2007-10-21 16:34:45 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I say to myself, "that its there lost, because I am a good loving person".
2007-10-21 16:46:22 · answer #1 · answered by benejueves 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a tough one.....Im kinda n the same position myself....it makes it worse when its best friend whose the same sex hopefully that isnt the case 4 u? Keeping busy and losing contact with that person as much as u kan u know out f sight out of mind realy can come true...i foud that worked 4 me a few years back when i was besooted with this girl grace 4om skule but nce iwent to uni i never saw her that was over a year ago and nowive 4gotten her completely shes not a part of my life any more. sadly or not, ive fallen 4 my best frnd who i c every day and who i live with.theres no avoiding that but if u kan busy yourself with other activities hobbies, college, school, socialising watever.that dont involve seeing the person u ar in love with and eventually u do move on..i dont wat ill do........i realy shuldnt let slip i luv my best friend becos i knowit would most probably ruin our close friendship forever but thats life. kant choose who u fall in luv with i guess!!!!!!!! u kan fall in love more than once..rember that......its not the be all and end all at present 4 u......i know its happened to me twice now........u will fall in love again more than likely........enjoy ur life and gud luck with ur situation
2007-10-21 23:52:34 · answer #2 · answered by Petulia M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm debating the same thought right now. Your life has no choice but to move on. If you can, try and find a way to make it work. I would need more details if you really want some good sound advice from me. Email me if you want to.
2007-10-21 23:43:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur in pain, so u try & act as though ur not. u put on a happy face,& go out w/ ur friends, even if ur dying inside. perhaps, u can even convince ur self that ur ok.
The result of this deception
Is very strange to tell
For when I fool the people
I fear I fool myself as well!
I whistle a happy tune
And ev'ry single time
The happiness in the tune
Convinces me that I'm not afraid.
in ur case it would not be fear, but pain
2007-10-22 21:31:18 · answer #4 · answered by Sami S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are billions of fish in the sea. This is a test of weather your brain is working or your just to lazy to go fishing.
You deserve what you get for every minute you hold such a fantasy -- justifiable misery.
2007-10-21 23:49:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it hurts...and i hate it when people tell you to "move on" because even if it's not what you wanna hear, it's not like you're going to move on in a demand or in a snap of a finger...you'll move on when you feel like it or when it happens...but no matter how many people tell you, it's not gonna make a difference...makes you want that person even more...
2007-10-22 00:28:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im in the same boat so i know where your at i find it best to go out and do things as much as you dont want to but once you get out with your friends and start doing stuff itll take your mind off it for a while ................and maybe while your out youll find some1 better...at least i hope so
2007-10-21 23:40:56 · answer #7 · answered by zeppelin0890 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how you feel i like this girl alot, she knows it but she has a long distance relationship. it sucks
just remember
life is what you make it so make the most of it.
2007-10-21 23:44:33 · answer #8 · answered by Run Miles Run 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its very hard, but you try to live your life for you. do things you enjoy, get out there, meet new people, hang out with friends, and have hope that you will fall in love with someone even better next time. it sucks but we all go through it. you will move on.
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2007-10-21 23:38:12 · answer #9 · answered by 47skittles 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cry. a lot. Then find reasons to keep busy.
2007-10-21 23:39:04 · answer #10 · answered by harmonardus 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋