me and my bf are planing on having sex. I'm worried that if we do have sex he's gonna leave me. he's worried that he's gonna get me pregnant. any advice
2007-11-09 06:23:07 · 22 answers · asked by xXBlood_loverXx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm 14 and a virgin he's 16 and not
2007-11-09 06:27:46 · update #1
USE A CONDOM...thats the best tip on that subject....OK well just take it slow and dont try to rush into things cuz if you do you wont enjoy it...
2007-11-09 06:27:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well doll it doesnt sound like either of you are really sure about having sex. You should sit down and really talk about it. Don't feel pressured into having sex with anyone just to keep them. If he loves you then he will wait until you are ready. As for getting pregnant, when you do sit and talk and if you happen to decide that you are both ready for sex then talk about birth control such as condoms and the pill and other contraceptives. Once you have all this in order then you will feel better and you'll know if you are ready or not. Best of luck!
2007-11-09 06:30:27 · answer #2 · answered by Beautiful♥Disaster 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you've been in a relationship with him for a long time. Don't have sex unless you feel your 100 percent ready, not just to make him happy. You'll end up regretting it. Use birth control and a condom!! If he has had sex before you don't want to catch anything from him, and better be safe and get on the pill too, you don't want to be pregnant at 14.
2007-11-09 06:30:19 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Kristen♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't have sex. All other considerations aside, no form of birth control is 100% effective. There is always a chance of pregnancy. If you're on here asking for advice, you are defiantly not ready to deal with the possible consequences, whether he stays with you or not.
2007-11-09 06:42:11 · answer #4 · answered by Mark S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, if there is any doubt you are not ready. its not a maybe thing, either you are ready or you are not. sex is a big step and it changes things, sometimes for the worse. make sure you both discuss what can go wrong and what you will do if something does happen. also talk about how you can prevent it. only do this if you are truly in love.
second, USE PROTECTION. no matter what.
2007-11-09 06:28:52 · answer #5 · answered by Twistterrrr 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He might leave you, and if that's the case you're best off out of it before. The pregnancy worry, well if you're worried about that and don't know how to prevent it, you are way too young to be considering sex.
2007-11-09 06:27:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please trust your gut feeling!!! if you feel that its not rigth dont do it. I personally dont know you but i can tell you are not ready to deal with sex.. Trust me everything will come at the right time... take your time youre only 14 years old... Youre too young to understand what I'm telling you but please trust that voice within you... dont let your bf talk you into it, if he cares for you he will understand you and respect what ever your decision is. Dont be afraid to say no... I hope you do what right for you... good luck and god bless you
2007-11-09 06:37:18 · answer #7 · answered by lovely 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get on the birth control pill. Use a condom. And make sure he enjoys it so he wants to come back for more.
2007-11-09 06:26:53 · answer #8 · answered by Andrew A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah here's some great advice....By the sounds of this question neither of you are ready so do yourselves a favor and wait.
2007-11-09 06:26:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait... if you it doesn't feel right then its not the time. If you guys are scared about pregnancy, then you are definitely not sex educated which means you are not ready yet. If you feel he's going to leave you, then you are insecure about him, then he's not the one.
2007-11-09 06:28:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋