well my mom's been saying stuff about me behind my back to my sibs and it's eventually going to get to me, which it did.
and i've just lost my appettite ever since,
and had second thoughts for if my mother loves me for real or not. it hurt alot. like ALOT. more than you could ever know.
i'm tired of crying.
and i still love my mom but i don't know what to do.
and i'm somewhat lost,
cause she can't accept me for who i am, i guess.
for the things that i love and like.
no support, just from my dad. i love my dad.
cause he believes in me and has high hopes.
without him, i wouldn't have stayed strong.
but my mom, she's critical on me and it really does hurt to have someone like that bring you down.
2007-11-09 07:04:52 · 7 answers · asked by IMBroken 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
especially when i love her,
but am losing respect for her.
sad. i know.
i feel like the only one with this life.
2007-11-09 07:05:26 · update #1
Hurt by a parent? Hey, I know that.
I was the child she would have aborted if it had been legal (this was a long time ago).
My mother never forgave me for ruining her figure (she had me and my sister within a year of each other).
Yeah. I know how it feels.
You learn to get over it. She will have to answer to someone much bigger than we are some day.
What YOU can do is forgive her - and lead a good, gentle life. Trust me. Leading a good and gentle life is the best thing for everyone.
Again, we all have to answer... So make sure you can hold your head high and be pleased with the kind of good and gentle life you led.
Mom's issues will be dealt with in their own time - again to someone greater than we are.
I don't know you - but I understand.
2007-11-09 07:55:31 · answer #1 · answered by Barbara B 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's ok, don't be sad. Whatever you heard about your mom talking on your back, then come up to her and ask about it. Whatever she doesn't like about you because that's what you love and you like. Think about it for a little bit if her point is right or not. Maybe she does have some point why she doesn't like it. If you think there is nothing wrong with your interest then try not to show it much when she's around. Talk to your mom and work on the problems.
Don't be too sad about this, I think your mom and you might have misunderstanding.
2007-11-09 07:19:17 · answer #2 · answered by Lotus 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-16 03:35:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try talking to your dad first you said he understands you so he will probably try and say something to your mom. if that doesnt work try cofrunting your mom and saying i am really sad about the things you have been saying and i want to know y u dont accept me for who i am and for what i like
2007-11-09 13:01:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
u have 2 forgive her !!! people with talk it's about how you feel about yourself that matter if you think that u can do it and that u can be what you want 2 be that u can do it believe in yourself , love yourself, no that u are beautiful and wounderful made by God. once u belive that it don't matter what she or anyone say.
2007-11-09 07:28:43 · answer #5 · answered by lines 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
belive in who you are dont be scared 2 think wen u think that is u the real u !. try LIVIN 4 ur self put it this way a man enters the world alone and goes alone nonthing stays 4 eva! be urself no matter who you are and where you are! do wat u want 2 do.
2007-11-09 07:15:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes that happen to me but it was from my boyfriend
2007-11-09 07:13:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋