Family & Relationships - 21 October 2007

2007-10-21 16:36:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-21 16:34:45 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Someone i just need some help or advice im only 15 and my boyfriend and i have only been goin out for almost a week. I've never felt like this about anyother guy at all. Him and i talk everyday for hours and hours but he's moving at the end of this school year i dont know what to do and i could realy use the help and realy appriciate some advice!!!!! thanks so much!!!!

2007-10-21 16:34:30 · 7 answers · asked by Constance (Music is LIfe) 2 in Singles & Dating

My friend was married 2 weeks before her bridal shower on short notice....she recieved gifts at her bridal shower only.....they were only married for a total of 38 days.....does she return the gifts from the shower which were only kept for a couple of weeks or do they keep them and split them between themselves???? can anyone tell me the proper etiquette here????

2007-10-21 16:31:12 · 6 answers · asked by Amy N 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i am a great kid... i have a 4.0, i have never been drunk or High, i have good friends, i have a job, and i am very responcible. everyone i ask says that my parents need to give me more freedom. i cant stay out late on weekends or go any where or do anything without asking them. its so annoying. my mom is embarrassing me on purpose and thinks its funny. i have tried talking to her, but it is no use. i can hardly stand it.

2007-10-21 16:26:21 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

If it was your wedding, and you invited a close cousin to come to it, and they decide not to come because: 1. They don't like the way your wedding is being held and 2. They didn't like the way they were invited to the wedding. Would you go to their wedding when they get married?

2007-10-21 16:22:30 · 16 answers · asked by TaDaa! 6 in Weddings

2007-10-21 16:20:14 · 36 answers · asked by lorrnae 3 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend just asked me to marry him. i can't wait! we want a quick court house wedding.

problem is my dad told me awhile ago he really wanted to be there if/when we get married. he lives in arkansas we live in michigan. we don't want to make a big deal outta it.

plus if we tell dad and he's the only one there we have other family that would be offended.

should we just do it and tell dad later?

2007-10-21 16:19:49 · 19 answers · asked by .. 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok,I am going to vent a little.I have been divorced from my ex for about 3 years I am remarried to a wonderful man.Anyways,my current husband does work.I do not I stay at home with our son.Well,anyways my ex.Doesn't work,still lives with his mom,and shares a bedroom with our son.Keep in mind he is 40 years old now.Her lately I can't get him to do anything except ****.Like for instance I asked him to get my son a haircut Saturday when he got him from me.Did he do no.I asked him to take him to pick out some shoes a couple of weeks ago did he do it no.I take that back yes he did he went to dollar store and picked out a pair.My son is hard on his shoes he is 9 years old.So I had to go to Target to get him some myself.I don't mind doing stuff for my son when he is with me I do laudry.cleaning,cooking ,and yes go shopping for him.
Right now we have joint custody he has him for a week and than I do and so on so forth.Would you take him back to court?He doesn't pay child support.

2007-10-21 16:19:43 · 9 answers · asked by what did you say 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been trying to leave my house for 2 years.
I'm the youngest of 3, my 2 older sisters are 10 years older than me, they left long ago.

Money is not the problem, I make very good money.

I'm a 26 year old male with a curfew, I have to be home by midnight. I want to leave my house, but they make me feel all guilty everytime I even mention it.

My parents are both retired and healty, but they don't let me leave.
They keep me doing chores all day long after work. I've been renting an apartment for the last 5 months, but I've never actually slept here.

I use my apartment to get phone calls, because at home my mom will pick up the other phone everytime I try to talk. I can invite friends over without my mom wanting to talk to them.
Today is Sunday, I'm using my apartment to avoid my parents wanting me to spend all day long with them and making chores.

They know I have an apartment, but they make me feel so guilty, I can't move in.

What can I do?

2007-10-21 16:15:05 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-10-21 16:14:23 · 39 answers · asked by i wished i lived in nanaimo 1 in Singles & Dating

He is married with someone after we stop contact each other for one year. He dated a girl for 2 months and got married. How can that happen so fast? Will they last long? I know I shouldn't think of him anymore, but after I heard that he got married, and soon will become a father, I feel so sad, and after I heard the news for months, I still think of him and miss him today. I also think about when will they get a divorce..I know this is not right, but I can't control myself from stop thinking of him... We had been together for 4 1/2 years, I really can't forget him. I found out I still love him, and I miss him so much... pls tell what can I do, and what should I do to stop thinking of him?
I even did some foolish thing: I called him, but he changed his cell number, so I emailed him once, but he replied me and told me not to bother him, cause what happened is history... I know, I am very clear about that.. but my mind is out of control...

2007-10-21 16:13:03 · 7 answers · asked by Ellen L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-21 16:11:03 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Please help us. I had a argument with my husband and I think he is wrong, but he claims, I am at fault. Please help us by telling who is at fault and why? Please be fair

Yesterday , I was driving me new Lexus RX350 and parked in the garage. My husband told me to open the trunk door and I obliged. He picked up all the shopping bags ( his hands were full) and went inside. I went out of my car and closed the garage door , while the trunk door of my new Lexus was open. It hit the door and put a dent on it. My husband never told me that he didn’t close the door. I assumed that he had closed the door , so I did close the garage door. I confronted my husband and he told me that I should have looked because I was the one who was coming in the end and he also told me that God has given me big eyes and I should use it. I told him that at least he should have tell me that door is not close and we went in arguments whole night. My question is who is at fault me or my husband. Also, my Lexus locks itself, so I never locks it. I believe he is at fault, but he don’t want to accept, pl help us

2007-10-21 16:07:01 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My very close friends friend at school doesn't like me and says "hit me" and points to his face tryin to start a fight with me. I usually just tell him he's very imature and needs to grow up and I can tell that makes him very angry. Most of the time when he talks about anything in general he talks in a high pitch voice because everyone at the table laughs. Im short for my age and have an ok amount of muscle for my age, but intend to start exercising for more and he is 3 times+ bigger then me . I am very self controlled and wont fight someone unless its a situation where if I don't fight back I'll be hurt but this is more of a mental and emotional thing. I told my friends how I feel and ask why they even hang with him and they say cuz its funny. Alot of the times he will call me worthless because for a few months last year I smoked pot and he said I was stupid. What should I do?

2007-10-21 16:05:18 · 20 answers · asked by Mr. BrightSide 1 in Friends

My close guy friend said to me " I want you to know, that uh that even if i dont really show it all that often, uh i think your really awesome" and he sounded all nervous.Do you think that this may have been his way trying to tell me that he likes me?

2007-10-21 16:04:35 · 8 answers · asked by Caroline C 1 in Singles & Dating

Doe's anyone have any suggestions on the greiving process? My Dad died about 3 mths. ago and Sometimes I get so worked up about the reality I think I'll have a panic attack. It comes and goes but The sadness and depression are getting bad.

2007-10-21 16:02:44 · 8 answers · asked by sunburned 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay this is Kinda hypothetical:

Say last year your freinds with somebody and think that he/she likes you.

Then at a dance you yell at him/her and his/her boyfreind/girlfreind after being stressed and feel embarrased afterwards.

Then you feel guilty, and realize you actually like him/her.Now you realize you made a really big mistake and they don't like u anymore (you think)

Next year, he/she and you are sorta freinds again but not as close.

She/He starts to like your best freinds and it becomes more obvious then black is darker then white.

You start to get jealous of your best freinds and know it's wrong but don't know what do. and you still like them.

What do you do next?

2007-10-21 16:02:23 · 34 answers · asked by Rydon 3 in Singles & Dating

it sounds wierd but i am having a hard time with this. we have been together for over 3 years and are both going to the same college. we have talked about marrying each other and having kids with each other. i love him so much and would do anything for him. but alot of the time it seems like i am second, third, even fourth priority to his friends, school... anything! school i can definitely imagine but his friends are nothing special. his "best friend" went 6 months without calling hiim, answering his calls, lying to him and trying to avoid him, and now that there hanging out again it really bothers me because theres MANY times when this friends comes before me and he will only hang out with me when his friends cant or dont want to do anything with him. also it seems like he puts on an act for his friends and if they dont want him to bewith a girl girl then he puts me even lower on his list to make those friends happy. why would he do this and then want to marry me? am i crazy?!

2007-10-21 16:01:01 · 4 answers · asked by Lynne. 2 in Singles & Dating

I've come to find out that my teacher's husband knows my name. Also her teacher friends know my name. Sometimes they give me these weird looks, and other times they smile at me. This is my former teacher too. I saw her at the parade the other day, and she kept looking around in my organization and saying "she...she.." One of her teacher friends that has never smiled at me before smiled at me today, but with a closed mouth.

2007-10-21 15:59:51 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

hes 19, and hes my stepbro
and im almost 14, i luv him to death but we dont talk

2007-10-21 15:56:30 · 3 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family

i was with my ex for 7 yrs we were both very mixed up in the drug seen for a very long time off and on after we had lost everything and had to ask a member of my family to take the kids i left state to get clean and he ended up in jail it has been 1 1/2 yrs and i have a good life and my kids are with me things are good but last week i found out he was released so i sent him an e-mail letting him know that if he was clean and wanted to be a part of his kids life i had no problem with letting him but my new boy friend thinks i should have left it up to the ex to find us i just didn't want to be one of the mothers that don't even give the dad a chance to be a dad even if it would just be a part time gig please let me know if i did the right thing

2007-10-21 15:56:24 · 5 answers · asked by flkenout 3 in Family

I aint talkin no first cuzin. we all gettin tired a lookin at one another, been spendin to much time with each udder.

2007-10-21 15:56:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i am 13 yrs old and my name is stephanie. i feel that i can never get through a conversation with my parents without them ever letting me talk or give them any reasoning. usually there answere to everything is NO. i resently asked them if i can start wearing a littly bit of eyeliner on the lower part of my eye. like always it was a no. they NEVER give me reasoning. i feel that a person should control they're own apperence and not live up to anothers. i respect the way my parents feel and i understant the they have a say-so in it but i think im ready. ill be going into high-school next year....in other words IM GROWING UP. my parents swear im still a 9 yrs old little girl. i just want to show that my parents that i am at a proper age in my life to decie if i'd like to wear a littlle bit of eyeliner. can you all please write back and tell me if im saying all the right things. ill show my parents your answers and see if it has an inpact on their decision. thank you all bye =]

2007-10-21 15:54:34 · 10 answers · asked by Stephanie F 1 in Family

My brother in law (BIL),divorced, died on October 16th.He left behind my two wonderful neices aged 11 and 14. My wife and I have always been in their lives. BIL had full custody of the girls. The ex wife had weekend visitation for 24 hours two times a month. She has had 3 more children form another man, split up and has since married another man. The ex wife's sister also lives with in the same small house where her 3 small children also reside. My neices approached me when he passed away at his deathbed. They pleaded that they do not want to live with their mother and asked to live with us. They do not want to be pulled from their school, friends, church (we are their godparents)sports,& their grandma who lives nearby. We met with their biological mom. She told us that she may grant us custody under the condition that she gets to visit the kids more. What immediate steps can we take to get custody and help these kids? We are parents of three grown daughters 22,20,&17. Thanks

2007-10-21 15:51:59 · 5 answers · asked by Mr. C 1 in Family

She is saying hateful, character-slamming things that are so rude and have no basis in reality. She is using four-letter words. I told her three days ago to stop contacting me or I would file harassement charges and yet she still contacts me. She is mad at me cause I was trying to be her friend and my ex told me on Thursday to leave her alone cause he decided he was uncomfortable with how close we were getting. He has not told her apparently that he was the reason for me no longer contacting her. Now she has gone insane on me and will not leave me alone. And she's a cop!!! I am tired of getting text messages all night long and all day and I refuse to change my phone number or email address. What to do?????

2007-10-21 15:50:21 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

how many women..are married..in a seeminly happy marriage..(im happy anyway, he says he is..)BUT..the sex is not nearly frequent enough and not that great..its gotten very boring...im always trying to come up with ways to spice things up...but he says when guys get older they loose there 'libito'...hes only 37..and i just turned 30...im attractive,fun and very flirty with my husband..nothing seems to spark anything...so my QUESTION is how do u keep things alive and what do u do when things get kinda ..BLAH?? (without cheating)..ofcouse ;-)

2007-10-21 15:48:44 · 11 answers · asked by lisa baby... 5 in Marriage & Divorce

i love her very much and we have 3 very young children together and i don't want to leave them but i can't handle all the fighting anymore

2007-10-21 15:48:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

ok so theres this guy i REALLY like and a few weeks ago he told me he liked me and i told him i liked him too.....but now hes saying he likes my friend...What should i do??

2007-10-21 15:47:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, so my friend lies A LOT and she says she can't help it. She calls herself a pathelogical liar. from what i know, a pathelogical liar is someone who doesnt realize they lie. but she does and she keeps saying she will improve and she doesnt. so i wanna know what one really is. can u help me?

2007-10-21 15:47:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends