Is it bad to have sex at the age of 14 wit a 16 or 18 year old?
2007-10-21 17:23:09 · 22 answers · asked by cutie pie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is considered 'illegal' to have sex under the age, even if it's with someone else who is under age. But many minors do it, os it's normal.
Sex strengthened my relationship and me and my girlfriend are planning on getting married some day. What I'm trying to say is that no, it's not bad if your religion dosn't forbid it, but it is frowned upon by the government.
There are very few cases of people getting caught by others. In these few cases, you can be tried and put before a jury to decide what to do about the law that you have broken. So be careful about doing it.
2007-10-22 05:55:11 · answer #1 · answered by Thomas D 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
"Insist your partner use TWO condoms each time during sex."
Okay, that right there^^, is no good.
Do NOT use 2 condoms at the same time.
bad bad bad!
Honestly, it is more likely for the condoms to break if you are using two at the same time. (sounds weird, I know) But the friction between the condoms and your va jay jay makes it easier for it to break. Thats why using one is better, because there is less friction.
NOW, to answer your question.::
I am 14 as well, and I dont think its bad to have sex now. Have I done it? No. But I dont think its a bad thing.
If you MUST have sex, I would really recommend doing it with someone closer to your age. Nobody whos older than 16.
Anyone thats older than 16, I would deffinately wait till your older.
And as im sure you already know, if you are 14 and having sex with an 18 year old, its illegal. As much as you may want to have sex with him- Im sure you wouldnt want him to get in trouble and put in jail if you both ever got caught.
So please, just think before you do anything, and ask yourself "Do I REALLY want to do this?!"
You dont want to do anything your gonna regret.
If you have anymore questions you can e-mail me or something. :D
2007-10-26 13:50:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie you may be curious and that is normal, but being curious and give the next step is a big difference, we all will learn about sex throguh time,I am a guy and I started when I was 17, no rush for that , and now I am a great lover, there are books about it, talk to a counselor if you do not believe me. if you are 14 you are not mentally ready and you may get really confused and you can get hurt emotionally, besides you may repnet to do it with the wrong person, besides if the guy is 18 that is not legal.I will say wait a couple of years focus in school have a boyfriend, but not someone who rush you. take care of your body , your body is a temple. respect yourself if you want a man to respect you. beleive me you are not ready yet, no matter what other stupid kids do to feel mature and better than others, you do not want to get an std or pregnant... there is consequences , you are not ready yet,,,
2007-10-25 15:03:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
at the age of 14 you shouldnt even be having sex...wait till marriage!
to answer you question having sex with a 16 year old is better than 18!
but i highly do not recommend doing it at 14. you'll regret it when you get older.
2007-10-25 17:11:22 · answer #4 · answered by Bella! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Moral and Civil laws strictly forbid minors under age 17 to engage in sex--espicially when the other partner is OLDER than 17. Yes, it violates MORAL laws and is ILLEGAL for the older partner (statutory rape) because the Law does not recognize the consent of the minor partner.
Despite these social laws and mores, teens are going to have sex regardless. It's your choice, for you Captain your life's ship.
Use common sense w/ this personal law: "No 'glove' / NO love" and stick by that NO MATTER WHAT. Insist your partner use TWO condoms each time during sex.
If you DO become pregnant, look into adoption rather than abortion.
2007-10-25 04:27:28 · answer #5 · answered by Mr. Wizard 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen my friend sex is not about age but it is about your feelings of love for someone generally this feelings come at the age of 18 and above i feel that you should respect love and worship it then your heart will tell you what whether you will do sex or not
2007-10-23 13:01:36 · answer #6 · answered by Raj Chan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is if your 14 and having sex with an 18 year old thats bad because legally hes an adult and your just 14 thats really bad he can go to gail for that
2007-10-25 16:22:16 · answer #7 · answered by d,ace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex at the age of 14 is not recommended. You will have plenty of time for that later. Enjoy your friends and have fun now.
2007-10-24 22:47:13 · answer #8 · answered by bigjuggies79 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its not bad, exept you wont really feel the same when you get married and have sex with your husband. I went throught the same thing once too...and i didnt have sex with her! Trust me...you might really want to now but it will be better if you wait. And if your dating a guy you really like and the question comes up if you have evr had sex and you say yes, there is a chance he might dump you.
2007-10-23 18:36:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um if you're 14 you don't need to be having sex period, that is just slutty....you're not old enough to have an adult relationship so stop trying to do adult ****....sex has alot of very adult consequences so you need to chill for a while cuz you are NOT grown no matter what you think....wait until you are an adult and can make adult decisions.
2007-10-25 21:42:27 · answer #10 · answered by babygirla718 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋