2007-11-09 08:27:44 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's your life, isn't it? However, your friends are looking out for you, and have your best interests at heart. Whether you trust their opinions or not, is up to you, since you know them far better than anyone on here. Maybe deep down you agree with them, but are still hooked on the ex. Or maybe you think they are just jealous, and can't stand to see you happy. It really depends on what kind of friends you have, and whether you trust their judgment or not, and whether or not they have an ulterior motive when they discourage you from making the same mistake that caused your breakup in the first place. Do some soul searching, and I think you'll find the answer. Good luck!
2007-11-09 08:37:15 · answer #1 · answered by gldjns 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends and loved ones remember the pain and hurt you went through in a relationship, and they only see that you will be hurt again. They don't want you to be hurt! The reality is, you are the only one who knows your limits, the balance between good times and bad times. If the good outweighs the bad then sounds like you'll go for it despite your mate's opinion. Some things should be deal breakers though. Abuse or cheating for example. Don't be a victim, but do what is right for you.
2007-11-09 08:33:40 · answer #2 · answered by Susan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust your friends, they are a constant reminder of why you and your ex broke up. You might go to dream land here and there and forget the bad parts of the relationships, but your friends............that is all they remember. Bad outweighs the good. He couljd be drop dead gorgeus, be rich, but if his idea of funny is pushing me down the stairs or humiliating me in front of my friends, family, ANYWHERE,, etc
NO matter how good those good times were, those bad times are really really bad, ask your friends, they remember, they were the ones counseling you then, they were the ones picking you back up, they are the ones that love you.
2007-11-09 08:32:34 · answer #3 · answered by HIPPIE2hippie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Totally depends on why they hate him..... and how much you trust your friends. You are not sure about this man or you wouldn't be asking! Take some space and time - especially if the break-up is recent and then trust your own judgement.
2007-11-09 09:01:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!! YESS!! YESSS!!
unless you think that you REALLY know him.
i was stupid a few years ago..and did not lsiten to my friends. biggest mistake ever.
i was a highscool freshman..the kid went around and told SOOO many people that i had sex with him and gave him head and at the time was a huge deal. he is so gross now i cannot stand him. and everywhere i went for a year people would be like OHHH ITS jkdsjakdf EX GIRLFRIEND!! how did that dickk taste???
he just completely turned into the biggest *** ever. i should have listened to my friends i was like blinded..
we were only dating like 2 months though.
but me and my boyfreind now have been dating 2 years..if someone told me that now id be like umm whatever..just because I KNOW HIM better than anyone and i know he would never do that stuff.
2007-11-09 08:32:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do they hate him? Did he treat you horribly? Is he going to change? Think about all the pros and cons of getting back together with him and use your brain before your heart, sometimes your heart can decieve you. It has gotten me into a world of trouble before. Don't waste time on someone who will not treat you right. But if you truly believe he is the one, go for it.
2007-11-09 08:30:55 · answer #6 · answered by katie d 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well it all depends hunni...did he treat you well and did ya ave a good time while you were with him? Your friends opinion aint always the best some times you just have to take chances and follow your heart! Your friend obviously dont no your ex as well as you do but if thats wat you want she should support you not be angry at you!
Good luck
xxx
2007-11-09 08:34:03 · answer #7 · answered by Jessie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i grew to become into interior the comparable situation some months in the past and felt the comparable way you experience. I felt he grew to become into dishonest and inspite of the shown fact that i did no longer understand for optimistic I broke up with him because of the fact i could no longer stand feeling that way. yet i found out later that there grew to become into somebody else interior the image. So in case you're feeling like this you incredibly could desire to communicate with him and tell him the form you experience. tell him to be user-friendly with you. long distance relationships are very complicated.
2017-01-06 10:06:23 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your heart - but remember why is he an ex in the first place - is it worth goin back there? Good luck! x
2007-11-09 08:32:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it only matters what u think you can listen to your friend opinion and then think what do you want its up to you at the end of the day
2007-11-09 08:45:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋