im dating a girl in the 7th grade and im in the 9th grade. do you think im a peodiphile because im dating her. please help
2007-11-09 08:12:19 · 23 answers · asked by shortzyboi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
nope, you're not a pedo. the grade difference may seem kinda big, but the age difference isnt really.
2007-11-09 08:16:32 · answer #1 · answered by iamtehuberness 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No you're not!! You are only 2 years apart from her. It's not a big deal. Yeah...pedofile means you are 18 or over dating someone younger then 18. That's considered pedofile.. :/
Maybe people might think that because you guys are in different schools. But it doesn't matter what other people think in the first place, so enjoy your relationship with her :) If she doesn't mind, I don't think you should either! :]
2007-11-09 16:18:20 · answer #2 · answered by Nina is here! :D 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lol that's just a 2 year difference. It's find and it's NORMAL. Let me put it this way. If I was 26 is it ok for me to date a 24 year old? Or does that make me a pedophile?
2007-11-09 16:16:20 · answer #3 · answered by Hitch 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your not a pedophile, but you will be. Why do kids want so badly to be involved with someone? Your too, dang young to be dating. The reason for dating is to find a mate. Someone to marry. If you are not old enough to get married you are playing with peoples lives. Stop befor aomething bad happens. Focus on getting an education, sports anything other than dating.
2007-11-09 16:18:34 · answer #4 · answered by Yoda 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
No, you're perfectly normal. Most teens have relationships at least once in their lives with another who are a few years older, or a few years younger. When I was in Jr. high I dated guys in high school.
You just have to be smart. Don't do anything that you know will get you in trouble. Know what I mean?...
2007-11-09 16:19:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
YOUR NOT A PEDOPHILE
its normal to like younger girls
just try not to do anything until shes in highskool
itll look a little weird
2007-11-09 16:17:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
You two are really far apart--not age wise--but at the stage you're at in life. u might be thinking of one thing, but her another. wutever u do, be careful and dont hurt her. and u definitely dont want your rep to be the 9th grader who got dumped by a seventh grader. maybe wait till you're a junior and she's a freshman.
2007-11-09 16:16:05 · answer #7 · answered by mango_luver 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
not a pedophile but it is a lil wierd. get a girl in the ninth or tenth grade man.
2007-11-09 16:17:23 · answer #8 · answered by Nick 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
What could you possible have in common with a middle school girl. The only advantage is she more ignorant then you but then agian that could work out in your favor.
2007-11-09 16:15:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
well if your under 18 then NO...& only you would know if your a pedophile...but i know what you mean its just that people get shocked when they find out that your dating someone in the middle school...but WHATEVER!
2007-11-09 16:16:08 · answer #10 · answered by crazykiaray23 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋