i discovered that my boyfriend had had a physical affair and online affair with a girl. he cut off all contact with her,but i now know that he recently went around to her house, they have been speaking and texting on the phone, and now he has said to her that she must only send emails as text messages are too dangerous. is he gonna cheat on me again with the same girl??
2007-11-09 04:05:58 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes he will cheat again and is probably already doing so. Getting caught will only make him more careful. He will also cheat with others, not just the one you caught him with. Once a cheater, always a cheater. If he wasn't cheating he would not have any reason to receive emails or anything else from her. Now he is just rubbing your nose in it. Dump him. Save yourself future heartache. Dump him.
2007-11-09 04:12:40 · answer #1 · answered by lcmcpa 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I know this probably isn't what you want to hear, but it sounds like he's already cheating on you with her. Why has he been contacting her at all, let alone telling her that texts are too dangerous?
C'mon honey, you already know the answer to this, as much as it hurts.
Do you really want to be in a relationship with someone you can't trust?
However much it hurts to leave this guy right now, that hurt will pass - if you stay with him, you'll end up miserable in the long run.
Get rid of him, get your girlfriends round for moral support, treat yourself to a haircut and a new outfit, and go and get yourself a man who deserves you, not this loser.
Good luck, and a big hug from me.
2007-11-09 04:15:21 · answer #2 · answered by bonniethon (puirt a buel) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, is your ex my ex??!! I had the same problem with my ex. And he cheated once and after that he would talk and meet these internet girls and I don't know if he cheated by kissing, touching or sex with them but agreeing to meet these girls was not ok with me. No matter what he told me I though he was lying. So even if he doesn't cheat you are always going to second guess it. I broke up with him because I could not trust him.
2007-11-09 04:17:38 · answer #3 · answered by racheal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. He's working up to it... He now knows you figured out he's back in touch with her and he's telling her how to contact him in a way he hopes you won't be able to track.
You need to get rid of this cheater. He'll keep cheating on you repeatedly with her and others. If he leaves you for her, he'll do the same thing to HER! That will be HER problem... not yours...
2007-11-09 04:13:07 · answer #4 · answered by Nedra E 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Probably so. He still wants contact and is just limiting the contact to something he thinks you cannot discover. The fact that he still wants contact with her should tell you that you need to dump him because he is unfaithful to you and then he might learn his lesson and try exclusivity with his online girlfriend.
2007-11-09 04:15:30 · answer #5 · answered by Frank 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't say for sure, but if he is still communicating with her, I would bet that he will.
Don't let this relationship drag on and on until your heart's completely broken. Better to have a clean break now, before more damage can be done.
Trust me, it always hurts more the longer you wait to end it.
2007-11-09 04:10:33 · answer #6 · answered by Sweetie Pie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Show me a man who'll turn down a BJ by a gorgeous woman and I'll show you the same man who wouldn't get a second look from most women.
2007-11-09 04:15:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's still contacting her then he doesn't want to continue a relationship with you. he's just not man enough to leave,but the writing is on the phone. sweetie move on and find a MAN who will love and respect you; he's not worth it honey. if he really wanted to work things out w/you and regain your trust he wouldn't still be talking to her now would he? take care and best wishes.
2007-11-09 04:13:06 · answer #8 · answered by freedom fighter 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once a cheater always a cheater. but really if you think about it is really if you trust him. i know that it kills to know that someone you love cheated on you. it would hurt me to know he still talked to her. he has to choose if he wants you or this other girl. no matter how much it hurts you have to know that he loves you and will never hurt you again.
2007-11-09 04:17:01 · answer #9 · answered by lil boricua 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but yes. If not her then another one. Once you forgive them for cheating they think you'll just keep forgiving them.
2007-11-09 04:11:36 · answer #10 · answered by shellshell 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋