Family & Relationships - 14 October 2007

So i was doing a reseach paper on my computer but it was messed up, so i used my wife's laptop and found this pic of her and this goofy lookin guy should i be jelious? mad? what? it is kinda clear that they had something together! This guy is so goofy looking i know he was a mistake! Help! we have kids together!!
check the picture out>>>>
http://www.flickr.com/photos/cperis/46843602/

2007-10-14 12:38:44 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

okay well u see my parents have been together for about 19 years now, and they have been unhappy for aropx. 5 years and my mom just got out of aclohl addiction, but theey are still fitghing and im in the middle!!! I HATE IT!! My dad isn't a person who gets physical, hes just a scarryt man when he yells, and my mom is WAY to emotional, and im stuck in the middle... what should i do???

2007-10-14 12:36:04 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Alright so im doing the most stupidest thing on the planet. I know what im doing is wrong but to tell you guys the truth i love this women. She is an ex of mine and we dated for three years and when we broke up i never stopped thinking about her it never hurt less. Shes married now and says shes still loves me but loves her husband to. He doesnt nessicarly treat her well though. I know what you guys are gonna say that im stupid that this is wrong and that i should just forget about her and move on but i cant its been almost 4 years since we broke up and i just cant get over her even after going cold turkey ive tryed everything so either give me some ideas on how to get her out of my heart or give me ideas about how to win her back. OR just call me an idiot which will work too! thanks guys

2007-10-14 12:33:18 · 9 answers · asked by marcus s 4 in Singles & Dating

I met this sweet guy on the Internet and we both love each other and he lives in England and I live in North Carolina. I want to meet him face to face. The only problem is he lives all the way around the world. I love him so much and he says he loves me too. We're both e-mailing each other back and forth. How can I meet him? Any tips? Please don't say things like "What if he's a serial killer?" or something like that. He's sent me pics of him and he's just a teenager. He looks so innocent. Any tips on how I can meet him one day?

2007-10-14 12:32:40 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, I have this cousin who is one year younger than I am. She lives far away from me, and i never see her more than twice a year. Ok, well she recently got a cell phone, and she calls me all the time, like more than once a day. She calls me when i'm shopping and when i'm at practice. I told her once not to call me after a certian time but she didn't listen. Plus when i talk to her, she usually just wants to gloat about whatever new thing she got, or she prank calls me. Once she called when she had a friend over, and didn't even talk to me at all. How can I handle this? It's getting on my last nerve.

2007-10-14 12:29:09 · 8 answers · asked by Tabithia Rose ♥ 4 in Family

All I want is to have some fun without commitment, and I really like this guy, but he's a friend and not someone that I want a relationships with! I have had relationships back to back for the last few months and I don't want another one, I just want to have some fun. I know he likes me, but I just want to know whether there is a chance that things can go back to just friends after.

2007-10-14 12:28:45 · 10 answers · asked by jacqui <3 2 in Singles & Dating

The never use that intuition or something other...

2007-10-14 12:27:07 · 28 answers · asked by Kandai M 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-14 12:26:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have announced my engagement and plan to marry within a few months. A few people have asked me online to be invited to my wedding. I know that I can't due to limited budget and space. Was it rude of them to ask me online, or was it a nice way of asking for consideration? Should I even address them? If I do, how should I address them regarding the situation with limited space?

2007-10-14 12:24:31 · 41 answers · asked by Andre 7 in Weddings

How can you tell if a girl is a "user", i.e. someone who's using to get material things, such as money, gifts, etc. ?

All opinions are welcome.

2007-10-14 12:20:58 · 17 answers · asked by JustANiceGuyHere 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-14 12:17:36 · 46 answers · asked by dober-man 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Why do people tend to push the other one away and then pull them close the next minute?

Why do we want affection one minute and then don't the next?

Is it normal to be this way after being with someone for awhile?

2007-10-14 12:17:32 · 13 answers · asked by torn 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i already told him i didn't want to and that i don't like him. yet, he refuses to listen and agreed to this girl when she dedicated a song about us having *** on a website.

2007-10-14 12:17:11 · 3 answers · asked by Miss Christina 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

well our school is selling sweetest day flowers on friday. i think it would be cute to get my boyfriend one but do guys like getting that stuff or does it embarrass them? should i get him something else or what? i dont really know i was just wanting some input. thanks bunches:]

2007-10-14 12:16:36 · 8 answers · asked by allinder 2 in Singles & Dating

I just started high school and its small(70 somethin kids). I met this girl there and i got to know her. I've been tryin to ask her out since friday,but she had to leave for a ski trip right after school, so i didnt think she'd be available all weekend. Her trip got cancelled and after talking to her for awhile online, i asked her out(even though i am really averse to asking people out over the internet or phone). She said sure, but until we tell our parents, we'l just keep it in school(plus i have practice everyday after school till 5, and the season ends soon). The only problem is that i know school on monday is going to be awkward. any advice on how to make things normal between us as bf and gf? Any other help is accepted too. Also, i don't mean awkward as in what other people will say to me(i dont really give a **** what they think) i mean awkward between us

2007-10-14 12:14:15 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My bf calls me a wonderful mate. he said 'mate' means spouse... he says that he loves me very much..but when I asked if he's in love with me...he hesitated...giving no straight answer...I dont get him...any interpreters pls??

2007-10-14 12:12:59 · 11 answers · asked by MiMi 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my husband is away at work every other month, hes at work one month and at home the next month.. its been like that for one year we have been married...he and his brother are best friends and my hubby is older by one year.. brother in law lives in the apartment behind our house. whenever i need help, my hubby said i can just call him and hes always there to help me willingly.. but the problem started recently when i started having dreams about my brother in law and i kissing and making love, it happened many times now and i was disgusted at first.. he was not badlooking, he is more lean than my husband who has gained weight a little bit. now i always look for reason so i could call him in the house like fixing the bulblights, the fone dial tone, the grass cutter, this and that just to see him..i would wear short shorts sometimes and get near him.. i feel horrible doing this to my husband because i know he loves me very much ..what shall i do? i want this stupid fantasy to stop!!!

2007-10-14 12:11:01 · 16 answers · asked by confused 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you guys like girls with red, blond, or burnettee? Just wondering. My friend has red and I have blonde and brown.

2007-10-14 12:10:28 · 8 answers · asked by Kate H 1 in Singles & Dating

well it all happend last night, i just came back from the park with my two kids gabriella 6 and gaven 2. my husband said he had to stay home to do some last minute work so when i came home the lights were on and i kept saying hello but n one answered and i said gabs to you think daddys here and i put my stuff down and as i was walking i heard a noise coming from my bedroom and their was my sister jenifer( i have 2 sisters and three brothers) and my husband having sex! i never really liked jenifer because i was jealous of her. she was 23 had platium blond hair, blue eyes and was 100lbs. and ever since i eloped in vegas 4 years ago and meet my husband she wanted him. so i left and packed some of my kids clothes and went to my other sisters house justine. i dont kno what to do i need help! thanks

2007-10-14 12:07:37 · 21 answers · asked by Jamie E 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and this guy are like best friends but i have a really big crush on him. Like sometimes he says i love you to me jokingly and things and he winks at me. We have kissed like 8 times during spin the bottle. Once i dared him to pick a girl in the circle he would kiss and he picked me saying he was getting back at me lol. But maybe he wanted to kiss me. We hang out all the time and i love it. But some days he talks to me so much that im positive he likes me and then other days he kind of ignores me to hang out with his other guy friends. Like i dont know whats going on? Sometimes he can totally not want to be with me and other times he's all over me and trying to switch seats in class to get closer to me and is always talking to me and joking every 2 seconds
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to get my attentiono when im talking to someone else he always nudges my shoulder and leaves his hand there or he just keeps his hand on my thigh
17 minutes ago

does he like me?

2007-10-14 12:02:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Best way to ask parents if boyfriend can sleepover?

Ok I know your all probably going to think I'm crazy but I wanted my friend and my boyfriend to sleepover next weekend.
We don't plan on doing anything like sex. He's like one of my best friends. So that's why I wanted him and my other friend to sleepover.

What would be the best and aproperate way to ask them this?

Thanks.

2007-10-14 12:02:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In the last 5 years we have seemed to become even closer. He started goin to church with me. Out of the blue he started becomming distant and then a few months later told me he was leaving and wanted a divorce. No seperaton or councelng. A divorce. He said he could'nt do it anymore.

2007-10-14 12:00:41 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ive been going out with him for more than 2 months now...He brought me to meet his mom last wk...was brief and casual...In my culture its quite a big deal being introduced to parents...what about in western culture? kinda wanna know whats going through his mind...

2007-10-14 11:57:28 · 10 answers · asked by MiMi 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If you are a girl with a boyfriend and make out with another girl and you both like each other. Does that count as cheating?

2007-10-14 11:56:11 · 13 answers · asked by Missy 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-14 11:56:10 · 15 answers · asked by Nice Girl101 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Hello everyone
Tomorrow, Monday October 15th, will be my girlfriend and my one month anniversary. I wanted to do something special to show her that I care about her, but I am not sure how to approach this. Should I give her a small gift, and take her out to dinner? or should I go a little bit in - depth, being the first time is always special.

We are both currently in high school, and I had an idea in mind. Her favorite color is purple; so I was going to buy her a single, purple rose and tie a note to it. I was planning on placing this rose on her locker, and the note saying something simple. "Happy one month, from your secret admirer." Then, later that evening take her to a nice restaurant for dinner. My treat.

How does that idea pan out? and if anyone else has any ideas, please, do not hesitate to offer input. Thank you.

2007-10-14 11:54:06 · 5 answers · asked by dixon 1 in Singles & Dating

Question for WOMEN

Would you share; I want to know. Do you, or have you, receive/d and do you enjoy oral TLC in that special place.

2007-10-14 11:52:04 · 34 answers · asked by enigmatic1844 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years. He is a great person to my kids but I look at him and don't know if I really want to get married or not. My kids say I'm dragging my feet but I was hurt really bad by their father and I am so afraid to be hurt again. I am wearing the engagement ring that he gave me but I don't know if I really want to get married again? Is that normal?

2007-10-14 11:49:24 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I am 20 years and very mature for my age. I had tough times in life and many struggles. Struggles beyond what normal people have to deal with.

I really love this man a lot with true love. I love him so much that the age difference does NOT even matter and I don't even feel the age difference. I feel he is the same as me.

I have an AVERSION when people say:
*You could be his daughter.
*He could be your father.
*Why can't you find someone your own age?
*What could you possibly have in common?

What I am going to tell my parents? They want me to marry someone close to my age. Not someone who is 22 years older than me. How can I justify my love for him to my parents?

2007-10-14 11:48:39 · 33 answers · asked by BeautifulGirl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

So there's this guy I've been sorta seeing. We are both in our 20's and he seems really into me. But I have to initate EVERYTHING! When we hang out, it's always (except once; the first time we hung out) me that initiates it. It's always me that initiates phone calls, texts, etc. But he never turns me down to hang out and when we DO hang out he gives me massages and snuggles me and seems so into me. He even kissed me a couple times and always hugs me before he leaves. He's really shy, I know that. He's never tried anything sexual either. I would like a relationship with him but I don't know what he's thinking. I don't know why I always have to initiate getting together. Can anyone provide some insight? Does it sound like he likes me? Did I make a bad move by always being the one to ask him to hang out? What should I do? Thanks!

2007-10-14 11:45:54 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating