i love her very much and we have 3 very young children together and i don't want to leave them but i can't handle all the fighting anymore
2007-10-21 15:48:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Get to the bottom of why you guys are fighting. Is it money? Is it because she is tired of taking care of 3 very young kids while you pay her little attention? Are you going out without her? Are you doing things around the house so she can get some rest? Are you two spending enough time together--talking and sharing?
She may be yelling because she is frustrated and tired. Give her a some alone time to clear her head and rest her body. Maybe so won't be feeling so "Bitchy" when you finally sit down and discuss what is going on.
Don't give up just yet....it isn't a lost cause.
2007-10-21 15:57:22 · answer #1 · answered by Benji's Mommy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not easy to make anything work especially marriage an having kids its a huge difference in our lives thats for sure.. I know you dont to leave but all this fighting around your children isnt good cos how we raise our kids reflects on you.. I know its not easy but sometimes its best to end things when you know you just cant get on... My advice is too talk it over but if that doesnt work after sometime its best to leave for the sake of the kids an your own happiness in the end
2007-10-21 15:54:50 · answer #2 · answered by Sweet_mystery 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Counseling....try also not to fight in front of the kids. You don't want them to think that "it's normal" for a mom and dad to fight. At certain ages, they are very impressionable. If she won't go to counseling, you should go anyways. It won't hurt, it will help!
2007-10-21 16:20:06 · answer #3 · answered by kbfourkids 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Number one, do not expect her to change.
Number two, do not expect her to have YOUR best interest at heart. Her responsibility is to her children. You don't think its fair? Tough.
Number three, what can YOU do to make things more peaceful?
The biggest regret I have in my life is my failure to do as much as I could to stay with the mother of my children; and I am not suggesting that she was easy to live with. I hope you can stay out of the regret that I live with.
2007-10-21 16:18:39 · answer #4 · answered by Arman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her it is time to go to counseling or part company.It'd be so much nicer if people would get to know one another BEFORE sex so kids would not end up hurt when they "adults" realize they cannot stand one another out of bed.
2007-10-21 16:15:26 · answer #5 · answered by Joe F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋