Family & Relationships - 21 October 2007

I don't think I love my boyfriend anymore.

2007-10-21 18:01:53 · 8 answers · asked by A wonder 2 in Singles & Dating

But are scared to end up that wierd Aunty, Sister, Daughter who never married and had children.

2007-10-21 18:01:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We come from two different worlds but we love each other. We both don't talk to our families often but I wanted to invite them to my wedding.

His family- are ghetto druggies and have a pot farm in the back of their house in a crackhead neighborhood

My family-are rich and loaded and could careless about anyone who makes at least 100,000 a year. Knowing someone who doesn't have more than 1 house makes them a joke in their eyes.


But what seems to be the problem is each side of the family wants to physical hurt each other's family and don't seem to care what me and his feeling towards it is. It's almost got to the point where it's has be physical between the families.


I really don't know how to deal???

2007-10-21 18:01:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I'm 17... he was 21... we started dating 2 years ago... fell madly in love with each other and just last week he broke up with me and it hurts so bad. I cry every night cause I miss him and it hurts me I can't cuddle with him anymore or ever talk to him again. Everything I do reminds me of him cause we were best friends and everytime I was sad he would make me feel better and I could tell everything to him. Now I feel like I'm never gonna meet a guy like him again and I'm going to be lonely and sad. He was my first love and I was his...he left me cause he moved and hes like 2 hours away from me and the long distance relationship was too stressful for him but our plans were to move in together in 5 months... he couldn't wait for me anymore =( I can't eat I went from 110 pounds to 100, I can't sleep it's 3 am and I have been crying all night and I don't know what to do

2007-10-21 17:59:35 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

whe won't drink scotch! she won't smoke or sniff. she is so moral but i want her so much. (i am not so crazy about her seven children and ex, who is an ex wwf wrestler). we attend a new age christian church and eat out and see movies and all go to the zoo. but she won't cooperate. i am clean, successfully self employed and also have seven adult children. she just won't sleep with me. i am average and moderately intelligent and feel a powerful attraction. she reminds me of my dear mother. anything you can think of would be deeply appreciated. i am out of ideas, tricks, and getting depressed.

2007-10-21 17:55:01 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Are you attracted to younger or older than yourself both sexes are welcome to partake on this question

2007-10-21 17:52:04 · 20 answers · asked by thiswarismadness 2 in Singles & Dating

I am above the legal age.

2007-10-21 17:49:36 · 38 answers · asked by Jess 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

It seems that guys have a stronger instinct or just KNOW when the girl is 'the one" ALOT more than girls...most girls i know didn't know the their husbands were "the one" right away but eventually they knew...their husbands "knew" off the bat...

has this happened to you too? and why?

2007-10-21 17:46:10 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've known one of my cousins friends for 14 years, I was really young the first time we met. He was the only who would take time out to talk to me unlike the rest of my cousins friends who were all at least 7 years older than me. Recently my aunt passed away and me and him are both married and we each have a son. We've been leaning on each other for support and he actually comes over and we talk about everything. I still after all these years have a crush on him. Am I getting into something wrong or can we just be friends that help each other out? By the way he was the one who wanted to come over to my house to see my son who's 7 weeks old. Yes, my husband knows about it. I don't know how his marriage is except I've heard she's a mean mother to their child.

2007-10-21 17:44:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have read a lot on here lately and my story is a little different. I have been married 27 years! We had 2 children. I had always been extremely close to my kids. My daughter is married with her own kids. My son passed away 4 years ago at 18 y.o. It has cause a lot of depression for me and more so than her. I have been and she has been to counseling.
My counselors have learned that I have never been in love with my wife and had been married to my kids for this long. I gave her a friendship ring in college and she took it as an engagement ring. I never wanted to hurt her so I went with it. Now that I am 50, I just cannot feel comfortable to her. She also knows that I love her but never have been in love with her. I have tried all kinds of things to bring us closer but nothing works. She is in one room and I am in the other. Any advice? Thanks.

2007-10-21 17:42:37 · 8 answers · asked by bergrund 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am married but I have a huge crush on another guy that I know. He is such an awesome guy and he makes me have thoughts that are not good when your married. Don't get me wrong I would NEVER cheat on my husband or do anything to jeopardize our marriage. But every time I see this other guy it makes me question why I am married. I cant just not see him as he is a mutual friend in the group I hang out with and also a family friend. Is it wrong of me to have these thoughts and if so what can I do to stop them?????

2007-10-21 17:40:56 · 9 answers · asked by bodeebabe 2 in Singles & Dating

What do you think? My GF wants me to dress up like her for haloween and she wants to wear my clothes and dress up like a guy. She said "you will be rewarded if you take up my offer" but this can have many connotations. Should I take her up on her offer?

2007-10-21 17:40:09 · 5 answers · asked by hsingh86 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been divorced for almost 5 years and have been going out with a great guy for almost 1 and a half years. Everything is very good with him. We're compatible, have the same values, our kids get along, we're both in our 40s and had a similar failed marriage situation. Somehow, even though I know he's the one (and he's told me the same), I feel worried about marrying again. I'm not normally a pessimistic person but I find myself feeling very cynical towards marriage. I am from a family of happy married siblings and parents and have seen many healthy examples of marriage. I have also seen my share of failed marriages in couples that I thought would never get to that point.

Can anyone help me to see the idea of marriage in a more positive manner? I saw a counsellor for a short time who listened and only justified my feelings are totally reasonable.
I see myself as a positive person with a lot of friends but would like some advice.

2007-10-21 17:36:51 · 11 answers · asked by happywhereIam 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it normal for a guy to slightly shove/push a girl if he is mad and she gets in front of him in his way??

2007-10-21 17:33:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

should i report him or join him

2007-10-21 17:32:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I am having a big problem with being permiscuious and initiating sex with my husband. I love him and we have no other problems in the bedroom or talking or communicating. We are best friends and have a good marriage. I'm just so uncomfortable starting with him or acting on any kind of thought. I can not bring myself to be the one to start anything and he is so tired of having to be the one to allways initiate it. I think about things I could and want to do with, for or to him to start it, but how do I get comfortable about doing anything about it and get out of this shell. I only started feeling this way for the past couple years. What's wierd is I use to be the opposite when I was younger. I am 38. I feel imberrest to open up to him like wearing a sexy teddy or sexy bed clothes or anything like that also and I should'nt. I am thin and he loves my long hair and says he is happy with me and how I look. If you went through this and were able to change, how did you? I need to fix this.

2007-10-21 17:30:59 · 7 answers · asked by Dana B 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it bad to have sex at the age of 14 wit a 16 or 18 year old?

2007-10-21 17:23:09 · 22 answers · asked by cutie pie 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-21 17:21:16 · 35 answers · asked by kevin h 3 in Friends

My mother has asked that my sister return the bible. My sister is not speaking with my mother, nor is she speaking with any of our other siblings. (Words between my mom and sister forced us to choose "sides", by my sister) I wrote her asking that she please return the bible and told her how it hurts mom, but she ignores us. Does anyone know what can be done legally to get my grandmothers bible back to my mom?

2007-10-21 17:03:03 · 4 answers · asked by ru4pc 2 in Family

As mentioned, my wife and I live in Brisbane. We've been here for a year and have been married for them same amount of time. I'm finishing Uni to become an electronics design engineering in a few weeks and got a job at Cinammon Park, and my wife wants to move to Northlakes. She wants to move there because our parents are on the Sunshine coast and wants to be closer to them. We're both family types of people, but jobs only pay the bills. It is approximately 1.5 hours worth of travel time (with traffic). The petrol will cost about $135 worth of petrol each week. My wife is extremely close to her parents, calls them a few times a day. (Which is another topic). Do you think I'm being unreasonably and should move closer to the Sunshine coast and travel? Or is my wife being unreasonable for limiting the possibilities of my career and making me travel. Thanks for your help. I have to mention that I have spoken to her about it, many times...but it hasn't gone too well...any of the 100 times.

2007-10-21 17:00:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i've been with my girlfriend for a few months. both of us will turn to 20 in 1 year and a bit. im quite rich compare to my girlfriend. right now, we are both loving each other a lot. however, my parent told me that i should be careful as some girls are just after money and stuff. then my girlfriend told me that her brother told her tried to get as much things from me as possible(because he knows im somewhat rich, and i think he thinks we won't last very long and she should get as much gift or money as possible from me). however, i feel my girlfriend is not the cheap type...... i do pay for most of our dates though(most guys do this for dates i guess).
so what do you guys think?

2007-10-21 16:56:49 · 1 answers · asked by tmackun135 1 in Singles & Dating

My Mom's Boyfriend Moved In today and i dont like him because he is really mean and we got in a fight and he pushed on the ground and hurt my arm. my mom chooses him over me and i am really depressed i want to move out but than i dont and i think about doing really bad things just to get over this someone help me please....

2007-10-21 16:54:12 · 32 answers · asked by Alberto's Girl 1 in Family

for me to get back on my grind
i am 17 and have been out of the the party game for almost a year cause i got school screwed up and had to get my diploma and everythin and then had to get a job and didnt have time to party
i am 17 and 1.2 its not too late for me to get back into the partying right?

2007-10-21 16:44:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-21 16:44:20 · 3 answers · asked by dirah2002 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so heres the deal my homecoming date says that he cant find a tie anywhere that matches my dress and he is freaking out (and acting like a u know what) behind us matching perfectly. which doesnt matter to me. but anyway here is the link to see my dress if you can find any ties that u think will match please tell me the link to the web site. thank you so much. http://www.davidsbridal.com/bridesmaids_...
homecoming is on the 3rd of november.

2007-10-21 16:41:13 · 10 answers · asked by LAINA LOU 4 in Singles & Dating

im so confused at times whether i should go on with the rship or just call it off...he had been an excellent bf to me but his over possesive for me. he wants to spend all his time with me and i i would like to have extra space for myself...and he had made a few major mistakes before which i have forgiven him for...but im unable to forget it..this makes me more upset when ever im with him and i think about it....

today i have told him that its best we let go this relationship which i had done many times before...but he still comes back and due to feeling sorry i acceept him back...i dont love him and care for him like the way i do anymore...and i dont see myself with him in the future like i use to ...

Is letting go the relationship is the best answer for this ??

2007-10-21 16:40:59 · 1 answers · asked by glamorous 1 in Singles & Dating

Please exclude they typical chicken dance songs, etc..looking for up beat, easy to dance to songs. Group dancing songs.. Thanks!

2007-10-21 16:40:57 · 6 answers · asked by <<XoXo>> 2 in Weddings

Name a few points or parts about someone you are attracted to that you normally notice first. Also name what is the most desirable item you absolutely need to have in a person you like or love romantically. Items can be inner and/or outer beauty. Ready, set, go!

2007-10-21 16:40:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

While with my friends, we all had this contest thing, and the guy I'm interested in (I'll call him C) was the judge. He scored us all and I got the highest at 9/10 but I wondered why I didn't get a complete 10. Jokingly, I complain to him, and he doesn't seem to understand what I'm saying so I speak louder so he can hear me. He gets mad and claims that he'll take it back and give me a lower score and how I am trying to argue with him and yelling. I say nothing until he asks me soon after, "What were you saying about the glue?" still mad, I mimic what he says in a silly voice and it highly offends him...he tells me to leave. So I tell him I was only joking, and he says it's mockery and such. Well I keep my mouth shut and seem all depressed for the reminder of the day. I'm usually always staring at him (he knows this) but this time I refused to even look at him. A few times during the time with my friends he'd say stuff like, "She's giving me a dirty look...that's not good." -Continued

2007-10-21 16:39:56 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-21 16:39:05 · 4 answers · asked by teacher143527 1 in Weddings