All I want is to have some fun without commitment, and I really like this guy, but he's a friend and not someone that I want a relationships with! I have had relationships back to back for the last few months and I don't want another one, I just want to have some fun. I know he likes me, but I just want to know whether there is a chance that things can go back to just friends after.
2007-10-14 12:28:45 · 10 answers · asked by jacqui <3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I really don't mean to sound like a whore, I have hurt the people that I've been in relationships with because I have trouble getting attached. And the last thing I would want to do is hurt him, I also have feelings for him and he knows I don't want a relationship, but we both just want to kinda want to work of the chemistry that we have.
2007-10-14 13:08:39 · update #1
It can work for awhile, but things will probably never go back to the way they were before. If you feel like risking your friendship to have some fun, than go for it.
2007-10-14 12:35:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's really in to you that shift back is going to hurt him. I would recommend letting him know all of this upfront so he can at least make an informed decision. (He's going to jump at the chance anyway because he probably doesn't have an experience-base that included that possibility, but at least he can't say later on that he wasn't aware of where you both stood.) Now I have a question for you: Don't friends, and/or friends with benefits qualify as "relationships", too in the strictest sense of the word?
2007-10-14 12:37:15 · answer #2 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it can work, but you have to be able to seperate your emotions, and most people fail at this whch leads to one of you falling in love with the other. If you lay down some ground rules before you ever get together it might help. By the way, its doubtful your friendship will ever be the same again. If you want to try this, I suggest you do with somebody your not gonna care about if you lose them as a friend afterwards.
2007-10-14 12:36:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. There will always be hurt feelings. TRUST ME! It is never that simple. Just hold off on the fun thing until you're ready to be in a relationship. It's not worth the pain. :o) Good luck!
2007-10-14 12:32:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope friends with benefits never works out. There will be one person or maybe both who get attached and want more. People in this get hurt and it does not end good.
2007-10-14 12:36:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you could start out as friends with benefits but one or the other of you might want to get serious and that could get complicated.
Second, it can go back to just a friendship but it would never be the same as before.
2007-10-14 12:38:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, once you open up a sexual aspect to your friendship -- it can never go back. You've done things with each other that only a committed couple would do. Secondly, you open yourself up to having a nasty reputation. If you're feeling horny, pleasure yourself instead. Don't go out looking for a guy to do it for you!
2007-10-14 12:32:49 · answer #7 · answered by Jasmine808 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it will work. He probably doesn't want to date a litte whore like you anyway.
2007-10-14 12:33:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
regrettably that's authentic, until eventually you adult adult males do stuff like communicate on the telephone circulate to the sea coast and it does'nt lead to enjoying around. in case you adult adult males basically occasion and fool around you're no longer fwb. their basically making you the f*** toy. thats basically my oppinion.
2016-10-06 22:43:31 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, someone will get attached!
2007-10-14 12:31:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋