I went out with my friends and all we did was talk,ride around in the car, and take walks. I came home and my boyfriend told me my breath smelled different and he thinks I was smokeing or drinking. He got upset and went home but, I saw him today and he sais he is not mad and is not going to break up with me but, he keeps pushing me away when I go to hug him or kiss him. To me he still seems mad but sais he is not. What do I do I am so confused.
2007-10-29 05:39:41 · 10 answers · asked by Pandora 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-10-29 06:09:53 · update #1
Maybe he's the super jealous type. Are you sure you really want him?
2007-10-29 05:47:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK. Yes. he's still mad.
Give him his space. He has to come to grips with you going out with your friends (without him I take it) and his feelings.
He has trust issues. Accusing you of doing things you didn't do - is a sign of trust issues. So it's his responsibility to reconcile them - within himself.
Give him some time. Like several days. Don't call him. Don't text him. Don't IM him. Leave him alone. When he has calmed down, then you two can discuss the situation - including you going out without him (hey, you're entitled to a life!) the fact that he didn't believe you (you told the truth), the fact that he lost his temper (way uncool), and the fact that he wouldn't discuss the situation promptly (also way uncool), thereby keeping you on edge for several days (how selfish).
Sounds like he has some growing up to do - maybe you ought to give him even more space. You need to be paying more attention to your studies right now anyway.
2007-10-29 05:48:41 · answer #2 · answered by Barbara B 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well he's still mad... very obvious. Basically u gotta find a way to make it up to him, if ur as innocent as u claim u are. Buy him something, give him some kinda special romantic night letting him know u care a lot about him. Just try to surprise him and he'll be ok in no time.
2007-10-29 05:44:55 · answer #3 · answered by toomuchgame441 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I let the frustration and the anger take over me. You didnt do ANYTHING wrong! So you gotta be stern, dont let him bully you. Just say, "LOOK BABE (whatever you call him), you seem pretty pissed off about the other day still and you really shouldn't because NOTHING HAPPENED. Why would we smoke or especially drink while we are DRIVING, do you think that I am a complete idiot?? I never did anything wrong and your treating of me like an outcast right now is not fair, damnit!!!"
2007-10-29 05:46:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
obviously he's still mad... some people can mask their true emotions and he's trying to but failing... give him some time... he ight have been home all night thinking about all the things that you might be doing... he sounds way tooo jealous, and just with friends!!!! tell him to go out with his friends too, he's the one making himself mad and everything for no good reason... tell him to get over it... friends are CRITICAL in life, and i know many people that would chose their friends over their significant others ANY day, because friends will always be there, you can always forgive them, but boyfriends and girlfriends come and go...
2007-10-29 05:48:42 · answer #5 · answered by Tano A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
marry me :P anyways kidding don't mind it perhaps u need to talk to him.... the best part is that you already know as to where the problem is i.e. his abusive childhood. now since you know the root of all evils then all u need to do is to just talk to him when he's calm talk in such a manner that he doesn't get angry and listens to you.. also show to him that u care for him...... and try and convince to go for counseling, if he's sane enuf to follow perhaps everything may go all right and yes do tell him that he scares u the way he acts sometimes. and watch the reaction and act accordingly
2016-04-11 00:56:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ooh I hate it when they do that! Just let him be immature like that. If he says he's not mad than give him like 2 days and if he keeps doing that tell him it's not your fault that he thinks your were smoking/drinking, try to solve the problem again, and that you either act like a couple or you don't be one.
2007-10-29 05:44:50 · answer #7 · answered by chichi117 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like he is still mad and at that sounds like he thinks you are cheating. You know what they say usually when some one accuses you of something they are doing it. I would confront him about it let him know and ask him to tell you what is on his mine cause obviously something got his draws in a twist.
2007-10-29 05:47:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said that was all you did and you didn't smoke or drink so he needs to trust you. I would act normal. If you don't he will think something is up.
2007-10-29 06:04:48 · answer #9 · answered by lynn84iris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds as if he's still mad....... just give him some time and space and it will eventually go away. Yesterday my BF was mad at me for no reason for like 2 hours, and after he saw I was plain ignoring him he just came and asked ME to hug HIM (and HE was the one mad at me....???)......... so just leave him alone for a while and he will come asking for some......... be patient....... good luck.
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2007-10-29 05:44:26 · answer #10 · answered by Lprod 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋