Why is it that everytime a man is speaking to another women (not their girlfriend) that the women think were cheating on them? Like being a man and having a girlfriend means your not allowed to talk to any other women besides your lady and family. It makes no sence. We are always lumpted into that "all guys cheat" catagory and I dont think its fair (yes, I know life isnt fair but that not the point). We dont lump all women into one catagory so why do you women do that to us?
2007-11-09 04:23:54 · 11 answers · asked by /N/I/C/K/ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So since you lump us in that group ....how about this "Why do women think all men cheat?"
2007-11-09 04:42:59 · update #1
Have you cheated before?? If so, that would be why your woman is worried about it! Unfortunately, my ex did cheat on me, believe me I have proof. But if I trust the guy I'm with, I don't think he's cheated on me. Each person is different. I think men and women have to learn to stop painting everyone with the same brush.
2007-11-09 04:31:02 · answer #1 · answered by Beth 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you really can't generalize that because guys do the same thing to women. Obviously whichever person is having a fit has some serious insecurities. I could care less if someone talks to someone else. I am a women I have had a boyfriend make the moves on my best friend and you know what I didn't suspect a thing until I saw it with my own eyes when she was kissing him at a party. I didn't hold that against every relationship I have since had, but a lot of people who have been cheated on can't get over it. They drag it into every single relationship they have. That goes for both women and men.
You did lump all women together by your wording your question, "Why do women think all men Cheat?"
2007-11-09 04:31:19 · answer #2 · answered by mamabee 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
ok so lets look at this a couple different ways....Either she has been cheated on and shes so sceptical of the fact everyone will now cheat on..which is something if you are dating the girl you have to deal with what comes with her and find a middle ground which usually comes from communication.........
Or shes cheating on you and she is afraide you are gonna find out and when you do cause we all do find out she wants to throw in your face that you talk to other woman so how does she no you didnt do the same thing....
2007-11-09 04:29:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're lumping us women into one category yourself. I don't think all guys cheat. Some people are faithful and some aren't. You have to learn who to trust and how to trust. Girls can be very sensitive and get jealous easy so they don't like it when their boyfriend has friends who are girls... but guys can get like that too!
2007-11-09 04:33:20 · answer #4 · answered by iloveyou♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
iagree with kyle.
it kind of depends if your flirting or not, loads of people act differently in relationships, most girls do around guys, but i'd say most guys don't change the way the act around other girls when they're in relationships. so it's not so much cheating,
if you spoke to the other girls as if they were men then girls wouldn't mind, i think girls and guys are the same, guys just don't care as much.
2007-11-09 04:31:53 · answer #5 · answered by bellamiella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All women don't do that; the insecure ones do. If your girlfriend is doing that, she either doesn't trust you or she's really insecure in the relationship. Pay more attention to her.
2007-11-09 04:28:43 · answer #6 · answered by xK 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
hum...well let me slide this to you like this here..
I never had a problem with my guy talkin to a female other than me. He's my man he's the one i am with so why trip. Now if he decides to leave me for one of these females then that's gonna haunt him for the rest of his life, cause lately men have been saying "Dayum i fu**'d up, i want my baby back"
Well i guess you don't know what you have until it's gone!
But speaking for females i know and this has happened too...
basically they walk with there guards up!
sorry...get you a rider...LMAO
2007-11-09 04:30:28 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Miss Self-Sufficient 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
great question why should we be tared with the same brush its out of order.i have nurses coming into my house and my ex believed i fancied one of my nurses.not only that she said she see me walking along the road with this woman kissing her and all that and i cant even walk so how bizzare is that.if you can beat that please do.but girls please dont tell lies so much find out how your minds work.
2007-11-09 04:35:48 · answer #8 · answered by dustbin31 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because i i dont know one man in my life has not or wil not cheaat on his mate
2007-11-09 09:46:36 · answer #9 · answered by love 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Because MOST of them do.
2007-11-09 07:13:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋