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I just started high school and its small(70 somethin kids). I met this girl there and i got to know her. I've been tryin to ask her out since friday,but she had to leave for a ski trip right after school, so i didnt think she'd be available all weekend. Her trip got cancelled and after talking to her for awhile online, i asked her out(even though i am really averse to asking people out over the internet or phone). She said sure, but until we tell our parents, we'l just keep it in school(plus i have practice everyday after school till 5, and the season ends soon). The only problem is that i know school on monday is going to be awkward. any advice on how to make things normal between us as bf and gf? Any other help is accepted too. Also, i don't mean awkward as in what other people will say to me(i dont really give a **** what they think) i mean awkward between us

2007-10-14 12:14:15 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

3 answers

Three simple words: TAKE IT SLOWLY.

If you rush things, it could end up very badly.

2007-10-14 12:18:02 · answer #1 · answered by swrogueman 2 · 0 0

Relax yourself....you've already gotten over the greatest hurdle (asking her out), now all you have to do is finalize plans and endeavor not to mess things up in the meantime. As far as how things will be between you as boyfriend and girlfriend, I hadn't realized that all of that was implied with the simple gesture of asking her out (but at the same time I recognize the generational differences between your perspective and mine, so you may well already have that step covered.) If that's the case, congratulations; you're farther along than I thought (and that in itself should make you feel pretty good and sure of the ground you're standing on). If that's wishful thinking on your part, then you're right to focus on the outcome you want to generate, but take things one step at a time so you don't get emotionally overwhelmed. (That's something you two can discuss on your date...have a nice time.) Until then, keep your cool and keep things pretty light. Your position couldn't be better if you'd wished on a magic lamp, so there's nothing to stress about. Good luck.

2007-10-14 19:29:15 · answer #2 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0 0

the most awkard thing is silence. start up a conversation and just talk and laugh with her about the usual stuff you enjoy to discuss. don't rush into things either. you don't even have to hold her hand or anything at first. just give her a hug and act cool about it.

2007-10-14 19:20:12 · answer #3 · answered by missouri 3 · 0 0

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