I am above the legal age.
2007-10-21 17:49:36 · 38 answers · asked by Jess 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
just cause you are at the "age" you call it, doesnt mean you now have to go shopping or hunt to get it done.. Just wait.. I hate the fact that everything is now SEX SEX SEX... What ever happened to virginity being saved.. You dont have to "learn" anything before married.. Believe me, it will be just as fun on your wedding night... There are too many unwanted pregnancies and diseases now anyways... Just wait..
2007-10-21 17:53:14 · answer #1 · answered by Mintee 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That's one side, the legal issue. Does it seem like you want to have sex or do you just think so? Figure it out in your head first. Read some things about sex and talk to a trusted person. Then, find a willing partner and then you'll know the rest. Good luck! Have fun!!!
2007-10-21 17:53:24 · answer #2 · answered by queensruleall 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that you are ready for sexual intercoarse when you do everything that is required of you to perform this activity. Sexual intercoarse is a gift and privilage from god our father. essentially a reward, the only requirement is marriage. When two people have sexual relations they become one flesh. This isn't hocus pocus in fact it is reality. i would say it isnt right to have sex with someone until you are married and of coarse mentally and financially stable enough to provide shelter and food as well as adult advice and guidance to a child (which is always possible outcome) Abstenence is the only correct birth control, but thats another story. Wait for the lord god to guide you and you will not be lead astray.
2007-10-21 17:57:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anthony, MA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone is ready to have sex when they have found someone who they think they care enough about - and want to share a very intimate experience with them.
Alternatively, some people just want to have sex for how good it feels and you are ready whenever you want to.
There is no set age you have to have sex by, go at your own pace.
2007-10-21 17:53:29 · answer #4 · answered by bzim03 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my opinion, if you have to ask yourself their is still something in you that is holding you back and keeping you from being "ready". It's such a personal question. What does sex mean to you? in this relationship or outside of it. It's a point of intimacy to a lot of people... opening yourself up to someone. I think it's good to consider choices like this, but unless you know and feel shure of your choice to have sex... well,
You're ready to have sex when you know you're doing it for the right reasons, with the right person, and feel good about your decision.
2007-10-21 17:55:10 · answer #5 · answered by merow42 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really depends upon the indevidual.
there are some children who have sex when there well below the legal age.
mainly when you as an indevidual feel ready. don't be pressured into it though, only do it with someone you feel comfortable with, and have been with for a long time.
2007-10-21 17:54:13 · answer #6 · answered by Mewtwos only Master 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll know when you're ready. It's not something you should be pressured into or you'll regret it later on. Sometimes it just takes finding the right person or the right moment, but for other people it means waiting until marriage.
If you're questioning it, you're probably not really ready yet. Wait until you're craving it - and even then, be careful and be safe.
2007-10-21 17:53:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
its also unpopular subject but sex is a not harmless its not to be engaged in with anyone u may find attractive , sex is a gift and in reality should not be opened until the right time .. at the time of your wedding . than you cant have tried others to see what its like and then u also wont be comparring this person with another to see who was better... SEX IS AWESOME AND ITS TO BE SHARED WITH ONE MAN AND ONE WOMAN its a gift you can only give once thaT is unopened
, . yes i know as i said its unpopular in todays world.. nonetheless you will be haappier with the person u have chosen to marry and they with you if u dont experiment to see who is best.. .
mj
2007-10-21 17:59:09 · answer #8 · answered by mjbrightergem33 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll probably get a thumbs down, but you're ready for sex when you're ready, emotionally and financially, to have a child. Birth control is not 100% effective.
And if you're asking this question, you are most definately not ready, sweetie.
2007-10-21 17:52:45 · answer #9 · answered by Shayna 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Humans are ready as soon as they are able to walk but it is not socially acceptable in modern times. In many countries there are legal limitations.You are they only one who knows if you are ready.
2007-10-21 17:57:08 · answer #10 · answered by syrious 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋