I met this guy about a week & 1/2 ago. We hit it off & i asked for his # (which i never do). I didn't call him but he ended up friending me on myspace about 4 days later. Since then we have been exchanging e-mails all week. The emails are casual but have a flirty tone. I'm pretty sure he is into me. Anyways, yesterday he sent me one that casually asked what me & my friends were up to this weekend. I replied that i was busy fri & sat (which i was) but not sure what i was doing later sat. He replied he had no plans fry but was going out of town sat. He then said 'well i will catch up with you guys some other time i guess'. Was he wanting to ask me out?
Why doesn't he just do it then? Should i hint that I am around next week? Should i just tell him to have a good trip & to touch bases next week? Any suggestions ... I would like to let him know i am interested but leave the ball in his crt to ask me out.
He should know i like him since i asked for his #.
Any help would be appreciated.
2007-11-09 04:21:20 · 18 answers · asked by michelle s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just tell him that you are free next weekend and if he would like to make plans to let you know. That way you are letting him know you would like to hang out with him, but still leaving it in his court. He might be thinking that you aren't interested. Yes, you asked for his number, but you never called him...then when he tried to make plans with you, you seemed unavailable. Make it known that you are interested.
2007-11-09 04:26:16 · answer #1 · answered by ~irish~moon~star~ 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He just wants to hang out with you and your friends at first to get to know you a little bit better. He is definalty into you.
If you want him to know that you like him but leave the ball in his court just be sure to mention something about that you really wishes that it would have worked out this weekend for the two of you to hang out. Then just say something like maybe next weekend. That way you are showing him that you really did have plans and that you aren't dodging him. And by suggesting next weekend your just putting it on the table for him without you being the one making the plans.
2007-11-09 04:29:44 · answer #2 · answered by jasmine.smith60 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you asked for his number but then you never called. Granted he did friend you on myspace, but what if he didn't?!?
It sounds to me like was definately trying to hang out. I would definately email him back and say exactly what you were thinking of saying. Something like "Sucks we can't get together this weekend, hopefully next weekend ;-) Have a good trip and I hope to hear from you when you get back!"
It lets you know you like him but still manages to leave the ball in his court. Good luck!
2007-11-09 04:27:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. He was asking you out. Its the new way of doing it. We have become so informal as a society because of email, myspace, texts, etc. That it is hard to get a read on people most of the time. But, yes he was asking you out.
The old way of calling a girl up to go on a date is just not happening anymore. Its easier to do it this way. Also, women have become so skeptical of men because of all the shady things going on these days that it is easier for him to meet up with you and your friends rather than a one on one date.
hope this helps.
Again, Yes, he was asking you out!! LOL
2007-11-09 04:31:20 · answer #4 · answered by Stuey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Asking for a phone number doesn't mean anything... it can be just for being nice or polite. He doesn't necessarily know that you like him.
If you want to fish for a date, tell him that you are bored because you have no plans for next week. We'll see if he invites you to a date that you've been waiting for ;)
2007-11-09 04:27:09 · answer #5 · answered by sir_b_man 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to have a nice trip... and do what you said. That's let him know his interested. I like how he asked what you and your friends are doing... instead of just asking you. I think he's trying not to seem too eager. That's good. Go for it!
2007-11-09 04:27:32 · answer #6 · answered by iloveyou♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was asking you out. You were busy. I'm sure he'll call when he gets back and yes you could tell him to have a good trip.
2007-11-09 04:26:33 · answer #7 · answered by shellshell 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Guys will never be that open unless they are after one thing. I would let him know you are available next weekend and let him ask you out.
2007-11-09 04:29:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's pretty obvious he would have asked you to do something, but since you had plans, there was nothing for him to ask; your answer would have been no. I would have followed it up with "but I'm free ________" so he has an idea. Why don't you ask him to do something? You've been bold so far; don't quit now!
2007-11-09 04:26:45 · answer #9 · answered by xK 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well I`m pretty busy myself right now but as soon as I have some free time I will look at your question more closely & see if I cannot offer some advice OK?
2007-11-09 04:27:53 · answer #10 · answered by edison 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋