u no wot i mean someone who is a lil more than a friend that is willing to satisfy ur needs!
2007-11-09 04:15:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Mine worked out great. We are exclusivley seeing each other now and he is the best friend that I have ever had. You just have to find a way to keep your feelings out of it, unless its there for both of you. If you are only going to mess around dont get to know him or the things going on in his life. Go there just for the sex and leave immediately after. If I were you I wouldnt talk on the phone just txt and ask if the other wants some show up do your thing and leave. Dont allow yourself to stay the night with him, talk much to him, or get to know too much of him or his friends.
2007-11-09 04:20:50 · answer #1 · answered by Janna B. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it can work great but it really depends on the situation. for example if it's someone you were in a relationship with but it didn't work out, and you both know that and that you wouldn't get back together then it can be ok, but if it's with someone you've always just been friends with then I wouldn't have thought it was a good idea as one of you could end up having more feelings than the other.
2007-11-09 05:09:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had one years ago and we were best friends at the time and were friends (with benefits) for about 6 years he joined the army tho and i met someone and we don't talk any more (he doesn't like the person i met and the person i met doesn't like him happy family's lol) and that really guts me cos he was my best mate so even tho it was great at the time i lost something more important cos of it
2007-11-09 04:24:26 · answer #3 · answered by kezza 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive been there before,I find it rarly works cuz someone always ends up having more feelings. Its hard to sleep with someone and not get attached....
2007-11-09 04:18:32 · answer #4 · answered by allie 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I had one for 6 mths and then it went down hill when he found condoms that weren't his...but he told me i could see other peopl cus he was...it never works out!
2007-11-09 04:22:52 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't like friends with benefits because you may tend to catch feelings and maybe get jealous if he opens a new relationship. or he might get jealous if you do.
2007-11-09 04:22:54 · answer #6 · answered by sheena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have one lol.. Thing is though I want it to be more now! LOL ..one always ending up wanting more and the other doesnt
2007-11-09 04:18:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its such a bad idea it never works. complicated every time.
2007-11-09 04:18:10 · answer #8 · answered by Sarah J 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋