But are scared to end up that wierd Aunty, Sister, Daughter who never married and had children.
2007-10-21 18:01:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
no, I actually hate cats. Am hightly allergic to them.
2007-10-21 18:07:51 · update #1
no, I actually hate cats. Am highly allergic to them.
2007-10-21 18:13:29 · update #2
I'm a strong believer in the saying " Don't go looking, it will find you" and 9 times out of 10 it does.
I must have kissed a 1000 frogs, and wished on many a shooting stars. Searching high and low , and looking in every nook and cranny. And just when i stop looking there he was, he came looking for me.
2007-10-21 18:24:14 · answer #1 · answered by Porcelain Doll 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Strengthen your friendships. An unattached woman has the time to appreciate and enjoy friends, both old and new, and those thing she can do with them. Make plans with friends, beaches, concerts, movies, picnics. Without a man, you have extra time, extra energy, and fewer personal demands. Now is the time for advancement if that's what you want. Being alone means you can be utterly self-involved. whether you are searching for your inner child or the secrets of the universe, there is on one to account to but you. In short you don't have to reach compromises with anyone except yourself. Make the most of it. And when your life is not controlled by finding a man, it will happen when you least expect it.
2007-10-22 01:22:55 · answer #2 · answered by flannelpajamas1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I swear to you that I gave up. I was 32, single, had a 12 yr old daughter and couldn't take the disappointment anymore. I stopped dating and focused more on my career. My daughter was always my main priority.
Within a few months, OH MY GOD! He just showed up. When I had finally resolved to being single forever and was really fine with it because I could focus on my career and leave it at that, there he was.
Live your best life and he will just show up when you least expect it. The point is you have given up and now is when (as long as you are happy within yourself) he will come.
My guy is the total opposite of what my "type" was so just focus on being friends if the opportunity arises.
You will be fine!!!!!!!!!
2007-10-22 01:10:27 · answer #3 · answered by New England Babe 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am 31 and i admit i was scared at one point, but you know i still had to lead my life. I do not go out to hunt for a husband or a BF. I do my job,spend time with family and friends and do volunteer work and i am happy with that. people have told me that you usually met your mate when you are not looking. if
" Mr. right" comes along, than great, but i am not going to sit here and think about how i do not have one right now. you know what i have an aunt who never married or had children? I would not call her weird at all. She is doing what she thinks she is called to do. She is in Malawi Africa working with people there. people who do not get married are not weird, they just choose not to get married.
2007-10-22 01:07:46 · answer #4 · answered by carriec 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, i had given up, but then i finally found someone and had a child. But i know how you feel, good men are really really hard to find. One day when you are not looking, a good man might come into your life. If not, you can always adopt if you want children. Alot of women these days are adopting and having a family without a man.
2007-10-22 01:08:17 · answer #5 · answered by eliza l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well granted that its hard to find the right man etc etc......
sometimes it seems to me that ladies are very choosy & and have too many conditions the men must fulfill
(We understand that men have feelings too(lol)!!--& hence may actually get disheartened and give up on these very particular ladies)
2)why not join organi-sations where eligible males congregate?--->>eg;sports club,s( soccer clubs , rugby - football clubs , cricket clubs,etc)??
3)ask your sisters , cousins aunts ,parents friends to help you 4)-Look carefully at fellow workers who are unattached ------
they may really be interested in you too ...you see??
5)In some countries the vicars of the parish church may know eligible males in the parish.
6)I believe too in Asian countries marriage brokers
are employed ......................but you must agree to
this person looking out for you.
7)Also a spell of working abroad eg Europe , USA , Japan , South Korea , China, India, Canada- South America etc, etc etc- may allow you a change of scenery , both work & males??who can tell ? you may be lucky - if thats the word?
Best of Luck !! .
2007-10-22 01:55:51 · answer #6 · answered by sunil 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first i'm a male but had to respond to this,you won't find the perfect mate but llok for the one that is willing to accept your imperfections,and in return see if you can live with his and build from that.but most important ladies PLEASE,PLEASE,allow a man to be a man,allow him to lead and hold his chest out,if you don't you will end up alone just like he is,because he can't find a woman that will allow him to lead and you can't find a man that will allow you to,and if you do you will suddenly become bored and frustrated with his lack of balls.smile.there are good men left out there just look with the rights set of eyes and you will find him.leave prince charming in the fairy tail books because not many snow whites live either
2007-10-22 01:20:12 · answer #7 · answered by Feelnout 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could be the "crazy cat lady"
2007-10-22 01:06:11 · answer #8 · answered by Me 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋