Family & Relationships - 14 October 2007

Last week me and my bf broke up i love him so much.he broke up because of me seeing my exs still who are still my friends and he didnt like that.he says you shouldnt see exs even if they are friends while in a relationship i tried to talk to him because i want to try again but he says he has to think on it and for me not to pressure him because he needs time.

2007-10-14 13:33:38 · 12 answers · asked by shymi 2 in Singles & Dating

Recently my fiance and I got engaged and he didn't ask my father's permission because he knows how I feel about my father and didn't feel it was necessary. I have never been close with my father and he has always been into alcohol and drugs and that is part of the reason we are not close. We never have contacted either, only on special occasions, ie Christmas, father's day etc. Well ever since we got engaged he feels he has to be a part of my life but I don't want him to walk me down the aisle. I think he realized that I'm growing up and don't need him anymore. I don't want to hurt his feelings but I REALLY don't want him to walk me down the aisle. What is the best way to tell him?

2007-10-14 13:32:15 · 33 answers · asked by Stephanie T 1 in Weddings

for a gent to open a door for you, or would you be offended?

2007-10-14 13:31:05 · 61 answers · asked by wantila 4 in Singles & Dating

My daughter is 5, she is easy to get angry and cry, sometimes without reason. I really don't know what she want? I asked her, and she said I don't know.

2007-10-14 13:30:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My dad died when I was 7 years old. But the last time I saw him was when I was 2 years old so I can't remember him.

My mom said he died in the war OR he died of natural

My uncle said he died when he had heart attack

But yesterday, I found out that dad died because of Diabetes.
My brother was really close to dad and said that dad had diabetes so we needed to eat healthy.

What are healthy foods to stay away from Diabetes?

2007-10-14 13:29:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Well, I guess it's too late now, coz I just did it...

2007-10-14 13:27:32 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This guy likes me for three years. He have never pursuing or shown me that he really wants me. After I moved to other states ---he wrote 20 poems about us and posted them online. Why does he wrote poems about loving me, but he never shown that he loves me? Is he sincere?

Thank you so much.

P.S. I have asking so many question about this. I want to move on, but we still love ech other. Importantly, I think he is my true love :)

2007-10-14 13:26:53 · 18 answers · asked by Hope 4 in Marriage & Divorce

up the phone oh by the way i like you, just need some adviece!!

2007-10-14 13:26:44 · 5 answers · asked by Haley R 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ive given my girlfriend a clitorl orgasm before, but when we have sex I just can't get her off. I don't think my penis is too small but she sometimes can't even feel me. I can get off but I feel terrible about it and I told her im not going to let myself get off until she does. Its really frusterating for the both of us and i dont know what im suposed to do. Can someone please help us out?

2007-10-14 13:25:05 · 57 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We are very close she tell me everything. But I dont agree with her on something . we been friend for years I believe when you married you should love your husband and respect him the same goes for him to. Just this pass week my friend told me when she make love to her husband she fantasy about other men. she said if she dent fantasy it would be hard for her to get a orgies she said it miserable your making love and you cant get orgies it a mind thing,I use to agree with her but I'm not so sure about this she might be making love to her husband and call him jack his name is not jack and the first thing will come to his mind she cheating on me with Jack.. and he might hurt her. what can do to keep this from happen please help

2007-10-14 13:24:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

She's asked me about all kinds of things which some guys like but I don't want her to do that and some of it seems kind of demeaning actually but I know she'd do anything to make me happy.. I know it's weird but I really like her feet and I would just like to look at them and maybe kiss them... I know that's a little weird and I'm so embarassed to tell her but that would make me happier than pretty much anything else she could "do" for me.. Is that too weird and should I just tell her??

2007-10-14 13:18:57 · 13 answers · asked by Tyler L 2 in Singles & Dating

i'm not the hottest girl in the world but i know i'm good looking and i know he knows that. he persued me big time in the beginning. but since i wasn't ready for a relationship(he knew that too) i ended up treating him very poorly. i knew he wanted to be with me and did everything he could to get me. how do i make him want to get me back? i already apologized and told him i realized i really want to be with him and that i would change my ways. should i leave him alone for a little while? i'm younger than him, hotter, smart, admitted to be nicer to him, asked for forgiveness, he might have more money but i can potentially earn as much. it's only been two weeks and i've been blowing up his phone apologizing and to take me back.

2007-10-14 13:18:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have 4 boys and 1 girl and she is dating. My sons are very very over protective with her and who she sees. They screen her calls and watch her like a hawk. she is 17 and they are 23,20,18 and my 6 feet 13 yr. old. She is really tired of it, she feels she is a big girl and take care of herself. She is a tough girl but she wants her privacy. She feels her brothers are over bearing and embarassing. I have asked them to back of a little, she is a very pretty girl and has a very curved body for her age. Sometimes I look at as a good thing but maybe it could be a bad thing cause it could ruin her relationships. Her boyfriend is not intimidated by them,he understands they are just protecting her and has assured them that he won't hurt her. What should I do to stop them?

2007-10-14 13:18:29 · 5 answers · asked by debbiecc01 3 in Family

2007-10-14 13:16:54 · 28 answers · asked by Gabrielle 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-14 13:14:23 · 14 answers · asked by Patricia 3 in Friends

Ok well I use the perfume Refuge and another from Hollister(not at the same time lol). My brother say he loves the Refuge but hates Hollister. Which one is best (and others if others are better) If you don't know the names of the smell you like then try and describe it.

2007-10-14 13:13:03 · 5 answers · asked by Kaela C 2 in Singles & Dating

I discovered he was secretly calling a woman from his business cell phone, but deleting the call history on his phone. (I got access to his business cell account online)
I confronted him with this and he told me his calls to her were mostly business related, and she was just diagnosed with cancer, and he did consider her a friend, and called to check on her; he deletd the call history in fear that I wouldnt understand, and it just seemed like it would avoid more headaches than it was worth.
I didnt buy it, and kept ragging him about it, and the next thing I know, he's packing his sh*t and wanting a divorce. WTF!!!
Why such a drastic thing as a divorce over a supposed "friend". I was willing to half way believe him until he pulled the 'divorce thing'.
We have since reconciled, and I have dropped it. Do you think his story is legit, a coworker/friend with cancer, or do you think he was up to no good? (this woman lives in TX, and we live in Illinois, they met in an Army school)

2007-10-14 13:10:21 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've been seeing this guy for maybe a month now and he isn't trying to sleep with me. Never in my experience has this happened. The other night, we were fooling around and he suddenly asks me if I want to watch a movie (and unfortunately he wasn't talking porn). I was shocked, so I backed off big time. Then he starts explaining himself, saying that he wants to take things slow, that he doesn't take sex lightly, yadda yadda yadda.

What do I make of this? Is there something he's trying to hide, performance related, or could there be a better alternative explanation? (ie, one that doesn't make me want to end this now). He's a great guy, and were he great in the sack, I could definitely see myself with him. But the fear of the unknown is driving me crazy.

Any advice?


(Oh, I should mention, we're both in our upper 20's...ie, too old for this kind of silliness!)

2007-10-14 13:07:17 · 3 answers · asked by JenniferJ 2 in Singles & Dating

I am a 19 year old female. I recently went on a first date with this guy and afterwards, he invited me back to his place. I said sure, with intentions of just hanging out for a little bit then leaving.

At his apartment, he wanted to get physical, as in more than just making out. I did not want this. My friends say it was my mistake to say 'yes' to going back to his place. So should I fault him for being too forward (I'm not into guys that like to get physical so quickly) or is it my fault for saying yes when I should have followed the "rule" that an invitation back to the place equals "getting some"?

2007-10-14 13:03:35 · 6 answers · asked by BeachBoarder 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-14 12:59:07 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-14 12:53:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i really am because of everything that has been happening in my life.... what should i do???? i'm really scared and ya.....
mostly because of this one guy i love and he hates me......

2007-10-14 12:52:51 · 7 answers · asked by scaredkate 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Been with her for 4 years, totally faithful for all 4. We have been on a break now for 5 months, the reason for the break being that my girlfriend said she needed to figure her life out without me. We agreed that we can see other people. I ended up seeing a really good friend of hers at a bar one night, and later that night we ended up sleeping together. We agreed not to say anything about it, but I have an overwhelming sense of guilt. I know we are on a break, but I just slept with one of her friends. Should I tell her? Any advice welcomed.

2007-10-14 12:52:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If people are already asking if it's too young to have sex at the age of 14, I think 10 years from now you'll see questions like "Is having sex at the age of 8 okay?"

2007-10-14 12:51:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is my boyfriend an alcoholic?
My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year and ever since we started dating, i've realized he drinks almost every night. Some nights he drinks 20-30 beers or a lot of liquor or both. He's in the navy now and when he got out of boot camp all he could talk about was drinking again. Now he's stationed and he recently told me that if he didn't have to work everyday, he would drink 7 days a week instead of just on the weekends. Thats what made me realize that he may have a drinking problem. I confronted him about this but all he did was deny it and say he was getting off the phone and when I talked to him drunk he promised me that he would talk to me about it sober but I knew that he wouldn't but I tried anyways. What should I do? I feel like I'm running out of options

2007-10-14 12:49:31 · 6 answers · asked by Roxy 2 in Singles & Dating

mine are poetry,drawing,reading bible,computer,movies,music I like soft rock ,hip hop,pop,country and movies I like romance,family,comedy,action & adventure etc. I like shopping,cooking & gardening.I love my kids and pets.I wish my eye would get better thats my main concern now my eye my boyfriend online upset me so bad back in august ignoreing me for other women I cried and hollered so much something happen to my eye.Anyway list your hobbies & interests.Im trying to make friends since he is.

2007-10-14 12:49:16 · 6 answers · asked by shelia_duncan2006 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-14 12:49:09 · 31 answers · asked by lil one 1 in Friends

2007-10-14 12:46:39 · 14 answers · asked by Ari's Mom 1 in Singles & Dating

i have a guy who i thought was interested in me...however, i think he's been running a bunch of tests on me to figure out where my boundaries are. i want to call him out on this childish behavior. is this advisable given that i'm only maybe 70% sure these are tests done on purpose?

2007-10-14 12:41:21 · 2 answers · asked by moosekid 2 in Singles & Dating

How much do people typically pay for a wedding singer and pianist JUST for the ceremony? (We have a DJ for the reception.)

2007-10-14 12:39:16 · 4 answers · asked by Why? 5 in Weddings