seriously...can men who look at porn on the internet truely love their spouses
2007-11-09 08:29:13 · 3 answers · asked by Suzy 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ABSOLUTELY!!! My wife even has her own favorite sites, just asI do!! We love each oher deeply,(soul Mates), we just have too much fun. We watch them together, and the benefits are all ours!!!!!
2007-11-09 16:02:13 · answer #1 · answered by happywjc 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys are visual. We like looking. When the wife shows little or no interest (ie. never talks about missing it or never iniates sex), porn is an outlet to fill the gap. If a couple had a big romantic night planned, only to have the wife fall asleep at 8:30 on the couch, what should a guy do? When this happen over & over, a guy needs a way to pass the time.
If you man is looking at it and it bothers you, try initiating once in a while, from the heart. If you only put half the effort in one night, and never do it again, don't waste the initial effort. I'm sure he have dropped hints only to have them fall on deaf ears. You may not like the answer, but there is some truth in it.
2007-11-13 15:24:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A truely profound question !
Well my answer would be a confused 'yes' as i have known men/women looking at **** along with their spouses. so its just a source of sexual pleasure for them and to arouse the interest in each other .. though i know that men would be thinking of Angelina Jolie and women of Tom Cruise all the time during the act
:)
Another interesting angle look at it would from those people's perspective who keep 'sex' out of the perview of 'love' .. in that case the answer to ur question can be true .... but then what u define love would be diff from these ppl .
But then u r quite rite in asking the ques ! can have more interesting deeper thoughts !
2007-11-10 06:06:32 · answer #3 · answered by Niks 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋