Family & Relationships - 9 November 2007

well my mom's been saying stuff about me behind my back to my sibs and it's eventually going to get to me, which it did.

and i've just lost my appettite ever since,
and had second thoughts for if my mother loves me for real or not. it hurt alot. like ALOT. more than you could ever know.

i'm tired of crying.
and i still love my mom but i don't know what to do.
and i'm somewhat lost,
cause she can't accept me for who i am, i guess.
for the things that i love and like.
no support, just from my dad. i love my dad.
cause he believes in me and has high hopes.
without him, i wouldn't have stayed strong.

but my mom, she's critical on me and it really does hurt to have someone like that bring you down.

2007-11-09 07:04:52 · 7 answers · asked by IMBroken 2 in Family

When you're in a relationship, many times you start out having sex many times a day/week... then it starts to kilter out. I want to have more sex, but my boyfriend doesn't seem into it. He's satisfied with once, maybe twice a week. I need every other day, at least. How can I get him more interested?

2007-11-09 06:59:53 · 3 answers · asked by that's right 2 in Singles & Dating

How do you constructively talk to someone/ work things out.. when everytime you bring anything up or make a mention of things not working out- that they get all "emo" on you and you think they are going to commit suicide- or at theast the make the threat of it happening out there- or they just respond to everything with, "well ok. fine. im just a loser. im sorry. i suck, i know"

Can a person like this ever change? Or do you just end it- pray that they will be ok and move on?

2007-11-09 06:59:34 · 17 answers · asked by Amy Clark 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

I ask because I just found out two relatives died very young, and I didn't even know they were alive. am I supposed to feel sad?

2007-11-09 06:58:25 · 33 answers · asked by Alex 2 in Singles & Dating

All my life my parents fought & Ive never been able to let my feelings flow and take care of myself. But it's so hard. Last week my parents got in a fight & still ahven't resolved nething (theynever do). so today my mom was like ,"Tell your dad not to put his dirty dishes around im sick of his messes." And they always talk bad about eachother behind eachother's backs to me and my sister> Sometimes I feel like I lose concentration of how I feel in between their fights. Or like I dont even have emotions to begin with. My self esteem gets hurt too. I told my mom today I don't want to take care of her dirty work and she said, "No your not doing that." But she doesnt take my emotions into fact but rather its lke I either have to be in debt to her and be used to be "a good daughter" or I'm selfish and "like my father". It's so frustrating sometimes! What should I do to finally stand upfor myself because sometimes I feel like i don't think about my feelings sometimes and don't get vulnerable.

2007-11-09 06:58:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i asked the first question,but i did'nt ask it right .when i confronted my brother in law and my sister they say i need to mind my own business now i want to kick his *** .

2007-11-09 06:56:52 · 21 answers · asked by mustangs5875 1 in Family

My husband and I have been together since 1989. We have two children and are have been separated since 2001. We still have a very active sex life but he has a girlfriend that he lives with now. I love him very much, so much until I know that I must let go but somehow I just don't have the energy to do so. Am I wrong for still loving and sleeping with him? He send me mixed signals he's has always been there for me but when he is with his girlfriend he acts as if I don't exsist. He lies to his girlfriend and tells her that he don't talk to me when he know every free moment he has from her is spent with me. I'm confussed please help me to decided what I need to do to remedy this situation.

2007-11-09 06:52:50 · 19 answers · asked by juicy091 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i want to know the wierdset pick up lines that youve ever heard and the most pathetic will get the best answer

2007-11-09 06:52:25 · 25 answers · asked by yourguy22 1 in Singles & Dating

MY BOYFREIND THINKS IT WOULD BE A TURN ON TO GO TO A FEMALE STRIP CLUB TOGETHER. IS THIS A GOOD IDEA?

2007-11-09 06:50:46 · 7 answers · asked by Lady Lyk01 4 in Singles & Dating

My ex and I started chatting again on the phone for about 2 weeks. And then we decided to go out on a date on a Friday night. I thought i it went well and I was so happy to rekindle a relationship with him.

Well, he didn't call me for a whole week after our date. No texts, no calls, emails, nothing. This was odd for us. He would always text me or call me, even if just to say "goodnight". I text him 2 times, and called him once during the week of his slilent treatment, but I gave up when I didn't hear back from him and I started wondering why he is doing this to me - what went wrong??
Well I finally get a text from him that said, "Hi". I told him I am not really up for games and that this won't work out. He said, "Fine, but the only reason I didn't call you was because I was on vacation in the Bahamas. I left on Saturday and just got in last yesterday."
Why wouldn't he have told me on our date Friday that he was leaving for the Bahamas the next day? Sounds like a game...?

2007-11-09 06:46:27 · 24 answers · asked by sephia 1 in Singles & Dating

have feelings for him and he does for me too. it felt awkward at first, but then i start looking forward talking to him every time. IM, then phones, then dating again...falling in love again. Then after several dates he told me that he was married. He did not lied to me (coz i never asked) but he kept it for a while. He said he just wanted us to be 'just' friends, but what about the sweet talks, the flowers, nice dinners, the goodnight kiss? Did I misinterpret him? I thought it was sweet love the second time around...i don't want to look like a fool (am already,sigh), what should I say or do? How do I get out in this miserable situation like a lady?

2007-11-09 06:46:07 · 9 answers · asked by ayvee77 1 in Singles & Dating

This will probably get a lot of negative comments, but why is it that people come on here just to put other people down? Seriously, I don't get it. I see people posting answers calling people names, putting them down...and for what? They aren't doing anything wrong. These people must not be happy with themselves or they must have nothing better to do with their time. Who else agrees?

2007-11-09 06:43:20 · 18 answers · asked by -----------n 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex left me for someone else and my selfsteen has suffered since.How can i get over my insucures

2007-11-09 06:41:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-09 06:36:36 · 39 answers · asked by confused girl 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 16 and I have been feeling sad these days because i have not been going Out anywere and i have decided to be friends with this boy who i love..!! And my sister has been moaning at me all the time .. So what do you all suggest i do for Fun?

Something thats going to take my mind off things ?

thank you xXx

2007-11-09 06:31:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I had a stupid fight last week. Both of us are very stubborn and neither one of us called the other for a week. I got this e-mail from him today:

I have not heard from you in a week. I can only assume that you would like not to talk to me. That is fine and I will not bother you after this e-mail. I wanted to put some closure on this relationship. I will drop off your key and garage door opener at your house. I will put them in a box in your garage along with some other belongings of yours that are in my house. I will do this on Monday afternoon. I will be away this weekend. That is the earliest I can do it. If this is unacceptable to you please let me know by calling me or writing back.

I am sorry for causing any harm to you and will not bother you any more.

I called him and got his answering machine. I indicated I didn't call him because I thought he was so angry with me he wouldn't talk to me and that he should call me if he wants to talk.
Its been 2 hours

2007-11-09 06:25:54 · 14 answers · asked by Peacenik 4 in Singles & Dating

me and my bf are planing on having sex. I'm worried that if we do have sex he's gonna leave me. he's worried that he's gonna get me pregnant. any advice

2007-11-09 06:23:07 · 22 answers · asked by xXBlood_loverXx 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-09 06:22:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well i have a friend he is from france, and we chatted and be nice friend, but he always mention , i love you and i miss you everytime we chatted, so..
is this the way they talk or he is a gay??

just wondering.. thanx!

2007-11-09 06:18:56 · 4 answers · asked by You think you know me? 6 in Friends

Ok here's the heads up...I was with this guy for over a year and stuff, we broke up and he starting going with his "so-called" friend (that he had while we were together) and to make matters worst he got her pregnant. Now he's trying to come back into my life and sumtimes I feel like a ***** because I'm rude to him from time to time because of the **** he did to me. (callin playin on my phone, questioning me about his gf, and all kind of crazy stuff) He's really trying now, in fact harder than he ever have. But I still feel like what we had is over and I have doubts so its no point in getting back involved. Then he popped the question last night..."Will you marry me?" Because I'm unsure and I think he is too, I said I cant answer that question right now. What should I do?? I say let him go, but what do you think?

2007-11-09 06:17:52 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when stress just gets the best of the passion between two incredible lovers. . .
what things would YOU suggest to spice up the mojo and make things hott again?

2007-11-09 06:17:35 · 17 answers · asked by ? 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I went out the other night & a guy hit on me. He is a friend whose company I enjoy - from England & I am interested in his culture, religion, politics, etc. Problem is that I am married & he has a little "sex" buddy w/ no strings attached. We were flirting throughout the night. She was there. He walked me to my car and asked if he could kiss me. I told him that would not happen and he should go back inside. He hugged me and I left. We both were drinking throughout the night. He called me the next day and apologized for giving little regard to the Mrs.and putting me in that position. Next day, I went to apologize to her for what took place. She said, "I don't want to talk about it, but I appreciate it though (with sarcasm)." I feel enormous guilt for what took place. I am sorry for disrespecting my husband, two kids, & her. My husband has no clue this occurred & I truly wouldn't cheat, nor purposely hurt another person. We all hang out at the same place, how do I fix this?

2007-11-09 06:14:04 · 18 answers · asked by Anjer 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-09 06:10:37 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I posted this question to say: "My friends, I miss you all"
((((((((((((((((((((((miss you so much))))))))))))))))))))))

2007-11-09 06:10:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

The guy I like has given off every sign of liking me and caring about me.

I've done almost everything concievable to push him away, except that I still invite him places occasionally.

So I shouldn't assume that he doesn't like me because he doesn't call, invite me places, or cancel his plans/do things I ask him along to do that he doesn't like?

2007-11-09 06:10:26 · 1 answers · asked by Jane T 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-09 06:10:20 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-09 06:08:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-09 06:07:16 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

help!

2007-11-09 06:02:36 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

The Bible says the man should be the head of household. My husband strongly desires to be the head of household. The problem is unless it involves sex he does not know how to be a leader or take charge. He misunderstands 90% of whatever I tell him. He always "thinks" I said this or "thought" I meant that. He drops the ball a lot and everytime he justifies it by saying he didn't understand and/or I should have explained or done it this way or that way. Instead of asking in order to get a better understanding, he'd rather sit back and assume or just not deal with it at all.

For instance, bills are one of our biggest problems. We bought a new home seven months ago. We knew when we moved in things were going to be tight for a year or two. I thought we were BOTH on the same page as far as sacrifices, but we weren't. He has done nothing but whine about how we should have stayed in the apartment. About how we never have money to play. He'd rather eat out than buy things for the house.

2007-11-09 06:01:16 · 34 answers · asked by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4 in Marriage & Divorce