Trying to fight me?

Question

My very close friends friend at school doesn't like me and says "hit me" and points to his face tryin to start a fight with me. I usually just tell him he's very imature and needs to grow up and I can tell that makes him very angry. Most of the time when he talks about anything in general he talks in a high pitch voice because everyone at the table laughs. Im short for my age and have an ok amount of muscle for my age, but intend to start exercising for more and he is 3 times+ bigger then me . I am very self controlled and wont fight someone unless its a situation where if I don't fight back I'll be hurt but this is more of a mental and emotional thing. I told my friends how I feel and ask why they even hang with him and they say cuz its funny. Alot of the times he will call me worthless because for a few months last year I smoked pot and he said I was stupid. What should I do?

Answer 1

call tony soprano

Answer 2

First of all I agree w/your friend that smoking pot is stupid.
Other than that it seems he is the one that's stupid. There must be other funny people you can find to hang out with as it seems one day you just may hit him and then who'll be the one in trouble? He is immature and needs to get a life and leave you alone. You must intimidate him in some way as that is the reason he feels he needs to pick on you to make himself look better. What does your "very close friend" think of all of this? Why doesn't he stand up for you?

Answer 3

I think fighting him would only give him what he wants and I am a very strong avicate of not giving jack asses what they want. If you are still in high shool (which i think u are) dont punch him first no matter how much he taunts you. After he hits you, its selft defense..well if he hits u more than once..

Im sorry, but i suggest making new,better friends. I know high school is hard and depending on the # of students making new friends is even harder or hell just finding someone worth your time. Just do your best and stay strong. High school isent the end of the world. College is so much better.

Just remember, dont fight unless he starts it first.
Good luck.

Answer 4

First of all you need to talk to your parents, teachers and principle and tell them what's going so there fore if yall get in to a fight you won't get that much trouble he will.

The friends that you hang out with or not real friend because a real friend wouldn't laugh they would be on your side the only reason he probably still messing with you because people laugh at him.

A person size do matter and a fight a little person can beat up a bigger person all I have to say don't be afraid of him

Answer 5

This person sounds like he has totally no self esteem. He does these things for the attention it gets him and he needs to try and prove he can have 'control' over others and over situations. People who do this kind of thing generally feel they have no control over themselves or their lives and sometimes this can relate to a bad home situation. He's using you to bolster is own ego - your friends think he's funny but what he doesn't realise is that they don't think he's actually cool and amusing - they are treating him like a joke. Continue to ignore him and be the bigger person.

Answer 6

Tell him you dont do weed anymore you learned from your mistakes.
Then when it comes to fighting talk to the school counselor and your parents .If that fails, tell him in FRONT of everyone"sure if you really want to beat me up we can do that if it will make you feel like your worth something to beat the tar out of someone who is less than half your size.Sure we will make you look like a big man!"Then tell him to take the first swing and then get a teacher to have him expelled for the rest of the year.

Answer 7

Peer pressure is a major issue with kids in school. If you are strong like you say you are, then you can walk away from it. Next time he says something to you, just walk away. Don't let him bother you. He will eventually get the hint that he is no longer bother you and he will stop. And hey another thing my mom always told me: Its better to have no friends than fake friends......Good Luck

Answer 8

1) Don't smoke pot
2) Who the f**k is HE a friend to if he can't take criticism?
3) Find some new friends...
4) Learn that sarcasm can be your best ally
5) Confuse them with intelligence (which you'll retain more of if you don't smoke pot...catch my drift?)

Answer 9

talk to the deans at school, talk to the parents. that's what i did when i was in the situation....minus the pot (i don't do drugs or drink, it's okay, call me boring). I talked to my mom and she told me to try and handle it, i did by telling him to leave me alone and going to the dean. He kept bullying me. So then my mom had a talk with him and his mom, that only gave him more incentive to bully me by calling me a mama's boy. Then i asked to have a meeting with the dean, him, and myself. The dean told him to stay away from me, kind of like a restraining order, and he did. GL

Answer 10

Obviously the kid isn't your 'very close friend' if he's trying to start something with you. Just stop hanging out with/ignore him and if all else fails kick his ***. A nice *** whooping goes a long way with a tool like that.

Answer 11

i can more or less relate to this- i switched schools a year ago b/c ppl were bullying me. i went to a dif. school and i had thee best yr of my life last yr. not to offend u but i never smoked pot, but i wud kind of rebel a lil bit against my religion (i went to a jewish school) and they thought i was from hell or something. im assuming ur in high school, so just talk to ur counselor. i hope it helps. my counselor and i r close and talk a lot and it helps. i promice.