help!
2007-11-09 06:02:36 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Whatever you do, DON'T NAG
2007-11-09 06:07:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
That's real tricky. If you've been dating less than a year, I would NOT tell him this. It might scare him off.
What is the harm not telling him this just yet!
What you would be doing by stating this question is put him in a position of responding with a premature answer. Even if you soften the statement by using the word "someday" as you have.
Wait a while - go out and have fun together.
Tell him how much you enjoy being with him, etc.
Telling him how you like being together solicits a more comfortable response than using the "M" word in any context.
2007-11-09 06:15:08 · answer #2 · answered by Elliott J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be clear, you asked for what is the best way, not the right time, or best place. For I humbly opine that there is no one right time nor there is one best place to do such. But herein comes a curveball for you, there is no such thing as the best way either. My dear, if you fell it, if you realy need to, just say it. The sooner the better, the first moment you get. The consequences you fear, well, the sooner you get over it the better.
Let me define a romantic moment for you, if it could somehow help. It is neither the sun peeking from a top a mountain nor later when its romancing the sea, for I am blind. It is neither by a serenade by angels and loving declarations, for I am deaf.
2007-11-09 07:17:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"where angels fear to tread", lol.
Is he mature enough not to run screaming, is he family oriented?
Many a girl has been changed to "too needy" from such a simple statement. Even if u just mean it in a complimentary manner or somewhere in the distant future.
2007-11-09 06:08:28 · answer #4 · answered by paigespirate 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how long you guys have been together and if you guys haven't been together that long then I think that you need to wait just a little bit longer because he might not be having the same feeling for you as you do for him. Don't rush things!
2007-11-09 06:08:51 · answer #5 · answered by irie19782002 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Look...you women/brides get the be control freaks about everything at the wedding and on the wedding day it is your way or the highway, so please...leave the one thing that guys still have control over (propsal) to us..please! I guarantee that if you pester him about it, he will NOT want to marry you.
2007-11-09 06:06:26 · answer #6 · answered by Dr T 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
first of all, you wouldn't like to pressure him or anything. second, you need to know if he loves you a lot to go to a new level and make a lifetime commitment. other than dat, just look for the right moment to ask. (maybe after so great sex lol )
2007-11-09 06:10:08 · answer #7 · answered by KillaCam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boyfriend. Someday I would like to marry you. How about the straight forward approach?
2007-11-09 06:05:29 · answer #8 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
First how old are you --- how long have you been dating him??? need more info but if you havent been going out for long dont tell him and before you tell him make sure he likes you as much as you like him and that he actually wants to get married
2007-11-09 06:06:58 · answer #9 · answered by Sharlie R 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Isn't the fact that you are dating him automatically mean that you want a future with him? Is marriage an eventual step in the future?
2007-11-09 06:23:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait until you two are calm comfortable and have eaten(for example eating desert at your favourite resteraunt while sipping wine) then tell him you dont want your time with him to ever end and that maybe the two of you should take the next step..... youll be able to gauge his reaction to the prospect of marrying you then or one day walking through the mall tell him how beautiful an engagement ring is
2007-11-09 06:07:54 · answer #11 · answered by mr benis 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋