after a row with my sister one night about this guy, i walked out from home, moved in with my bf, and havn't been home since, this was back in march this year!
you see, because my parents had such an issue with the age gap, they told me a year ago that if myself and my bf didnt end the relationship, i had to move out, so we split for a bit, wha with the stress of it all, but got back together a while later, but were sneaking around behind my parents back cos of the way they'd behaved the first time.
Since i moved out, on the rear times i speak to my family ,all we do is row, and were no closer to sorting things out, they say i'm just a liar. i want to sort things out bu i dont know how to without rowing all the time!

2007-11-09 04:58:05 · 10 answers · asked by London girl 3 in Singles & Dating

I danced at a club when I turned 18 to pay off my drug debts so I wouldn't keep on being stalked by my dealer (I know I used to be a bad girl :( ) Now it was a tasteful club meaning we didn't show any boobs or anything... just erotic lap dances. Now I have been drug and strip free for 7 years and married for 2. My husband "kind of" knows about my history. He knows that I danced but didn't know I was a hard core drug user. Well my problem is that he has a long lost cousin I just was told about that went away for a while because of his drug use and come to find out that was one of my exes. He gets out in about 6 months and my husband is soo excited about me meeting him. Everythings going to come out so how should I tell him about all this?! I know he's already going to be mad I wasn't straight up about my past but I am not proud of what I used to do! Help!

2007-11-09 04:55:58 · 32 answers · asked by Y!A P0int5 Wh0r3 5 in Marriage & Divorce