ok for the past month i have people tellin me that my boyfriend is cheating...but i cant think of him cheating...we've been together for about 8 months now. i trust him, but im tired of people talkin about it and so i started thinking what if he is...so i created a chick on myspace and said she lived 30 mins from us..and i put up a cute pic...and hes like flirting with her (me). i kno this feels wrong but i wanna kno if he would cheat or not cause my last relationship he cheated and abused me...so i hope hes not cheating....but what if he asks to meet up...what should i do?
2007-10-29 04:43:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's cheating.....
2007-10-29 04:47:17 · answer #1 · answered by str8talker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he asks to meet up that does not mean he would want a relationship with your fictitious Internet "chick". Although it probably does. If this happens then it most likely means he is prepared to cheat on you and might imply that he is doing so already.
However you would need to be absolutely certain that he hasn't sussed you out with your Internet thing and is merely playing you at your own game by flirting with her because he knows it's really you.
If he asks the fictitious girl out, then you could reply that she is already dating someone. You never know he might just drop himself right in it by saying something like "so am I but who cares let's meet up anyway".
I reckon either way that after 8 months you should be able to just ask him outright if he is seeing someone else, and you should be able to tell from his response if he is telling the truth.
If you have any doubts then you should drop him.
2007-10-29 11:58:48 · answer #2 · answered by steve 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you already know enough right now to dump him (granted I don't know how trustworthy these friends who tell who he's cheating are, but it's unlikely that a group of ppl would make up something about him for no reason) Aside from the warnings from your friends, he should not even be looking at profiles of girls on MySpace in the first place. Having female friends is one thing, but going to seek out new female friends online is just slimy. Dump him now before you sink to his level of disrespectful behavior.
2007-10-29 11:54:14 · answer #3 · answered by Hudson P 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sorry to say but it seems like he is cheating. What you are doing is not totally right but at least it's gonna tell you what he is capable of. And considering your past relationship you kind of have the right. If he ask you to meet up, you go and tell him off. And ask him what he was there for and if he lies to you then that's just unacceptable.
2007-10-29 11:51:32 · answer #4 · answered by rocking the # 11 =] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would simply just confront him about this issue instead of running behind his back on MySpace, I mean it could be useful if you do ask and he looks guility of tries to change the subject, you could put on a wig, and meet him and confront him like that to really give him a surprise. Either way, you have a right to know what's going on in your relationship.
2007-10-29 11:49:23 · answer #5 · answered by Vanity Affaire 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nobody wants to believe their boyfriend is cheating but if more than one person is telling you he is then the odds are he is. Do they say they have seen him with another girl?? Is he spending less time with you and making excuses that he is busy? If so, those are all indications he is not being truthful with you.
2007-10-29 11:52:09 · answer #6 · answered by Bears Mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pay a hooker to meet him up and spy on them, if he makes a move, slap him, curse him, dump him and pay the hooker.
and he is wrong for flirting with the fake "you" and when people are telling you he's a cheater, it's either they are jealous or just looking out for you.
2007-10-29 11:52:39 · answer #7 · answered by Kristine B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see how far he'll go with the chatting. is he willing to get sexual? if so, then ask him to meet you....then, get there first and as soon as he walks in the door make sure he sees you.
he'll be so busted and you'll know that it's over and he sucks.
2007-10-29 11:56:19 · answer #8 · answered by joey322 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If He AskS If He WanTs Too MeeT up Say Ok And Ask If He Has A GiRL FriENd To See If He Will DenY YoU And If He DOes Just BreAk Up WiT HiM CausE He miGhT Be PlayInG YoU!!!!!!!!!!!!111111
2007-10-29 11:49:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Follow through, you'll get your answers. If he asks you to meet up, go and confront him, then dump him.
2007-10-29 11:57:55 · answer #10 · answered by badkittie2u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF HE DOSE tell him G O O D B Y E if he's interested then he,ll C H E A T ????
2007-10-29 11:52:08 · answer #11 · answered by goodguyhals 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋