If you are a girl with a boyfriend and make out with another girl and you both like each other. Does that count as cheating?
2007-10-14 11:56:11 · 13 answers · asked by Missy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If yes, what do I do cuz i feel so guilty!!
2007-10-14 11:59:37 · update #1
Yeah but he told me that he'd get mad if she tried to kiss me. If I tell him he may get pissed off at me.
2007-10-14 12:05:51 · update #2
Yes, I am a bi-sexual.
No, I'm only 13.
2007-10-14 12:31:38 · update #3
a girl making out with another girl? yes, that's cheating. in fact, making out with any other person is cheating. ESPECIALLY when you like them. that takes it from cheating to infidelity and betrayal...sorry. and don't be the girl who shrugs it off. you have to tell your boyfriend, because thats only fair for him. ESPECIALLY if you like that other person. good luck.
2007-10-14 12:00:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Gender does not make it okay.
If your boyfriend knows about it and doesn't mind, then it is still cheating but, at least, he knows what he is getting in to.
What should you do? Don't let it happen again! Telling him is up to you!
Being bi-sexual does not allow you the right to toy with other people's feelings! It isn't fair to your boyfriend for you to be kissing other people.
Maybe you should refrain from an exclusive relationship until you are able to sort out your feelings!
If you are truly bi-sexual, especially at 13, you will have some difficult times ahead! Don't be ashamed of who you are; no matter what anybody else says!
2007-10-14 12:00:50 · answer #2 · answered by Matt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some will say yes, but if you were not having any sexual stuff going on, then no. I will assume that you are not engaged to your boyfriend. So now you feel guilty. Tell both of them. Ask forgiveness & accept what you did at face value. You cannot change the past. But, if you were sexually involved with her, you will have to deal with a lot of issues. Making out with a girl does not necessarily mean that you are doomed to be bi. It is a personal choice how we each wish to express ourselves sexually. It is probably best if you ask forgiveness whether or not it is accepted. You are going to think back about this for the rest of your life. Kissing each other is really no big deal. You could ask a thousand married women if they ever kissed a girl when a teenager or in college & you would get a fairly large YES reply.
2007-10-14 11:59:29 · answer #3 · answered by mrsdebra1966 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, it does. Making out with anyone else when you are in a relationship, whether the person is a guy or girl, counts as cheating.
2007-10-14 12:02:26 · answer #4 · answered by oldtimer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
was it between 2 friends, like u were teaching ur friend, that is a girl, how to french kiss or something? if so then no, that was not cheating. otherwise...yes, in my opinion.
2007-10-14 12:02:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is cheating if your boyfriend doesnt know about it.
you should tell your boyfriend, only because you shouldnt keep n e thing from him.
maybe he will like it and you guys can all have a little fun ;)
2007-10-14 12:01:39 · answer #6 · answered by kk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2007-10-14 11:58:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends if the guy was watching and cheering... if he wasn't there its cheating.
2007-10-14 11:59:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its cheating in some cases.you should just think about it.
2007-10-14 11:59:56 · answer #9 · answered by Dan B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you were in a relationship, when it happened so yes.
2007-10-14 12:00:34 · answer #10 · answered by staytrueandbereal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋