Family & Relationships - 29 October 2007

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2007-10-29 05:45:14 · 57 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm feeling kind of guilty - tell me what you think. My son is a senior in high school. He has had his license for about 6 months.

We told him before he got it that he would have to pay his own auto insurance, which was about $75 a month. We also told him if he got into an accident or got a ticket, he'd have to pay the additional charges. He had a wreck about a month after getting his license. His portion went up to about $160 a month, but I have him paying $120 of it..... This is HIS portion alone - you don't even want to know what the total premium is now. :( lol

Is it wrong to make him pay his own insurance? I feel kind of bad because that is a whole paycheck for him, but I also want him to learn what it's like to be responsible for at least one bill before he moves out and has to take on a BUNCH of bills.

Your opinions please?

2007-10-29 05:42:12 · 18 answers · asked by nite_angelica 7 in Family

ok like my husband and i have sex alot in every position but me on top. i have been on top maybe six times in 4 years. when i do we both have greast orgasms but i don't get on top for a couple of reasons and one is i always just move back and forward and i wonder if thats wrong? and two is i have very big breast and thats a problem and i just always feel ugly and like i am just awful at it . whats wrong with me/

2007-10-29 05:41:44 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance and I stay together. Im good friends with her cousin. He and I had a disagreement about 3 wks ago. We hadnt spoken to each other since. Last week I called him and left a vmail to give me a call so we can squash our diffrences. He didnt call me back so I figgured he was still upset about the situation. (No big deal) I just figgured He will come around to talk when he is ready. We both said some pretty disrespectful things to each other and almost fought. However, Last nite he shows up at my house while I was out. Still hadnt returned my call or anything to smooth out our problem. Im not mad at the situation anymore, but I was upset that he said what he said and then set foot in my house without speaking to me 1st. to me I would never have a beef with a man and walk in his house with out smoothing that problem over 1st. Out of respect for his home. I wouldnt care if he was dating my sister. He is the man of his home, Its a priciple thing to me. Am I wrong for thinking like that

2007-10-29 05:41:33 · 8 answers · asked by Dr. Love 3 in Family

I went out with my friends and all we did was talk,ride around in the car, and take walks. I came home and my boyfriend told me my breath smelled different and he thinks I was smokeing or drinking. He got upset and went home but, I saw him today and he sais he is not mad and is not going to break up with me but, he keeps pushing me away when I go to hug him or kiss him. To me he still seems mad but sais he is not. What do I do I am so confused.

2007-10-29 05:39:41 · 10 answers · asked by Pandora 1 in Singles & Dating

I like this guy, my god do i like him he is sweet and sensetive and has most of the qualities that i am looking for in a guy. But last night we had sex for the first time and he is soo small. Smaller than i expected, and I felt it but it was kind of weird in a way. He did everything to make it enjoyable but if you cant feel it you cant feel it.I like him alot and i dont want this little problem to jepordize anything . What do i do? Is there like an exercise or a position that i can do to make sex better?

2007-10-29 05:33:17 · 10 answers · asked by Ash-a-wee 2 in Singles & Dating

Are you a Dirty Old Man or A Debonaire On the Move.....Why?

2007-10-29 05:32:22 · 9 answers · asked by hungrykong 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I just don't get this - you have your entire adult life ahead of you and you've cut out all future experiences by at least 1/2, probably more. I mean, if that's what you really wanna do, more power to you. You're an adult and can make whatever decision re: yourself that you'd like. But I just do not understand it and cannot think of a single good reason to go through with this.

And what's worse is when someone will marry the first (and only) person they've had sex with. That just... it almost makes me feel sorry for them, in a way.


Thanks.

2007-10-29 05:30:38 · 27 answers · asked by Brandon's been a dirty Hore 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Guys when your talkig to girls on the phone what do u like to talk about??? If your teenagers or young adults?? I was reading this in a magizine.....your not bf and gf but like each other... Like guys please answer this before you hang up it said in the article most guys just say well alright or call me tom or see ya before hanging up... and it had a poll saying do u think it's weird if a girl says i love u before you do?? Do yall like it when the girl says it first aking a move or do u think it's weird and would feel embarrased after hanging up?? finally will he be happy when he hears it??

2007-10-29 05:30:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and this boy REALLY like each other and he said to me *HEY* we could make a porno video one day AND I SAID OKAY just for are eyes i just said it and we both laughted after hehe...... we have never met only spoke though phone and internet.... hes a good guy from what i know we are planning to meet each other soon =] we have been chatten to each other for 7months or 8 ! but hes REALLY good to talk to he listens to u and gives advice and he shares his feelings with me he has manners his character is like a joker he makes u laught everyday hehe. and he said to me when he hears my voice i make him smile =]...... when i think about him i get *wet* or even just look at his picture which he makes me feel diffrent from other boys i liked =] I just wanna know what do u think of this hole story ?? thank u for answering x

2007-10-29 05:27:19 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

really sell yourself!

2007-10-29 05:25:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am moving to the first place of my own in a month. I must move. Not moving is not an option. I am very poor. I have no furniture. I don't even have a bed to sleep on! What should I do?

2007-10-29 05:25:23 · 5 answers · asked by Big Blue 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

if so y and if not y?

2007-10-29 05:22:40 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The kids parents are pretty much non exsistant. The 7 yr old asked if she could call me mommy becuase she hasnt said that word in a long time. It broke my heart.

2007-10-29 05:18:57 · 22 answers · asked by eviegrl24 1 in Family

It's been quite a long time since the hubby and I have had 'relations' (*L*) so we are a bit rusty but I have a feeling tonight is the night to get things going again....

What do you like for your wife/girlfriend to do? Fave positions?

2007-10-29 05:16:53 · 11 answers · asked by Alison 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My mom wants me to date someone who is a Christian and he is....he just got into alittle trouble last March...He got a DWI but he's really cleaning his act up....I like him alot and I'm afriad....she will hate him.....my dad doesn't care its just my mom and stepdad...I also have a 1 1/2 year old daughter and they don't want me to make another mistake like I did.... My mom told me last night that she wants to know everything going on in my life......I want some freedom..all my friends keep telling me that I'm 21, when they were 21 they lived on their own and made their own descisions....... I don't know how to tell her whats going on.... I wish she wasn't like this.....its so frustrating.......I can't do anything.....I don't want to stop dating him and I don't want to hurt his feelings..... I also don't want my parents prying into my life....... how do I tell her......I can just see her freaking out on me......its so frustrating!!!! please help!!!!!!!

2007-10-29 05:04:24 · 63 answers · asked by Chrissy M 1 in Singles & Dating

I am devastated because I was babysitting a little 7 year old boy for my neighbor and I walked in my daughters room because they were being too quiet and caught them kissing, I immediately beat them unmercifley and told his mother when she got there as well, I don't want to go overboard because I don't want her to think that it's something she should do to be defiant but I also want this to stop and never happen again, what should I do?

2007-10-29 05:03:45 · 19 answers · asked by special k 2 in Family

Especially if you needed to be considered legally married if your boyfriend/girlfriend were in the military? Or if you needed to be considered legally married so that the other could immigrate? Or if you know that the marriage would be awkward because the bride's or groom's parents wouldn't show up?

2007-10-29 05:01:28 · 12 answers · asked by ameeker 3 in Weddings

If an unmarried girl has a married guy as a boyfriend and has physical relations with him, is it possible for the married boyfriend's wife/family to take legal action against this unmarried girl for having a relationship with him? If yes, what is the expected punishment as per Indian law?
P.S The unmarried girl is NOT ME. Its someone I know.

2007-10-29 05:01:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-29 04:59:26 · 23 answers · asked by ameeker 3 in Weddings

I went to a wedding where the bride and groom were 3 hours late to their own wedding!

2007-10-29 04:59:01 · 6 answers · asked by ameeker 3 in Weddings

My sister quit her 12- hour shift job. She currently owns her own home. She has one child. She is not married. She quit her job without having a back up job. She is now job less. She cursed me out. She told me that nobody cares about her. My husband was trying to help her get a job that pays $10 an hour.

2007-10-29 04:58:01 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Short version: I'm 22 and in graduate school, my boyfriend is 24. My family HATES him and i'm in counseling for it. My therapist even agrees that they are being unreasonable and irrational. Anyway, back in mid september I get an email from my mother outlining every wrong my boyfriend has ever done and then she says that they think its best if they have little to no contact with me from now on so I can be happy. Anyway, some things happened and i've gotten a few emails (mostly about my grandmothers health or having to put my horse down). Then she goes on vacation with my grandparents and emails me to say she sent a box of grape juice and something else for me home with them (my parents live in another state, my grandparents an hour and a half from me) and that I can go to their house whenever and pick it up. She had previously told them that if they were in town they weren't to take me out to lunch or stop by to see me. Now i'm getting presents from her? So, what do I do?

2007-10-29 04:53:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I've been with my partner for a little over 5 years and have 2 children with him.
Recently his attitude has been really getting me down. Well that's coz it stinks! He's a very negative and controling person. He never does anything with me or the kids, complains about stuff i do or don't do. I'm fed up with being called a c#*t or stupid ***** etc when he doesn't get his own way. He sulks and stomps about and pulls faces. I'm quite a perky person ( not annoyingly perky mind), i'd say pleasantly up-beat! he's really childish and spitful. For example after all morning of either ignoring me or speaking to me like shite, 2 minutes before he left for work he asked to borrow my mp3 player. I said no, you don't respect my stuff and you can't treat someone like crap and then go 'oo can you do me a favour?' That's not how it works, so he left in a huff, i got called a fat lazy ***** and he took the t.v remote with to wind me up! He feels the need to criticise everyone, i think he's insecure....

2007-10-29 04:50:11 · 22 answers · asked by kate e 2 in Marriage & Divorce

how long did you date before you got married & how long have you been married?

2007-10-29 04:46:53 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok for the past month i have people tellin me that my boyfriend is cheating...but i cant think of him cheating...we've been together for about 8 months now. i trust him, but im tired of people talkin about it and so i started thinking what if he is...so i created a chick on myspace and said she lived 30 mins from us..and i put up a cute pic...and hes like flirting with her (me). i kno this feels wrong but i wanna kno if he would cheat or not cause my last relationship he cheated and abused me...so i hope hes not cheating....but what if he asks to meet up...what should i do?

2007-10-29 04:43:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

his legs are really hair. will i get legs like thos?

2007-10-29 04:41:27 · 12 answers · asked by zac2k4 1 in Family

but what is ocd exactly?

2007-10-29 04:39:41 · 4 answers · asked by jesse m_violated for nothing 3 in Family

My guy has commitment issues with me to the point that I don't believe what he says to me anymore. This is kinda long so bear with me!

We've known each other 7 years. He left home for job corps, 5 years ago. After that he went straight to the Army 3 years ago.
We haven't had much time face to face. There were always other people stopping us from being together. He was married 2 years, I was engaged for 3. We both got out of our relationships recently. We are now together but he says he will never be able to trust me because of what his ex-wife did to him. He says we might never get married because he might not be able to trust me. Despite this, he told me he wishes he never married his wife, and that he and I were meant to be together all along, and he loves me more than he ever could have loved her.

What can I do to convince him, that if he loves me as much as he says, he should be able to trust me? I cannot wait forever for him to get over her!

2007-10-29 04:34:14 · 33 answers · asked by MuñecaBarbie 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-29 04:28:55 · 14 answers · asked by Ricardo N 1 in Marriage & Divorce