Family & Relationships - 21 October 2007

do guys play little games like some girls do, or is it true that they're more straight forward. for example, if you think a guy likes you and you send him a message/email, would he wait a few days to message back to not seem desprate or would he write back immediatly each time?(all other signs points to he likes you)is it kinda like that wait a few days to call thing?

If a guy is intrested in a girl he thinks is out of his leauge, how will he act if he thinks she might like him but isnt sure?

2007-10-21 13:07:47 · 5 answers · asked by 47skittles 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm just curious, with all the "most beautiful" lists coming out and filled with older actors, how many women / men would date someone older than themselves? How old are you, and how old would you be willing to go? Why would you be attracted to them?

2007-10-21 13:01:04 · 4 answers · asked by voidedlives 3 in Singles & Dating

ok me and my exfiance just decided to go our seprate ways . Im in a new relationship and living with my new boyfriend. Well i have a 4 year old son and me and his father have joint custody of him . He gets him every weekend friday till sunday . The problem here is every time he comes back he dont want nothing to do with me and he crys till he goes to bed . I just dont know how to deal with this problem im a young 22 year old mother and i need some advice how to deal with this situation please help.

2007-10-21 13:00:08 · 5 answers · asked by bunnieboo2u 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-21 12:59:34 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

tell mee details

2007-10-21 12:51:08 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband's best friend and his wife have just gone through some crazy drama!
Married for 8 yrs & have a 4 yr old girl. She cheated on him on 3 seperate occassions, with 3 seperate guys... that he knows of. This was over 3 years. He forgave her each time. She also never worked & spent all their money on random stuff to the point where they'd have $20 out of a $2200 paycheck left to last them for five days. Bills got paid but my hubby's friend told him their bills were only about half of his paychecks. They moved to a bigger city to start over. Then HE met a girl while he was going to school to make their lives better and starting seeing her, telling her that his wife and him were legally seperated when they were, infact, very much together. She found out about the other girl via cell phone records & confronted the girl who told her that they'd been sleeping together for 3 mths. She, then packed everything and moved back to their old town and reunited with her ex boyfriend. He tried

2007-10-21 12:45:52 · 25 answers · asked by shellj_foxy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-21 12:43:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

theres this annoying kid and says ' i don't like ur attitude' all the time whats a good cmeback to say the the person cuz its kind of annoying. but i want to say something good back

2007-10-21 12:36:17 · 28 answers · asked by I ♥ Tom DeLonge 3 in Friends

What's the sweetest thing a guy has ever done for you?

2007-10-21 12:36:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband swears when he gets angry in public.... I find this incredibly disrespectful--especially when children are present. Do you agree?
I've told him this bothers me, but he doesn't seem to care. He says that children hear worse in school.

He was raised in a different culture. German culture to be exact. I don't believe that's an excuse. What to do???

2007-10-21 12:34:39 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My mom used to pick on me all my life and I always told myself that I would never be like her. However, I notice sometimes that I start picking on my fiance and cannot stop. I don't want to be this person but I don't know how to control myself sometimes. It got to the point that it causes us big fights and he gets very very upset. He says he doesn't want to be with a person who puts him down, and I don't blame you. I am usually a very positive person who likes to cheer others up but once in a while I get in a bad mood and then pick on everything. How can I stop??

2007-10-21 12:33:15 · 14 answers · asked by terliuke 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-21 12:31:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well. me and two girls have formed a little trio about a year ago. and uhm. this guy i met. he's like. now in our group. l: whats it called now.

Quadroped? QUAD?
i have no clue l:

2007-10-21 12:28:53 · 10 answers · asked by pimp_knuckles 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Omg i saw a girl i really liked the other day and she was so hot it was untrue and i was looking at her and i went all red and my heart started beating fast and for the last 3 days i have been getting the same sensation of goosebumps and my heart beating fast and it feels really good.Is it an orgasm i thought you could only get an orgasm during sex?

2007-10-21 12:28:11 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I are making a list of questions for each other before we move in together (we have been together for 2 years) We are going to create questions about our future goals and we are exchanging them for each other to answer so we can see how we feel about certain issues that we haven't discussed or haven't thought of. Some of my questions are
1. What type of job or career is each of us working toward?
2. How much do we need to live on? Want to live on?
3. Will we live near our families or not?
4. Will one of us be willing to be a stay-at-home parent?
Okay...You get the idea. Help me to create topics we should discuss before moving in together and taking our relationship to the next level. please give me some questions you think are important in your relationship that maybe I have not thought of yet.
Thank you for your participation. If you don't have something nice to say, then don't bother. This is just something we are doing to learn more and have fun!

2007-10-21 12:26:34 · 20 answers · asked by l'il mama 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I am having a problem with my husband not knowing what I like. I have tried to give him "hints" but he is just not getting it. I am stopping short of just telling him. I want to bop him in the head. How can guys be so dumb. Thinking of trading this defective model in for something new and shiny. Am I being selfish? Why doesen't he just "get it"? I don't want to have to teach him how to be a man and how to lead. It's like I am lowering myself trying to tell him what I want. Right? I am not the first woman he has dated, he should know these things. It's not my fault.

2007-10-21 12:20:39 · 10 answers · asked by Magnus01 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I really like this guy who is a close friend of mine. He is a senior and I'm a junior. He is really funny and just amazing but today I found out he smokes. I'm not saying people who smoke are bad people, I just know a lot of people that have major medical conditions because of it. I care about him and I really don't want him to smoke. It is nasty and makes me gag and must of all ruins your organs. What do I say to try to convince him? I can't stand to see people I care about ruining themselves. Like how should I bring it up. He doesn't know I know he smokes..so yeah. Please help!

2007-10-21 12:14:28 · 5 answers · asked by charley 3 in Friends

My married friend has been having an affair with a woman he really likes. But he always complains that she is moody, difficult, snobbish, and sometimes ignores him. But he also tells me that she loves him, and that when she is nice she gives him attention which he adores as he does not have it with his wife.
Lately, over an argument, he left her house in a hurry and she was so pissed off that she called his house at 4 in the morning! Repetitively, a million times. He answered (the whole house had woken up!) and she swore and insulted him and asked to 'speak to his wife' just to scare him.
He was so shocked that he did not know what to do.
Next day she calls and tells him she loves him, blablabla. He tells her that he can't get over what she did, and lost his trust in her.
What I don't understand is : he still calls her, and he tells me that she has many problems and she needs his help,. that he still cares for her, still loves her, but is confused what to do.
Why talk to her???

2007-10-21 12:13:56 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a friend who just got his first boyfriend after recently coming out and I want to be happy for him but I wasn't ever because they just met and his boyfriend is annoying so i assumed this kid was shallow{no lie their first convorsation started by him saying "i like you" how can you like someone you've never talked to?} so i didn't make an effort to be his friend and tried to hide how i felt.
One day I was on AIM and me and my friend were talking and we havn't talked in a while and he was like i got to go i'm going to my boyfriend's house and i'm like "come on stay and talk to me" and he was like "no i'll call you from his house" and i was like "don't bother."this is where he started to realize{reolize?} i didn't like his boyfriend.
so he asked me{if i liked him} and i didn't answer.he got his boyfriend to ask me and i didn't wanna answer.

2007-10-21 12:10:17 · 15 answers · asked by Someone 3 in Friends

My husband is a mean angry man with a bad drinking problem. He went to jail for beating me up. I have moved away from him. What happens in court whem someone is charged with Domectic Violence?

2007-10-21 12:05:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm getting bullied by my own brother. Am 13 and hes 17 when ever I say something he doesn't like he just grab be by the neck and bets be up. Someone help.

2007-10-21 12:05:00 · 7 answers · asked by JerBear 3 in Family

ok so i like this guy and i think he migh tlike me. I don't want to tel him i like him becaus ei know him well enough to know that if he likes me back he will make the first move. the reason i know this is because last year he liked my best friend and he waited till like 3-4 months after he met her to ask her out or tell her he liked her. . what do these signs mean?
1~he puts his arm around me and says things like so how's 8:00 tonight i'll pick you up? adn he does this so everyone in the halls can see iit
2~When we go to foot ball games or anything outside he is always adking me if he need to warm me up or if i need to wear his jacket he even asks this while we are in a classroom.
3~He likes to take my shoes, pencils, books, ect. and eith wear them or hide them.
4~in the class we have together he's always hangin ouround me and lets me copy answers that i don't already have.
5~ he had a neigbor with the same name as me and he is always saying how much she adn i are alike cont

2007-10-21 12:02:41 · 11 answers · asked by sammywammy 2 in Singles & Dating

This has been the hardest part of planning our wedding. Can anyone recomend any good resorts from the US to Mexico? We are looking for something that offers a private jazuzzi if all possible.

The Poconos are out....we arent interested in that location. Vegas is out since in the summer it is way toooo hot. We thought about taking the seven day land and sea cruise with Disney World but is not fair to my daughter who has never been before. Hawaii is out since it is overly expensive.

I appreciate every advice that is offered to us!

2007-10-21 12:01:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

He is a recovering alcoholic and now claims he has changed for the better. He also has experienced depression but claims he is a new person. He keeps trying to win me back. Should I give him another chance or keep him out of my life forever? We have no children. Opinions?

2007-10-21 11:59:36 · 33 answers · asked by cats 7 in Marriage & Divorce

Or should i wait until i'm 40.

2007-10-21 11:57:35 · 2 answers · asked by Kelly 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-21 11:54:39 · 15 answers · asked by MomX3 1 in Weddings

Just wondering what the normal protocal is.... My shower was September 15 and I am still getting them out in shifts... I have been traveling like crazy and it is like the endless task. I intend to get every single last one out but my wedding is this weekend and I wonder if it is offensive for people to get my thank you note from the shower, the same week of my wedding?

2007-10-21 11:54:08 · 12 answers · asked by NoTurningBackNow 5 in Weddings

how can i tell if he likes me when i wont get 2 c him unless i go 2 like another football game??? how can i do this i mean i met him last night and i think he kinda likes me but i wont get 2 c him that much??? but im pretty positive ill c him at this party on saturday o and also how can i tell my friend that im sry 4 joking around w/ him so much??? cuz i kinda think he hates me but idk know plz answer these question and thx 4 the help

2007-10-21 11:53:46 · 5 answers · asked by ♥twilight series ADDICT♥ 1 in Singles & Dating

ever feel everything is cold, and in impressionistic terms everything feels like it looks black and dark blue, don't exactly feel empty, but "dismal" if that's the word for it

2007-10-21 11:53:09 · 14 answers · asked by 000 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-21 11:52:57 · 6 answers · asked by boo 1 in Singles & Dating