She's asked me about all kinds of things which some guys like but I don't want her to do that and some of it seems kind of demeaning actually but I know she'd do anything to make me happy.. I know it's weird but I really like her feet and I would just like to look at them and maybe kiss them... I know that's a little weird and I'm so embarassed to tell her but that would make me happier than pretty much anything else she could "do" for me.. Is that too weird and should I just tell her??
2007-10-14 13:18:57 · 13 answers · asked by Tyler L 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should tell her.If that's what makes you happy you should share that with her.
You have to be an AMAZING guy to turn down her 'offers'.Seriously...she has no idea what she has.
2007-10-14 13:28:51 · answer #1 · answered by La Bella Via 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To quote the great Dan Savage: "Shun the honest foot fetishist now, be burdened by the dishonest necrophiliac later." It sounds like she's got a pretty open mind, and as far as fetishes go, a foot fetish is a relatively tame one. Next time she's asking you what would make you happy sexually, bring it up. I think you'll find yourself pleasantly surprised. If she freaks about about something that trivial, then may she forever be smitten with the earlier quoted Law of Fetish Karma.
2007-10-14 13:24:08 · answer #2 · answered by Mister Platinum 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
properly, i think of quite often that's her that desires to look for the professional help. i think of she has subjects with intercourse and he or she would be in a position to't recover from those subjects except she is going and talks to somebody. i think of it would additionally help if the two considered one of you went to couples counseling, yet no longer till she is going and talks to somebody on her very own first. enable her be certain what the actual undertaking is. She won't even comprehend what that's. She could be repressing some uncomfortable stuff. the only reason I say to attend on the couples counseling is as a results of the fact she could experience forced with you there and greater uncomfortable. remember to supply her time. If she tries to repair this undertaking than it ought to take a whilst, even nonetheless that's going to ultimately be fastened. on the different hand, if she refuses to purpose, than there is in common terms lots you're able to do. a individual gets married for diverse motives. considered one of those motives is to adventure intimacy. Intimacy and fervour are quite significant in a marriage. supply her time, yet do no longer enable it drag on perpetually. If she refuses to go and consult from somebody and maintains to no longer attempt to repair the priority, then you definately could desire to consult from her and enable her comprehend which you won't be able to be together with her if that's the way it is going to be. attempt to be in a marriage crammed with love and fervour. residing in a passionless marriage will in common terms make you unhappy. reliable success to you. desire each little thing works out.
2016-12-14 17:54:47 · answer #3 · answered by boven 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not too big a thing really and I think you should just tell her.. It's actually pretty common and it's not as weird as a lot of things that most people are in to..
2007-10-14 13:21:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Naw, that's not too weird. Lots of people have foot fetishes. Ask her if you can wash and rub her feet. Lots of people like that, unless she's ticklish. Be glad you have a girl who is asking what you like.
2007-10-14 13:23:19 · answer #5 · answered by Dan H 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Really you should just tell her. You will probably be suprised. She would probably be willing to do the things you are interested in, and might even be interested in trying the same things. I know this from personal experience. Trust me, just tell her!
2007-10-14 13:22:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok that is a little werid but just go with it. She is doing this to make you happy, if you don't tell her you might hurt her feelings.
But you can just tell her that you would rather not say and hope that she would respect that.
2007-10-14 13:23:45 · answer #7 · answered by Aron W 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well that is a fetish and that does indeed put it in the "weird" category. but it's not demeaning and it's not worrisome, so i would ask her and then ask what you can do for her.
2007-10-14 13:23:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just bow down and say " I am your foot slave"
then suck her toes
kiss her feet
lick her soles
your happy!
2007-10-16 09:40:08 · answer #9 · answered by sean w 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You could like, offer to give her a foot massage?
2007-10-14 13:46:43 · answer #10 · answered by Nostalgic Onyx 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋