is bad if you go out with a guy that is 19 and you are 14 years?

Question

please help i'am very confuse please someone help me

Answer 1

it's illegal, consider the guys around your age range not someone who is old enough to be in college.

Answer 2

It could be. You have to think that something must be wrong with a guy like that if he can't get girls his own age, so he goes after much, much younger ones. You must be careful because at 19, technically he is a man. A man has different needs than a boy your own age would. He might pressure you to have sex, or try to control you because you are younger and more naive.Besides it's illegal, and he could go to jail for dating a minor. I'm not saying that he will do this, he might be a great guy, just know what you're getting yourself into. Talk to an adult before you do anything you'll regret. I think you'll know what to do. I hope this helps.

Answer 3

YES!!! Stay away from this guy. No 19 year old wants an honest relationship with a 14 year old. Would you want this guy around your friends?? Do you think you could handle hanging out with college age friends? He has no interest in you other than perverted interests. And if he tells you otherwise.....he is lying. That much I can guarantee!!

And if you care about him...you'd leave him alone. Do you want him to go to jail?? Because someone will find out. Whther it's friends or family....someone will rat this guy out and the police will get involved.

For now....date a high school kid.

Answer 4

The only reason he would want to go out with a 14 year old is so he can have total control over you. This is very unsafe. Break up with him in public--not in private cuz that could be dangerous if he gets mad. Be very careful. And think about it this way...would you date a nine year old? (It's the same age difference)

Answer 5

Guys that age just looking at your body not the way you are he might look for someone older later on. dont get hurt ive been there i may sound stupid you probably think i just dont understand you but he can go to jail for going out with you dont try and grow up too fast sweety ok make your own choice im just giving you my opinion good luck

Answer 6

you are concidered a minor. So yes it is very wrong. Plus a guy that is 19 that wants a 14 year old-- is only looking for one thing. sex.
sorry. but true.

Answer 7

I think its more illegal if you have a sexual realationship, but if i was a 19 year old guy i don't think i would be interested in any 14 year old girls...it seems the guys is kinda perverted to me. If i were you i wouldn't do it.

Answer 8

Yes. He's a creep. He is taking advantage of your innocence and inexperience. Think about it. Why don't any of the girls his age want to go out with him? You're five years younger than him. Would you date a nine year old?

Answer 9

You're fourteen? You need to be "Ped"aling your bike.
When you see something that scares you say "O".
And parents keep their tax forms in a "File".

Now let's put all that together. "Pedophile".... Now repeat it "Pedophile". Now go run and tell mommie what word you learned today and why you learned it okay. Also... quit playing on the Internet and go ride your bike!

Answer 10

Morally it's horrible. That dude must be desperate to dig out a 14 yr old girl... kinda sick too.

Answer 11

Only if you are intimate. Then it's illegal. He could be considered a pedophile. I'm thinking prison time if intimacy has already occurred. Remember, if it's worth having it's worth waiting for.