suggest?
I also was thinking of cheating on him.I am disease free and I have only had one sexual partner and that is my bad husband.I live in Houston heights.
2007-11-09 08:35:20 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Like has been said, 2 wrongs do not make a right, but, if you really want to get him, get a job stripping at the club he goes to all the time, that will freak him out to see you nude in front of all those men
2007-11-09 08:43:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Nude Cabarets
2016-12-18 04:51:37 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be an adult in the situation and TALK to him. Be upfront and decide for your feelings and values as a wife. Can you forgive him, can you move on together as a couple. What do you want to do as a partner, not to demean yourself by doing something bad to get back at him. That solves nothing and lasts only for a minute. Think of the consequences for your life...good luck
2007-11-09 08:54:40 · answer #3 · answered by Noe F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be bad that he is going to nude cabarets but that doesn't mean he is cheating on you. You normally go to those places to watch...
If you are thinking to cheat on him that's a bigger deal.
If I were you I would ask him to take you with him and you will see that it's actually fun, I did it with my wife some times.
Doing something behind his back is only a question if you want to make your relationship better or worse.
2007-11-09 08:50:29 · answer #4 · answered by ruebezahl2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are playing a dangerous game. Perhaps he wasn't right going to these places and not being honest with you but two wrongs don't make a right.
When and where will it end? If you one up him, then he will have to one up you and your marriage will be in a mess.
Talk with him about what you know and how it made you feel. Talk to him about why he felt like he had to go to these places and why he had to lie to you about it.
Be adults and work it out, if possible. Lying, cheating, sneaking around--it isn't any good for anyone.
2007-11-09 08:49:29 · answer #5 · answered by wondermom 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My god woman.. you are going to get back at him for seeing a nude show by cheating on him? Are you serious? Why don't you perform in the show... and surprise him! LOL. I wouldn't go cheating on him if that's all he's doing. Every hear of a word called "communication?" Ask him about it, and tell him you know. Geeez.
2007-11-09 08:54:07 · answer #6 · answered by luv2help 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just file for divorce, if it's that bad? It doesn't sound like you're interested in saving your marriage at all, so counseling won't help you a bit.
And, having an extramarital affair may not keep you disease free.
2007-11-09 08:43:39 · answer #7 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything that will lower your self estem.You don't have to do the same thing that he is doing.
I would go shopping myself, if he is wasting money on women i would show myself a good time.
Maybe you should show up at one of the cabarets and sit down next to him, I bet he would be shocked.
2007-11-09 08:56:17 · answer #8 · answered by Marilyn T 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can fix things by doing something horrible right back. What is wrong with you? You all need therapy, but make sure you stay together the last thing the world needs is both of you single again.
2007-11-09 08:51:38 · answer #9 · answered by Bad_Kity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-28 22:07:30 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋