Family & Relationships - 9 November 2007

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She seemed to forget that she was not in Kansas anymore...when you sleep with dogs(for some dangerous "adventure"), don't expect "civility" from a monkey.

2007-11-09 09:04:00 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im 13 and anti social!!! jk jk but i dont get out much cause im homeschooled. i hate it but theres not alot i can do. but at church theres this boy, (boys)one i didnt relize i liked him untill he said he didnt like me "anymore" because i said i didnt like him!! hes really nice but not my type, advice? also theres this other guy. hes totally hot but i think hes the kinda guy that thinks he can get whatever girl he wants. hes soooooooooo
hoooooooooot!!! what do i do? i kinda flirt with the first guy but i cant do much more then that. are boys worth it? worth my time? my breath? my sister has everything i want and im jealous. help?!?!?!?!?!

2007-11-09 09:01:00 · 1 answers · asked by hawsiendamom 2 in Singles & Dating

i bumped into my crush but he kept walking should i ask him

2007-11-09 08:57:02 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i got divorced about 4 years ago. during that time i thought i met a wonderful woman and married again. she was never married and after i married her she turned into a horrible human being. i'm not joking folks.....affairs, insecure, and the worst foul language i can't even repeat. i never even heard a woman talk like that before. she was always the victim in her previous engagements. i tried my best to work with her but she refused to admit she was handed down a very disfunctioinal way of dealing with things (saw it first hand from her parents). now i'm just devastated. i gave her my all after my first marriage failed. everything i had. now i'm broke, lonely and have lost faith in women. some nice ladies please tell me there are more than narcissistic selfish women still out there! i am lonely but right now i don't trust myself as i might end up with someone worse. i think a crazy woman can see my vulnerability right now. i'm broke inside. I thought my second wife was it for me

2007-11-09 08:55:44 · 8 answers · asked by surviving 1 in Marriage & Divorce

inquiring minds want to know...

2007-11-09 08:52:21 · 29 answers · asked by Lonely Turkey 4 in Marriage & Divorce

husband was secretly going behind your back for five years?

2007-11-09 08:51:58 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We have been engaged for about a year now, we have a 5 month old son, and we seem to be going good at times. However, when ever a really big argument comes up, she either leaves or throws me out, then calls me about 8 hours later and wants to talk about it. The same thing happened today, she woke me up at 630 to yell at me and throw me out for a text message MY OWN BROTHER sent to MY PHONE!!! she read it, didnt like it and said get out. then she called me at 2pm and wanted to talk. she still wants to make this work and so do I, but i cant take that kind of emotional abuse again. What do you guys think i should do?

2007-11-09 08:51:25 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-09 08:51:23 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

going to be taking care of the house, bills and both our kids also be there when he calls comfort him when he's down because i know it's very depressing to be in war! be at the gym when he comes back..I just feel really bad he did this behind my back! he was wounded and came back I took care of him stood there when he got sugery comforted him in any way because as a wife and spouse I love him & that's my job..after all said and done I asked him why would he do such a thing he said his mom will always come first wich I respect but I am your wife shouldnt I get some kind of acknowlodge? well long story short he wont budge about me being in charge of the will and i feel really hurt, no i dont care if i dont get anything in that will all I want is for him to put me in charge as his wife..so now I want to leave and he says that i'm wrong what do you think??? previous to this he also tried talking to his ex before leaving over seas and said he did it out of anger because he was upset at me!

2007-11-09 08:51:09 · 12 answers · asked by Conteplative 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 15,pregnat and will be keeping the baby. The baby's birthfather left me, so I was going to be raising it alone. BUT then this guy that has always been a good friend has asked me to marry him. He is 18, but is willing to make the comitment. I want to mary him. He was going to be my baby's GodFather but if he could be a Daddy to my baby, I'd like. So, can I get married now in the state of Massachusetts or do I have to wait?

2007-11-09 08:49:37 · 7 answers · asked by Justine 2 in Weddings

2007-11-09 08:46:53 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know it's only like the 900th time the question has been asked. But just humor me please!

2007-11-09 08:45:26 · 81 answers · asked by LuckyLavs 4 in Singles & Dating

Here is the first picture:
http://i239.photobucket.com/albums/ff282/disneyfann4ever/Picture018.jpg?t=1194644363

Here's the other one:
http://www.imdb.com/gallery/ss/0165929/Ss/0165929/6.html?hint=group

The first photo is my mom and her boyfriend. The second one is Delroy Lindo. Do you think they are related?

2007-11-09 08:45:25 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-09 08:43:59 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a 4 and 2 year old and they think it's funny to beat on me. They'll stand up on the bed while I'm laying down with them then "fall" over, elbowing me. Or they'll jump my back and hop up and down. Or if we're sitting, they'll pull my hair or hit me. They think it's funny & I'm the only one they do it to. I put them in time out every time, but they just keep doing it- Do they hate me?

2007-11-09 08:41:42 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Honestly, for those of you who have cheated, why did you? Especially if you have been with your gf for a few years. Does it mean u don't want to be together anymore or u don't love ur gf or was it a **** up on ur end or what, please give me some idea?

2007-11-09 08:39:07 · 1 answers · asked by lilchika0621 1 in Singles & Dating

he always wants attention and to much into his ego ..differernt round his friends..and acts like a player round them when he isnt

2007-11-09 08:37:00 · 14 answers · asked by sammy 1 in Singles & Dating

i like this girl i being 16 and she 15 we actually talk alot in school and if by chance i am sitting in front of her she will just touch me she laughs at everything i say even the things i think are lame lol also she helps me alot in class just like she jus did my project for me without me asking lol so what do you think

2007-11-09 08:36:58 · 10 answers · asked by jimris23 2 in Singles & Dating

But never got the chance to. It's happen to me once or twice. I really liked this girl and she turned out to be mean and not interested. It really sucks. I guess it's a part of life...

2007-11-09 08:35:59 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

it's kinda hard to change the mood from like happy and sweet to dirty waht do you think?

2007-11-09 08:35:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

suggest?

I also was thinking of cheating on him.I am disease free and I have only had one sexual partner and that is my bad husband.I live in Houston heights.

2007-11-09 08:35:20 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So I HAVE just broken up with my boyfriend of 10 months.
At the start he seem charming and together.
After a few months I was hooked on him and he changed dramatically.
He was fired from his lawyer job, blamed his bosses for being 'jerks.
He sucked up alot of my time while looking for new job, he started drinking & overspending. He started saying he had lost his faith and maybe would be mean to people for fun.
He got a new job and said he'd be making great money. Instead 6 months went by and he suddenly announced to me that he now has another NEW law job starting soon. I asked him WHAT happened to the job he just got this year.
He said simply he isn't there anymore. ! He wont tell me if he quit or was fired again.
Besides job changes /drinking/spending he also is consumed with looking good all the time. Well I just figured out that I HAVE changed this year & its not for GOOD.
Before i met him I had a ton more saved in the bank$$$, I was happier, I saved more money, felt more spiritual, i drank and ate less and was satisfied with my looks. He worries about his weight and aging nd now Im under the same affliction.
So I realized holy @#$$% I'm like him NOW!!!

And I WISH I could save him. But I'm sadly wise enough to know he has to help himself and will only resent or drag me down further into his twisted rabbit hole.

So I broke it off now and he was mean to me and said he will be fine because he is getting a fancy new apt and his new job will pay 250k a year and he will buy a new bmw z4 with money.
Eeek he is completely messed up!
Has this happened to anyone else ?
Have you dated someone and their loserisnish messed up behavior rubbed off on you ?

2007-11-09 08:34:31 · 9 answers · asked by Leea 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Note. I'm NOT gay. Please read

Just started a new job and this guy started talking to me. He didn't speak fantastic English, but he seemed friendly enough and seemingly eager to meet new friends.

After a few shifts of seeing him he asked for a number so we could meet up and maybe go out for a drink with a few of his mates. Seemed innocent enough.

Anyway.. He wants me to meet up with him tomorrow, a couple a days ago I said that would be fun. I only thought he was trying to be friendly, but now I'm almost convinced he's gay. Wanting me to go back to his place, saying he would "like to see me in his room", then added carefully... "for a chat". Asked if I had a myspace with any naughty photos as well.

Either it's his not so good English and over friendliness, but Im sure he's gay.

Anyway. He's pressuring me for a reason why I can't meet him tomorrow. How can I confront him and tell him I'm not gay without offending him? I don't work with him anymore as it was only temporary training.

2007-11-09 08:34:24 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

shes in my class (college) and i only talke dot her once...and i asked her something about class...if i missed anything....(she sits behind me) i went shopping and i saw her at the store and she was smiling and she looked at me although im wasnt sure if she really was smiling at me or at her coworker sinc e she was talking to her coworker.
how does this sound " I saw you at blank..do u like working there...u should hook me up" lol

2007-11-09 08:32:57 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So I dated this guy for over 4 years. We ended up breaking up about 5 months ago over a miscommunication during a disagreement we had. The way it happened, it seemed like such a big deal but we've talked about it afterwards and we both know it was not worth our relationship.

In the 5 months of our breakup, we have become very close. We have cleared up our miscommunication problem and have been open and honest about our feelings. We started talked about getting back together about 2 months ago. Neither of us have dated or are even "talking" to other people. I am so ready to start over. He's not. He says he doesn't have the time to put into a real relationship (since he works two jobs and attends college full-time). I feel that what we have now IS a relationship just without the titles. He doesn't seem to agree with that. He even made a point to promise me that we would get back together.

Since that promise was made, it was been a while and I grew impatient. One night about 3 weeks ago, I tried to talk to him about it and it didn't end well. He ended up saying he doesn't want to keep his promise anymore. Since then, everything has gone back to normal between us and we are happy again but I am still dying to be with him. You have to understand, the first time I met this guy I said I was going to marry him. He is the best thing that's ever happened to me and I'm almost willing to do anything for us to get back together. Problem is, I don't know what to do. I don't want to wait forever. How can I get him to get back with me? How can I make him see that what we have no is a relationship without titles? What can I do to get back with the love of my life? Help me.

2007-11-09 08:30:53 · 18 answers · asked by First Lady 5 in Singles & Dating

1. Do you still find your wife attractive?
2. how long can you last without sex?
3. how many times do you ask your wife if she wants to have sex before you know you are not getting any?
4. If you asked your wife every night for a week to make love how many nights would she say yes?
5. if you have any how many kids do you have?
6. do you think having kids was a mistake or not?
7.do you want a kid or more kids?
8.what is the most annoying thing your wife does?
9. what are 3 things you love about your wife?
10. do you think yuo married up or down

2007-11-09 08:30:52 · 19 answers · asked by Tea Crazed Person. 6 in Marriage & Divorce

please help i'am very confuse please someone help me

2007-11-09 08:29:33 · 24 answers · asked by Hayle S 1 in Singles & Dating

seriously...can men who look at porn on the internet truely love their spouses

2007-11-09 08:29:13 · 3 answers · asked by Suzy 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-09 08:28:50 · 1 answers · asked by daz r 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-09 08:27:44 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating